Did i do the right thing?

[Antallica]

Heres the thing...

Me and my gf was out last night with my mate and her mate. We was in this park and we sat down on the grass, My gf however kept commenting on my mate and like huggin him. Me and my mate walked my 'gf' home. she gave my mate a hug and then went in. my mate however, said What the hell, why didn't she kiss you goodnight.

When i went in, i phoned her, And was like, What you playing at? You hardly spoke to me and when i walked you home you didnt even kiss me goodnight or hug me. She kept playing the innocent one, so then basically i just said, "you know what, forget it, were pretty much over now because clearly you dont want me no more" Then i put the phone down.

Do you think i did the right thing in that situation?

Thank you.
- Ant.

[DieselShaq]

Oh, you definitely did the right thing. It would be understandable if she kept talking to your mate, but not hugging him throughout and before you parted with her. If she basically ignored you throughout the course of the event, then there really is no point in having the relationship anymore.

[Paulio]

I'd of asked my mate what he was playing at aswell tbh.

[Antallica]

Yeah' im asking him that later.
If he says nothing.
a punch in the face will do him nicely.

[MissAlice]

She obviously has her eye on your mate, you definitely did the right thing. Sounds to me like your mate was embarassed by the fact that he asked why she didn't give you a kiss, while he had got a hug.

[Antallica]

Cheers people.

[cocaine]

i dont think your mate has anything against you, men dont turn down girls when they try and make moves on them, unless they're really repulsive or whatever.

you did the right thing and if she has a sister of similar sort of age, a "we're over and btw i slept with your sister" would have finished her off :D

[Bun]

yeh you done the right thing lol.

[Swearwolf]

sounds like a *****hhh

[Paulio]

If my mates lass made a move on me I'd turn her down lol.


i dont think your mate has anything against you, men dont turn down girls when they try and make moves on them, unless they're really repulsive or whatever.

you did the right thing and if she has a sister of similar sort of age, a "we're over and btw i slept with your sister" would have finished her off :D

[cocaine]

If my mates lass made a move on me I'd turn her down lol.

its cus ur gay isnt it paul? :D;)

[Paulio]

Nope!

Just a very good, good looking friend :D


its cus ur gay isnt it paul? :D;)

[Antallica]

i dont think your mate has anything against you, men dont turn down girls when they try and make moves on them, unless they're really repulsive or whatever.

you did the right thing and if she has a sister of similar sort of age, a "we're over and btw i slept with your sister" would have finished her off :D


She has a rather fit sister whos like a year older. :D

[Paulio]

And that's how you can get your own back ;)


She has a rather fit sister whos like a year older. :D

[buttons]

i dont think your mate has anything against you, men dont turn down girls when they try and make moves on them, unless they're really repulsive or whatever.

you did the right thing and if she has a sister of similar sort of age, a "we're over and btw i slept with your sister" would have finished her off :D
hell no @ the last bit lol, that would just start rumours + arguments.
although i did once tell an ex i fancied his sister & us dating would be awkward :8 even though i didn't really..
er she was maybe just tryna play hard to get and make u jealous but you shouldn't do that if you guys are actually going out so yh right thing!!

[Antallica]

Yum.
:)

[dbgtz]

Probably you did.

[Yoshimitsui]

Well you will find out how she feels if you speak to her again by her reaction. Have you spoke to her since?

[Antallica]

nope :S

[awelsh]

soundsl ike you did the right thing. However I dont think your mate really wanted any of that to happen, if i was him them I would have accepted the hugs too, becuase saying no to a hug is kinda odd. Hugs with friends mean very little btw, I get quite afew each day by many different people and not much is thought of them.

[Casual]

Yeah' im asking him that later.
If he says nothing.
a punch in the face will do him nicely.

You should tell your mate "Bros before ****" ;)

Friendships lasts longer than Relationships! Since a friend has been there all the time when your gf/bf has only been there for not even half the time of the mate :)

[Camy]

Yeah, I think you did the right thing, especially how she tried to act all innocent when you confronted her.

[le harry]

good work haha.