Sick of life atm.

[dbgtz]

I know I don't really do this but I really don't know what to do.
OK so basically at home my mums cousins and her cousins daughter came around. So they called me for dinner (I didn't go because it was something I didn't want - and they knew that). So basically they called me at 7, half 7 ish. Now my mum just realised I hadn't got it 3 HOURS LATER!
Thats not really the problem, that just made me crack.

Problem 1 - My brother/Dad
He whines, he shouts, whines some more, hits me and all of my family (as a 'joke') and basically my dad is a suckup to him. My brother acts really nice to get something he wants then when he gets it hes really horrid again after and my dad threats him like he wont get him something or lend him money, but he never does it. Whenever I ask for something I don't whine I wait and I seem to still get the short end of the stick?
Also my dad completely ignores me or hits me (as a 'joke') all the time and im bloody sick of it, I even tell them both to stop it.

Problem 2 - Complete **** heads. (delib starred).
Theres this complete idiot around my area who thinks hes suddenly 'cool' because he's hanging around with the 'cool' people and the other day called me sad and frigid because I use the computer a bit more then I should and because I don't hang around with girls often (am not gay :P). Yet hes the one always on bebo, always on msn etc. Plus he can talk, all he hangs around with is girls. Hes got 21 bebo pictures, discluding him he has about 3 with boys in. Suspicious much? haha.

Problem 3 - Hypocrits
This is general people but my dad is always like "Ask to use something of mine and put it back after" yet my mums cousins daughters wanted to use MY air hockey table (smallish one, not a big one you find in bowling alleys and stuff) which I got for MY BIRTHDAY a few years back which I STILL USE now and then yet he didn't ask or even tell me.
Another one is like the one above, he called me sad but hes always on msn and that.

Problem 4 - Liers
I'm not friends with him anymore but I was a few years back and I told him all of my deepest secrets and guess what, he blurted them out and blamed them on someone else. Apparently he had been listening over us when I was at his house, just me and him (LOL).
He also had loads of lies just stupid ones, I asked if he liked something, he was like YERR and when he came over the next day he was like "Whats that?"

Anyway I needed to let that out :)

[dirrty]

all those problems are average tbh.
problem 1 - thats siblings for ya
problem 2 - thats teenagers for ya
problem 3 - thats parents for ya
problem 4 - thats friends for ya

think u get the point...

[dbgtz]

Not really if it goes on and on and on even though I tell them to stop.

[camera]

I know I don't really do this but I really don't know what to do.
OK so basically at home my mums cousins and her cousins daughter came around. So they called me for dinner (I didn't go because it was something I didn't want - and they knew that). So basically they called me at 7, half 7 ish. Now my mum just realised I hadn't got it 3 HOURS LATER!
Thats not really the problem, that just made me crack.

Problem 1 - My brother/Dad
He whines, he shouts, whines some more, hits me and all of my family (as a 'joke') and basically my dad is a suckup to him. My brother acts really nice to get something he wants then when he gets it hes really horrid again after and my dad threats him like he wont get him something or lend him money, but he never does it. Whenever I ask for something I don't whine I wait and I seem to still get the short end of the stick?
Also my dad completely ignores me or hits me (as a 'joke') all the time and im bloody sick of it, I even tell them both to stop it.

Problem 2 - Complete **** heads. (delib starred).
Theres this complete idiot around my area who thinks hes suddenly 'cool' because he's hanging around with the 'cool' people and the other day called me sad and frigid because I use the computer a bit more then I should and because I don't hang around with girls often (am not gay :P). Yet hes the one always on bebo, always on msn etc. Plus he can talk, all he hangs around with is girls. Hes got 21 bebo pictures, discluding him he has about 3 with boys in. Suspicious much? haha.

Problem 3 - Hypocrits
This is general people but my dad is always like "Ask to use something of mine and put it back after" yet my mums cousins daughters wanted to use MY air hockey table (smallish one, not a big one you find in bowling alleys and stuff) which I got for MY BIRTHDAY a few years back which I STILL USE now and then yet he didn't ask or even tell me.
Another one is like the one above, he called me sad but hes always on msn and that.

Problem 4 - Liers
I'm not friends with him anymore but I was a few years back and I told him all of my deepest secrets and guess what, he blurted them out and blamed them on someone else. Apparently he had been listening over us when I was at his house, just me and him (LOL).
He also had loads of lies just stupid ones, I asked if he liked something, he was like YERR and when he came over the next day he was like "Whats that?"

Anyway I needed to let that out :)
1. Happens all the time
2. See them all the time
3. Happens all the time
4. I experienced that quite recently. It was very annoying. but im over it now.

Lifes like this. What can we do, right?

[LoveToStack]

I understand what you're saying but what zah says also makes sense. It just seems like that's the way they are rather than you.
I wouldn't say 'that's life' because no one in my family has ever hit me except for my sister and even then it's not asif she was trying to hurt me.

[dbgtz]

2 and 4 happen often but the main thing is I had to let off steam because I was utterly annoyed with people and kept all of this bottled inside for years.

[camera]

I understand what you're saying but what zah says also makes sense. It just seems like that's the way they are rather than you.
I wouldn't say 'that's life' because no one in my family has ever hit me except for my sister and even then it's not asif she was trying to hurt me.
osoz, thats life for me :P

iknow how it feels bottling up so muchh.
its like all the problems grow and you just cant keep it in for long because you might actually explode. like go *BOOM*
anyway, youll get used to it.

[Fez]

I'm in a philosophical mood so let me tell you something friend, life is a drag - these people and things won't stop clawing at you until your dead. Life is not to be chosen by yourself, your life is to be dragged along by everyone else - including your family. Get used to it, and you might have moments of happiness in your life.

tl;dr version : no u

[Phreedom]

all those problems are average tbh.
problem 1 - thats siblings for ya
problem 2 - thats teenagers for ya
problem 3 - thats parents for ya
problem 4 - thats friends for ya

think u get the point...
All in all: That's life. Life sucks by the way, also for me.

[N-Dubz]

i swear ppl lyk u just sit down all day THINKING of problems to worry about.

[Jackboy]

How old are you?

Becuase if your my age i can give ya advice :D

[e5]

If ur dad dus it for a joke go along with it? :S Don't get sick of it if he's just trying to have a laugh with you. You need to cheer up a bit.

[GrebSkeb]

your young atm your going through puberty so you feel loads of different emotions and usually anger is the most common or depression but youll get through it

[Anflex]

It's good to have a good old rant online sometimes as you can say stuff that you otherwise might not say in real life. Like you said, good to get it off your chest.

With problem 1, there is always sybling rivalry. One child always feels outdone by the other and sometimes feels they are treated worse than the other(s). This is normal and I'm pretty sure everyone feels like this at some point in their life. But when you grow up and look back you realise that it wasn't as bad as you felt it was at the time. You can see why your parents made the decisions they did and then you start singing 'Mama' by the Spice girls. :eusa_whis ;) - As for your Dad hitting you as a joke, this is something that I know one of my friends went through. I think Dads sometimes do that to toughen their sons up if they appear to be insecure/weak/lacking confidence (no offense intended). So take it with a pinch of salt.

Problem 2, sorry to repeat what's already been said by others but you really do get people like this everywhere in life. I know from personal experience. There is always someone that thinks the sun shines out of their backside and that they're cool. It's easier said then done but you really should just ignore it. If there were as cool as they think they are, they wouldn't feel the need to constantly rub it in peoples face. The fact they try and make it obvious to people that they're 'better then you' or 'cooler then you' is probably their own insecure way of making themselves feel better about themselves. When really they are extremely pathetic and people see right through it.

Problem 4. That person is clearly not a friend if they blurt out your secrets so you are better off without them. I had a friend like that once and I can honestly say that once got rid of them from my life... things got better. Good ridence to bad rubbish was my moto at the time xD

[CrazyColaist]

dnt b an emo!!!!!

fink of the gd fings atm xx

[Imnotpure]

dnt b an emo!!!!!

fink of the gd fings atm xx

Define 'emo'.

For the hypocrit thing, I also hate hypocrits alot. Although I must be hypocritical sometimes, I try not to be.

The best way to tackle a hypocrit would be to tell them they are and why they are, they usualy shut up and stop doing it.

[Nuka-Cola]

if u need let some steam off just get a punch bag or start boxing or karate