Life is garbage

[Phreedom]

Ok, so no girls like me.
I don't have a close friend, never have.
I hate myself.
I'm always depressed.
I can't freakin smile.
I've had a horrible week.
Today was the worst day I've had in my life almost.
I feel like nobody cares for me.
I feel like a loner.

I don't even know what to do in my life.

[Wayne]

Have you tried making friends and that?

[Phreedom]

Have you tried making friends and that?
Private school - small amount of people. I have a few friends, but they aren't close and don't really understand me that great to know how I'm feeling and cheer me up.

[buttons]

Ok, so no girls like me.
I don't have a close friend, never have.
I hate myself.
I'm always depressed.
I can't freakin smile.
I've had a horrible week.
Today was the worst day I've had in my life almost.
I feel like nobody cares for me.
I feel like a loner.

I don't even know what to do in my life.
that's life, everyone has bad things.
who cares if girls don't like you lol it's not the end of the world you don't need girls until you're older when they have to COOK and clean after you :) nah i'm joking.
it's probably hormones sometimes i feel like nobody cares or nobody understands but i'm sure they do. i dunno about mates though, it's like the one thing you really need in life, invite them round? find friends that have the same interests as you if you wanna have close friends but you aint gonna get any sittin here "depressed" (which you aren't) you've gotta go out and do it for yourself.

[dbgtz]

I feel like you except all I do is smile :D
Except I have friends (not close). Try getting out more, doing more for the community, charity work maybe?

[dirrty]

if you dont get what you want in life, then fight for them.
- if you dont have a lot of friends, get out there more and attempt to build bridges. if your good at anything, sports, computing etc. then join a club.
if girls dont like you, think to yourself why and compare yourself to those who get all the girls, and possibly modify your style to theirs a bit, but still keeping your individuality.
- if you think you are truely depressed and not a 'teen phase', then go to a doctor, and he may refer you to someone who you can talk too, and you'll feel better after. if not, then talk to family members and maybe they could help you with your problems.

[myke]

Life is what you make it ;)

Life is too short to worry about all the "crap", just work on what's good in your life and make it better.

[Indie-Dan]

You're just going through a phase, it will all come together eventually, trust me.

[Loqo]

I agree with a lot of the other posts, it will be just a phase your going through, try searching on the internet ways of becoming more sociable. If girls dont like you, dont worry, their will definitely be someone out their for you, I can assure you. Just keep 'trying' to stay happy, better then bringing yourself down more and more. One life, live it!

[Auspice]

I used to feel similar to that, but I realised that life is too short to worry about things like that. You'll get through this phase love, trust me.

[camera]

Ok, so no girls like me.
I don't have a close friend, never have.
I hate myself.
I'm always depressed.
I can't freakin smile.
I've had a horrible week.
Today was the worst day I've had in my life almost.
I feel like nobody cares for me.
I feel like a loner.

I don't even know what to do in my life.
i think we all feel that way once in awhile.
you'll get over it :)
just move on i guess.

[Hitman]

I've also felt like this once, but after a while you realise things aren't so bad and then you focus on the good things in life. Peoples lives can change so quickly, my life has changed very dramatically the past two years. I was very very down two years ago, now I'm pretty happy and doing well in school, have some close friends and enjoy life.

It is too short, as Monkey Mike said, you have to enjoy it whilst it's here.

[united-champ]

I feel like that every week. :(

You just gotta think about the positives, make friends, go out with em..

[flyingbrick]

Like HST said;
"Some of us get rich and others eat **** and die."

It's a tough game, stick it out.
Things might get better

[Digital]

Life sucks, face it.... Just try make the most of it :) tell ur mam that u wanna move school?

[Earthquake]

dont tell us, tell your parents! theyll move you schools!

[N-Dubz]

Ok, so no girls like me.
I don't have a close friend, never have.
I hate myself.
I'm always depressed.
I can't freakin smile.
I've had a horrible week.
Today was the worst day I've had in my life almost.
I feel like nobody cares for me.
I feel like a loner.

I don't even know what to do in my life.

we arnt all perfect, nobody is even if they try front that they have a good life & if you realy want close friends maybe look outside of private school?go to clubs, or just down your street or are their any youth clubs about lol? & we all have days when we feel down or hate ourselves. .. and no girls like you? that aint no biggy really lol, change your appearance then? get a confidence boost. maybe when you start making friends, a girl will start to like you?
your parents care for you no matter what!! aha stop feeling sorry for yourself.

[Sir.Gold]

Go into music best thing for you
start writing music and get a band together.

[Imnotpure]

http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa165/Imnotpure/Stuff/bob_marley.jpg

[Arch]

Well put imnotpure!!! :)

[Expresions]

mate you need to work on your confidence and self esteem. join some sort of club a football team or summit. this way you can meet new people, feel like your a part of something and i'm positive you will begin to feel better about yourself. In terms of girls thats up to you to make an effort with em pal, just act yourself and have a laugh is all i do man.

[J0SH]

Well make friends and don't rush yourself into a relationship wait till you time comes :P

[RedStratocas]

i firmly believe that if you don't love yourself, it's impossible for others to love you. all your problems start with your own feelings about yourself. so forget about girls and friends and find something that you like and makes you happy, then everything else will fall into place.

[Herman]

I felt that way last year. I kept thinking that I was a horrible person and I would never be loved or would never have true friends and be accepted for who I am.

But then I realised how stupid it was to feel so upset and sorry for yourself all the time. It's true, life is short, and life is what you make of it.

If you tell yourself, I am going to have a good day, you WILL have a good day. It's all in the mindset.

[Jamie!]

I've got a rope in my garage if you need one, mate. Just give me a PM...


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[e5]

Why not try moving to a more public school. Most people at private schools are stuck up and you'll neve get along with them much, just change the way you think, the way you dress and even the way you are? If you're unhappy with yourself, change it for the better :) Or this is thread relating to that girl you liked?

[.Zi]

life is what you make it, if you make a rollercoaster you get a rollercoaster, if you want the teacups you get it, its up to you just change it, get out and make freinds, fight for them! Its down to you.

[RedStratocas]

Go into music best thing for you
start writing music and get a band together.

what if he isnt interested? its not like everyone finds happiness in music. the point is to try and find something that makes you happy at all. it doesnt have to be music.

[Phreedom]

I've got a rope in my garage if you need one, mate. Just give me a PM...
You are the biggest *******.

[Jamie!]

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Get a grip.

[roocus]

dont worry most of us have felt like this at one point, i can assure you things will get better as you get older and people mature.

[iMegz.]

I believe that life is what you make it. It's all very good and well complaining that your life is rubbish and everything but at the end of the day it's down to you to do something about it because you're the only one who can help yourself. I went through a rough time and I came to realise that at the end of it was down to me to turn things around. I'm not saying it's easy but with small steps you'll get there. I'm sure there as many clubs and activities that you could take part in after school and during the weekend, that way you would be taking part in something you enjoy and getting to know new people. Plus, don't worry about not having any girls that like you, there is someone out there for everyone and I'm sure that person will take you by suprise. :)

Very best of luck and feel free to PM me if you fancy a chat sometime. :D

[Foals]

i believe you are what's known as an emo

[Sir.Gold]

what if he isnt interested? its not like everyone finds happiness in music. the point is to try and find something that makes you happy at all. it doesnt have to be music.


Well it is a way to get his feelings out may it be music or poetry.
It was only a suggesting.

[Imnotpure]

i believe you are what's known as an emo

Define emo.

[Foals]

Define emo.
Scum .


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[Imnotpure]

Scum .

I think you've got it mixed with chav.

[Phreedom]

i'm fine now

[Ostinato]

i'm fine now

Hopefully you can take from this now then, looking back on the issue, that there is times you will feel lower and higher than others. By posting this and looking back now, it is letting you reflect on the perhaps sadness you felt when you created the thread - but at least now you can realise in future that you actually came to terms with it all a while later and after thinking and sorting it all through you are actually okay.

There will probably be down times you will feel like it all again, but just try and think back to this last post you made and how you got through it again.

[united-champ]

Also. Emo stands for Emotionally Unstable / Disturbed.

[Foals]

I think you've got it mixed with chav.
err, i didn't. i mean, chavs are just as bad, but my god emos are revolting in every way.

[Access]

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[buttons]

http://i38.tinypic.com/sphq1l.jpg
oh...my...god

[drama]

it's chin-chan!
http://i38.tinypic.com/sphq1l.jpg

[Imnotpure]

err, i didn't. i mean, chavs are just as bad, but my god emos are revolting in every way.

Chavs are so much worse lol

[drama]

Chavs are so much worse lol
Chavs are more extreme in the things they do/way they are to make them hated, but Emo's just get under my skin so badly it's unbeleivable.

[Imnotpure]

Imo emos are far more quiet. Chavs just live to piss people off

[drama]

Imo emos are far more quiet. Chavs just live to piss people off
yeah, but (and i know im generalising all emos, but hey i love labels and what they carry), the whole 'im so unique, look at all my unique friends around me who look identical' thing some emos have piss me off.

along with the so 'my life is so difficult, im white middle class with a normal life i can't cope' which again, some seem to carry.