Dumping a girl..

[friday]

Yeah.. basically she annoys me now.
She tells me we should spend time yet shes the one who never comes to me i leave my friends and she don't its so annoying.

How may i let her down easily ?

And may her friends moan at me ?

[prophet muhammad]

Just tell her that you arn't ready for a relationship yet and tell her you'd like it if you and her could still be m8s. As for her friend, if she says anything to you, tell her where to go. It isn't any of her business.

[Madox]

" Ive Been Think and This RealtionShip is Not getting Anywere were both young and we both have a soical life, i wish we could just be friends sorry "

[J0SH]

You made a thread about this the other day..

[dirrty]

y dont u read ur previous thread on her to figure out...

[lolwut]

Her friends will moan at you but that always happens.
And I hate to say it but there's never ever a easy way to break up. You just have to say it as nicely as you can (ex: "ohai, im sorry but i dont think we're working out. i think its better for us both if we're just friends. sorry, but its for the best.. x").

Whatever you do, the best way (but by no means the easiest) to dump someone is face to face, via text or MSN makes you look like a coward and make her think you're too scared to face her.
And via the phone or getting someone else to do it for you will tell her that you're too lazy/scared to face her.

This is horrible and I'm sure I'll get some negative reps for this, but you could try being a really, really bad boyfriend to get her to dump you if you don't want to? (Use your imagination on how to be a bad boyfriend. ;))

Sorry, but that's the way it is (most of the time).

[BowTies1]

just say your annoying me. i dont want to see you anymore

[chantellehugs]

Her friends may moan at you, it depends on how well friends you are with her friends. About the breaking up part, no clue. I've seen it with my friends but their reasons were because of their parents.

[CJW93]

Tell her to **** off and you want 100% of the compensation

[Nuka-Cola]

if you like her let her down easy, tell her your not really ready for a girlfriend at the moment because of things in your life.#

If you dont want to let her down easy tell her, its your own fault because you never make an effort even though i always do ,( then walk off leaving her dumbfound )

[RedStratocas]

Her friends will moan at you but that always happens.
And I hate to say it but there's never ever a easy way to break up. You just have to say it as nicely as you can (ex: "ohai, im sorry but i dont think we're working out. i think its better for us both if we're just friends. sorry, but its for the best.. x").

Whatever you do, the best way (but by no means the easiest) to dump someone is face to face, via text or MSN makes you look like a coward and make her think you're too scared to face her.
And via the phone or getting someone else to do it for you will tell her that you're too lazy/scared to face her.

This is horrible and I'm sure I'll get some negative reps for this, but you could try being a really, really bad boyfriend to get her to dump you if you don't want to? (Use your imagination on how to be a bad boyfriend. ;))

Sorry, but that's the way it is (most of the time).

nawww cause then that makes her bitter twards men in general. its a good solution for the person breaking up, but not for everyone else lol. its better to do the breaking up to be honest, and as weird as it sounds, even explain why to them if you can. cause you might be done with her but at least youre giving her something to think about and learn from the relationship. which is really what its all about.

[5,5]

Tell her that shes annoying and that its over. :D

[CJW93]

Say shes a fat dirty *****

[deeveeNoh]

two words, "i'm gay".

[camera]

Yeah she'll moan at you.
Then moan at her friends, and they'll in turn attack you.

No way to avoid that unless the girl doesnt feel ya too.

[inVe]

"It's not me, it's you."

[Ali]

this is different but when i broke up with my boyfriend i just went up to him and started chatting for a bit and then i just told him the problems i was having and said about how i still wanted to be friends.
so it was like slipping it into a convo, and that worked for me.

[AJKHoosier1]

if shes hot, don't dump.. if she isn't hot, dump

[Skajo]

if shes hot, don't dump.. if she isn't hot, dump
You're incredibly shallow.

[PaintYourTarget]

Chris Brown it mate.

[MizMe93]

forward this thread to her.

[FlyingJesus]

Cheat on her it's easier and then when she finds out she'll break up with you and problem solved

[leah]

Although I hate to agree with FJ
it would be a pretty good idea
but I guess it would upset her

[Melsia]

I think cheating on her would break her heart more than just breaking up with her. Theres no nice way to do it, but jsut try and be respectful about the relationship you had together.

[luce]

who cares what her friends say they were going out with you?

and just say the truth but cut out the insulting bits :P

[Lee.Norman]

Just be honest... But be nice about it. You may get abused and blamed for a short while, but it will stop after a few days

[5,5]

Ignore her until she gets the picture