Missing mum..

[united-champ]

hi, tomorrow (sat) my mam is going all the way down to birmingham for a wedding fair, which is 4 hours away from where we live. she's going @ 6am and be there for 10. only problem is, i miss her alot. i mean when shes at work i am getting worked up in case sumit happens, i am 14 and just started to feel like this, my nan died 2 years ago this crimbo..

So i want to go with my mam to the wedding fair, only prob is, there might not be a ticket left when we get down, since they pre booked..

How can i deal with myself tomorrow, they wont be back until like 8pm ..

[Samishlol]

You need to calm down. I am sure your mum will be perfectly fine

[Aarcn]

Nothing is going to happen don't worry it's not tomorrow yet so you have no need to be worried you'll be ok

[Wayne]

Just ring her when she's there. Obviously not during the wedding though.

[buttons]

you need to learn to be responsible and to look after yourself. You're 14, you should be able to, you'll have to learn sometime!

[united-champ]

" Wedding Fair " not wedding.

Buttons, i understand what ursaying but i aint a socialable person. i am a big worryer, my head thinks about every outcome (or most).

which is very annoying!!

[buttons]

i know!! i used to worry when my mum was out late and i'd stay up all night waiting for her. just get a few dvds out for when she's away, something to keep you occupied and enjoy the time you have to yourself :P

[united-champ]

i aint on my own, i'm with my 'soon to be' step dad, mark.

hes ok, i want to go to the cinema but i know he wont take me.

[Swinkid]

tbh i used to be scared when my mum went out, i jsut stuck on HL2 and played it, its not ment to be scary but it does freak me out time to time, i think its because its like a "intense game" if you know what i mean, you jsut dont know whats behind the next corner.

But yeh ihave a think about scaring myself for some reason o.o

But yeh, dont worry about it, find somit else like a horror movie to scare you that much it wont make you think about your mum... :P

[united-champ]

how is ******** myself going to help the situation?

also, i am going to ask again if i can go down.

[5,5]

Go out wiht your friends to keep your mind off it.

[united-champ]

, i aint a social type

[Dan2nd]

I worry about my mum and dad to when they go away for the week end some times which is why I ask them to txt me when they arrive and txt me when the are heading home. That way I have an idea of where they are and it sorta puts my mind at rest :)

[united-champ]

thing is, everything reminds me of my mam, like stuff shes bought me.. and memories.. omg i sound liek a phsyco!

[5,5]

So what your saying it that you dont have any friends and your a mommas boy.
Why odnt you try to be the social type instead of going on forums rejecting everybodys help.

[united-champ]

that was innapropiate.
I know i cant blame a disorder but ihave been diagnosed with being on the 'Autistic Spectrum'

So, look it up 5,5

Also, i would be the social type but i like the comfort of my home, i aint rejecting help and i do have friends.

[5,5]

If you like the comfort of your home have your friends over.

[Jord]

Wow

You cant go without your mum for 8 hours...

[PaulMacC]

I was like this with my family until I was about 12, everything will be okay, just do things that take your mind off it, watch a few movies, play a game (ps2, xbox)

[e5]

I'ts only a day, wow dude, chill :> She's back now yeah?

[ToxicPaddy]

Jesus, you overreact for your mum going for just a day. I have gone longer without seeing my mum, get a grip.

[united-champ]

Shut it. Shes back now but i was worried yesterday K?
Ill -rep and +rep thoose who deserve it. giving me grief wasnt so smart!

[5,5]

Shut it. Shes back now but i was worried yesterday K?
Ill -rep and +rep thoose who deserve it. giving me grief wasnt so smart!
Lol oh boy your minus repping people.
Wanna cry about it some more?
Why dont you get a ******* life and stop coming on forums talking about how much of a cry baby mommas boy you are.