Does she like me?

[Phreedom]

Ok, so this girl I hadn't talked to all last year (I go to a very small school) I think might like me.... maybe not, that's why I'm asking.

Ok, so basically, a few weeks ago, I said something to her, and it turned into a conversation with her. She wanted my phone # so I gave it to her and she was happy... we started to talk a lot mostly through texts, unless we were at school (i'm in 5 of 7 classes with her) or football games. I make her laugh alot, she says I'm real funny, and at school I will look around and catch her looking near / at me and then she turns around real quick once I notice. And no, my hair isn't messed up and nothing is on my back or anything :P

We talk alot and she broke up with a guy a few months ago. She's amazing though, she's the nicest person I've ever met. She's really pretty, and has a great personality. She isn't a **** either. I don't know what to do. Don't give me crap like "tell her you like her," give me your opinions first.

[Florx]

I think you should just ask her out. Don't waste anytime and don't regret it.

[Leetzgirl]

Go for it...

[Phreedom]

What is your opinion though? Did you guys even read the last part?

[Florx]

OK my opinion is that you should waste less time asking total strangers on a forum and go and ask her for yourself.

We are not able to look into a crystal ball and predict the future nor are we able to tell wether a female that we do not know likes you based on the biased description above.

ASK HER.

[Pyroka]

I think you're just here to tell us about your amazing situation, and youre trying to make us jealous cuz of it. :P

Go for it dude, no other way to put it really.

[Goofy]

What is your opinion though? Did you guys even read the last part?
They probably did, but didn't really care, since the real answer to your "problem" is simply to go for it and ask her out, before it's too late?

And as for your question, it apparently kinda seems like she likes you. So yeah, why not take your chances and go out with her?

Oh, but here's a minus. If you go out, and it doesn't work out, you'll end up seeing each other alot because of the thing about having 5/7 classes together. So that might end up being kinda awkvard

But if you really like her, and think it might be worth the shot. Then i say go for it really ;]

[Phreedom]

They probably did, but didn't really care, since the real answer to your "problem" is simply to go for it and ask her out, before it's too late?

And as for your question, it apparently kinda seems like she likes you. So yeah, why not take your chances and go out with her?

Oh, but here's a minus. If you go out, and it doesn't work out, you'll end up seeing each other alot because of the thing about having 5/7 classes together. So that might end up being kinda awkvard

But if you really like her, and think it might be worth the shot. Then i say go for it really ;]
mk... i just dont know what to say... just be like "hey, so i really like you, do you want to go out with me?"

i dont exactly ask many people out - im picky & want to find good relationships that arent with *****

[LoveToStack]

Just send her a text or phone her and just say, do you want to just go into town or something today? She'll say yes, go into town, go have lunch or w/e, then hold her hand so she KNOWS what's happening. She obvs likes you and you like her.

[Florx]

Just send her a text or phone her and just say, do you want to just go into town or something today? She'll say yes, go into town, go have lunch or w/e, then hold her hand so she KNOWS what's happening. She obvs likes you and you like her.
Sorry but no it's never obvious when described in a biased way like above.

[Leetzgirl]

mk... i just dont know what to say... just be like "hey, so i really like you, do you want to go out with me?"

i dont exactly ask many people out - im picky & want to find good relationships that arent with *****


yehh something like that, but maybe more in a sweet way?

for me example, i took her on the field with her dog (dont bring the dog unless you want her being dragged or yourself being dragged :rolleyes:) anyways, we talked, and i said i wanted to tell her something..but she just went in and snogged my facee off. I asked her soon after.

Hold her hand or something, maybe kiss her. becasue if you cant hold her hands when your not going out, then it not really speical..

[LoveToStack]

Sorry but no it's never obvious when described in a biased way like above.

It IS obvious. Did you read his post? She clearly likes him.

[Phreedom]

It IS obvious. Did you read his post? She clearly likes him.
:)



Also, it's a bit different here... heh. How about at a football game? Like when we are both about to go home, I can ask her then. I'm from america by the way, so it's a bit different sort of.

Oh, and by the way, today, we had a joke about sour skittles for a couple weeks. And so today, when I got to school, she asked me if I brought her some skittles. I reached to get them and gave them to her and she said aww thanks and she said "I love you" (of course not real love but you know), and the next period she was cold and asked me for my jacket.. it wasn't cold in there, so ya know.... :P

EDIT: I don't think I told you guys, but I'm... let me think of how to word it..

I'm the guy she talks to most I guess?

[Paulio]

Personally, I wouldn't go str8 for the kill and ask her out. You have her number, send her some cute texts or maybe some kinky texts. Obviously don't send her kinky tects str8 away, make sure she likes you first.

What I always do is like.. when I go off MSN for a bit, say summin like "did you miss me" and also give her a few x's every now and then.

[Phreedom]

Personally, I wouldn't go str8 for the kill and ask her out. You have her number, send her some cute texts or maybe some kinky texts. Obviously don't send her kinky tects str8 away, make sure she likes you first.

What I always do is like.. when I go off MSN for a bit, say summin like "did you miss me" and also give her a few x's every now and then.
I always send her cute messages. She just laughs and keeps talking to me.

Off-topic: By the way, I laughed at your signature.

[Paulio]

Does she reply with cute messages?


I always send her cute messages. She just laughs and keeps talking to me.

[Phreedom]

Does she reply with cute messages?
Sometimes I guess? She isn't the most flirtatious girl, but I like that.. Most girls flirt with every guy and thankfully she isn't like that.

Also, I always put song lyrics and funny pick up lines in text messages and she laughs or we discuss (also more jokes between me and her). Any idea what I should send her that isn't real fruity or attachy or whatever, but sweet?

[Paulio]

Send her a cheesey chat up line like "get ur coat u've pulled" and see what she says lmao.


Sometimes I guess? She isn't the most flirtatious girl, but I like that.. Most girls flirt with every guy and thankfully she isn't like that.

Also, I always put song lyrics and funny pick up lines in text messages and she laughs or we discuss (also more jokes between me and her). Any idea what I should send her that isn't real fruity or attachy or whatever, but sweet?

[Phreedom]

Send her a cheesey chat up line like "get ur coat u've pulled" and see what she says lmao.

lmao i'm from the south and from the usa, i really doubt she will know what that means hahahaha!

i do know what that means though, only cause I know basically almost every term. ive sent her funny pick up lines like

if you were a chicken, you'd be impeccable.
you're the hottest thing since sunburn

stuff like that she laughs at. google is my best friend.

also i sent her one text one time and it was :

If I could be anythnig, i'd be a tear:
Born in your eye
Live at your cheek
Die at your lips


then she replied and was like "woh that's deep"


:P

[Casual]

Heard that before :P

But send funny ones :]

[5,5]

I think you should ask her out.

[Phreedom]

i'm just scared of rejection... i mean what if she likes me but doesn't want to go out?

[angel329]

Awwwwwwwwww!
Sounds like true love to me :]
I would just maybe try and find out if she likes you from her friends..?
or just go ahead and ask her out or on a date :)
Do what u feel is right Okay
x

[Phreedom]

Awwwwwwwwww!
Sounds like true love to me :]
I would just maybe try and find out if she likes you from her friends..?
or just go ahead and ask her out or on a date :)
Do what u feel is right Okay
x

but her friends will tell her and what if she doesnt like me? she might not even want to be friends with me... some girls are like that. i know im not losing anything since im not even with her yet (if i ever do get with her), but i just dont know...

[LoveToStack]

i'm just scared of rejection... i mean what if she likes me but doesn't want to go out?

Common sense FAIL. I'm sure she does like you and you obvs like her, and about you saying what if she doesnt etc, what if she does? Asking her and having her say no is better than not knowing what would have happened at all. It is aslo good to know that people look @ you differently and, proven fact here, find you more attractive if they know you find them attractive.

[Loqo]

You know the answer yourself. I know how you feel, you dont want to be rejected because maybe she 'Just wants to be friends' but it obviously sounds that she likes you, go for it, she might be waiting for it, who knows?

[Wig44.]

You have mentioned tell-tale signs of attraction. You can communicate well, she looks in your direction and at you a lot and when you look around she looks away quickly etc...

You are in the EASIEST situation there is to ask a girl out. You can EASILY catch her alone because you are friends, and the fact you are friends means it is less awkward. If she does reject you then accept it. But all you need to do is be confident, reflect that in your body language, catch her alone in the right environment and tell her how you feel. Don't be too quick but be calm and CONTROLLED. The fact you like her is flattery and it is one of the main things girls like.

[Phreedom]

You have mentioned tell-tale signs of attraction. You can communicate well, she looks in your direction and at you a lot and when you look around she looks away quickly etc...

You are in the EASIEST situation there is to ask a girl out. You can EASILY catch her alone because you are friends, and the fact you are friends means it is less awkward. If she does reject you then accept it. But all you need to do is be confident, reflect that in your body language, catch her alone in the right environment and tell her how you feel. Don't be too quick but be calm and CONTROLLED. The fact you like her is flattery and it is one of the main things girls like.

mk. thanks for the advice. i might ask her out... should i tell her i like her first? like before i ever ask her out or should i tell her it before i ask her out :S

[LoveToStack]

I'm sure she will catch on to the fact that you like her as you ask her out. aside from that sarcastic comment, she most probably knows you like her too as we all know you do :D and could very well be waiting for you to ask her out.

[Andeeh]

She seems to like ya son just get her alone sometime nd den ask her if she says no just be friends.

Also chat up line for ya "Im no fred flinstone but i sure no how to make ur bed rock"

Never fails ;)

[Wig44.]

She seems to like ya son just get her alone sometime nd den ask her if she says no just be friends.

Also chat up line for ya "Im no fred flinstone but i sure no how to make ur bed rock"

Never fails ;)

LOL maybe save that for when she comes around your house? ;)
And ask her out, and express your feelings. If you get rejected (im certain you wont be) then she is either confused, or feels guilty or worried about possibly jeapordising your friendship if things go wrong. But that is unlikely to happen and when it does they will tell you but you can normally make it work :)

[LoveToStack]

Are chu from Jamaica? Cause jamai-can me CRAZY?! lmao.

[Phreedom]

Are chu from Jamaica? Cause jamai-can me CRAZY?! lmao.
i totally just texted her that. hahahaha im just scared she doesnt like me, but you guys say she probably does... idk what to do.

[LoveToStack]

She totally does, dw, if your friends and it turns out she doesnt then you'll be able to get past it, it's not like you'll feel this way forever. You're worrying about it way too much, relationships are to be enjoyed.

[Phreedom]

She totally does, dw, if your friends and it turns out she doesnt then you'll be able to get past it, it's not like you'll feel this way forever. You're worrying about it way too much, relationships are to be enjoyed.

yeah i know :/ i'm just scared of rejection.

[sock]

ask her out, if she says no, then just say 'can we still be friends?'

[Phreedom]

I give up on this. I always sit by her at games and stuff. Some guy comes that she knows and she hugs him and loads of crap like she misses him (which she doesn't do to me). Also, she talks about some guy that she hasn't even met and asks if he has a pretty smile and acts like she wants to meet him so badly. I don't think she likes me.

[Hated]

she hates u

[Phreedom]

she hates u

haven't done anything to her.

[mk]

well thats the way it goes tbh she will kind of flirt with other guys
u just need to text her get into a conversation and ask her half way through
do you like me?

her: what do you mean?

you: would you ever date me?

her: YESS I WOULD :d

seriously just go for it, as others as said if it backfires ask if you can still be friends & at least it will get it of your chest so you wont feel like your keeping it all to yourself

trust me it will work ;)

[Jack.Lfc]

aww bless, i think you should just turn gay.

[RockyHorror]

I give up on this. I always sit by her at games and stuff. Some guy comes that she knows and she hugs him and loads of crap like she misses him (which she doesn't do to me). Also, she talks about some guy that she hasn't even met and asks if he has a pretty smile and acts like she wants to meet him so badly. I don't think she likes me.

Maybe she’s trying to stir a reaction from you?

You've got nothing to loose from asking her out? Other than a little pride if she says no, weigh that to the possibility of her saying yes and you should realise its worth asking her and finding out.

Good luck on whatever you decide is the best option for you.

[Indie-Dan]

Speaking from personal experience, I say you don't hang around, ask her out as soon as you can. I got way too friendly with a girl once and when I went to ask her out, she said no because we were "just friends, and going out would ruin our good friendship".

Not saying that that would happen to you, but just be wary. Good luch :)

[Phreedom]

Speaking from personal experience, I say you don't hang around, ask her out as soon as you can. I got way too friendly with a girl once and when I went to ask her out, she said no because we were "just friends, and going out would ruin our good friendship".

Not saying that that would happen to you, but just be wary. Good luch :)

daang, thanks... i might try it.

[Suspective]

I can understand what your saying - I think, you should ask her out. I was invovled in a situation like this recently - and I asked her out and am going out with her at the moment. I really, can understand why your nervous - we all are! :)

Good Luck - Hope I Helped!,

[Phreedom]

I can understand what your saying - I think, you should ask her out. I was invovled in a situation like this recently - and I asked her out and am going out with her at the moment. I really, can understand why your nervous - we all are! :)

Good Luck - Hope I Helped!,




even after i stated she was like different with the other boys and whatever i said above?

[Imnotpure]

Obviously likes you, my opinion is exactly that, ask her or tell her.

[Phreedom]

I told a few of her friends i liked her, then i told em i think she probably doesn't like me though and they would say stuff like: i bet she would like you

like one of her friends said that, and they hang out a bit. sooo yeah

[Sir.Gold]

So how did it all go
are u buttering her muffin yet?

[Phreedom]

So how did it all go
are u buttering her muffin yet?
havent done anything yet, takin it slow.