stalker?

[Abbie.]

This guy has been infatiated with me for 6 years k

well, he has autism, and when i was wee, i felt sorry for him and me and my friend Chris would call at his door and talk to him for about 5mins, and because i was nice to him, he sorta liked me a bit too much.

he started posting things in my letter box, and then call back for them the next day when i didnt want them.

He follows me about school, and stands waiting for me round every bloody corner. Which is ok, but hes 6'4 and VERY imtimiating lol..

HMM well today, i was talking to my teacher, and he ran up to the teacher and was like 'I HATE HER I HATE HER :@' and i thought he was going to hit me.

so i walked off with hannah, and he ran at us like 'IM OVER U I HATE U, YOU WASTED 6 YEARS OF MY LIFE :@' and im like 'right..?' and hannah was like 'ok, i think we get the point.. leave her alone' and then he started yelling again. I dont lead him on, never have, never will LOL.

BUT ive found out, he keeps going up to EVERYONE like 'shes the most beautiful girl in the world, but i found out shes a jerk!!' and ive had random people come up to me telling me they feel sorry for me, because hes telling everyone he loves me and when i leave school, hes leaving.

OH yea, and he sat and punched an apple into peices in the canteen today according to my sister pretending it was me lol.....

oh, and apparently he tells everyone that hes going to buy me all this stuff and that he has special things planned for me

ANYWAY, should i go to a teacher about it, ive been told i shouldnt approach him because he might go over the edge lol... meh :(

[jrh2002]

i give up lol just report it.

[Geraint]

Oh, sorry about that. I can't help really liking you :(

Seriously? 6 years? Wth? You must be doing something that turns him on. Have some fun with it and make it look like you actually like him.

[Abbie.]

im going to have too

lol.. someone came into work when i was putting out the milk, and hugged me and said 'i heard about your stalker.' and walked off

i was like OO RIGHT OK BYE?


awk poor guy tho, he has no friends, and im the only person who keeps him in school, and i dont talk to him and he freaks me out.



he accused someone of being my bf and keeps harassing him LOL

[Geraint]

im going to have too

lol.. someone came into work when i was putting out the milk, and hugged me and said 'i heard about your stalker.' and walked off

i was like OO RIGHT OK BYE?


awk poor guy tho, he has no friends, and im the only person who keeps him in school, and i dont talk to him and he freaks me out.



he accused someone of being my bf and keeps harassing him LOL

Beat him up. Embarrass him.

[Abbie.]

Beat him up. Embarrass him.


noo, im not mean srsly, i am nice to him, i wouldnt be rude to him, he gets enough stick already

[Geraint]

noo, im not mean srsly, i am nice to him, i wouldnt be rude to him, he gets enough stick already

But, surely, by being nice to a guy that you don't want to like you, it makes the whole situation. Be nasty and maybe he will get the message.

[Abbie.]

But, surely, by being nice to a guy that you don't want to like you, it makes the whole situation. Be nasty and maybe he will get the message.

he has autism remember, if im mean, he'd actually go over the edge

i avoid him, alot, like i'll walk the other direction if i see him etc, so i dont talk to him to be nice to him, but if i had the chance, i wouldnt be mean, if u know what i mean lol

[FlyingJesus]

BUT ive found out, he keeps going up to EVERYONE like 'shes the most beautiful girl in the world, but i found out shes a jerk!!'

If you're hot it doesn't matter if you're a jerk tbh

And just stay out his way, unless you wanna lap up some attention from it all lol, that's always a good plan

[Abbie.]

If you're hot it doesn't matter if you're a jerk tbh

And just stay out his way, unless you wanna lap up some attention from it all lol, that's always a good plan

im not a jerk tho LOL
im really nice actually!

[Geraint]

im not a jerk tho LOL
im really nice actually!

Yes, but in his eyes, you're being a jerk to him.

[prophet muhammad]

Say somthing about it lol. He might end up kidnappin you or summin lol.

[Abbie.]

Yes, but in his eyes, you're being a jerk to him.

its a difficuit situation to be in lol :(


Say somthing about it lol. He might end up kidnappin you or summin lol.

hmm he could try. i have actually nearly broke his nose once when i was 13

i was on my friends trampoline and he grabbed me and wouldnt get go. was scary LOL

[Panda]

you should defo tell someone. because you obviously don't feel safe around him.

creepy guy :|

[prophet muhammad]

foofin ell lol.. do summin about it lol. ask your mum or wotever to go into school and say summin about it to ur tutor, head of year or w.e


its a difficuit situation to be in lol :(



hmm he could try. i have actually nearly broke his nose once when i was 13

i was on my friends trampoline and he grabbed me and wouldnt get go. was scary LOL

[Abbie.]

you should defo tell someone. because you obviously don't feel safe around him.

creepy guy :|

LOL people where telling me off for feeling sorry for him, they were all being soo mean, and i was like 'awww dont be so mean :('



oh, my mum is thinking about talking to his dad and telling him to leave me alone lol..
i was told to go to the teacher incharge of child protection :S
but im going to his head of year

[Panda]

you're just too nice abbie :( lol

[Abbie.]

omg he started crying to this random guy about me lol :|

freaked outttt much

he 'still really loves' me.

i really dont know what i did to make him love me????

[Rozi]

Proberly be the only decent person to actually talk to him as a friend, not a "wierdo". Hes just taken your trying to be nice to him as somthing more. But deffo tell someone, as he does seem a bit obsessed o.o

[camera]

This guy has been infatiated with me for 6 years k

well, he has autism, and when i was wee, i felt sorry for him and me and my friend Chris would call at his door and talk to him for about 5mins, and because i was nice to him, he sorta liked me a bit too much.

he started posting things in my letter box, and then call back for them the next day when i didnt want them.

He follows me about school, and stands waiting for me round every bloody corner. Which is ok, but hes 6'4 and VERY imtimiating lol..

HMM well today, i was talking to my teacher, and he ran up to the teacher and was like 'I HATE HER I HATE HER :@' and i thought he was going to hit me.

so i walked off with hannah, and he ran at us like 'IM OVER U I HATE U, YOU WASTED 6 YEARS OF MY LIFE :@' and im like 'right..?' and hannah was like 'ok, i think we get the point.. leave her alone' and then he started yelling again. I dont lead him on, never have, never will LOL.

BUT ive found out, he keeps going up to EVERYONE like 'shes the most beautiful girl in the world, but i found out shes a jerk!!' and ive had random people come up to me telling me they feel sorry for me, because hes telling everyone he loves me and when i leave school, hes leaving.

OH yea, and he sat and punched an apple into peices in the canteen today according to my sister pretending it was me lol.....

oh, and apparently he tells everyone that hes going to buy me all this stuff and that he has special things planned for me

ANYWAY, should i go to a teacher about it, ive been told i shouldnt approach him because he might go over the edge lol... meh :(


dude like u shd totally tell ur teacher and rly do something about it.
he seems pretty violent

[Abbie.]

dude like u shd totally tell ur teacher and rly do something about it.
he seems pretty violent

i told one, and he was like 'he cant help it, he has autism'

:@

[Imnotpure]

this will end in suicide or murder

[5,5]

Just sit down with him and gently break up with him, even though your not going out with him lol.
but it sounds like he sorta thinks you guys are. or he wants to think you guys are.

[dirrty]

i told one, and he was like 'he cant help it, he has autism'

:@
i HATE it when teachers say that. there was this autistic kid in ma class between year 6-9 and he was a **** to put it blunty, and whatever he did the teachers were like "he has autism, its not his fault".

deffo do summit to sort it all out, cuz of how u've described him, it seems like he'll do something crazy towards u in the future. like of mice and men if u've read the book/seen film before.

[Swinkid]

Proberly be the only decent person to actually talk to him as a friend, not a "wierdo". Hes just taken your trying to be nice to him as somthing more. But deffo tell someone, as he does seem a bit obsessed o.o

Yeh, sounds more obsessed than my girlfriend o.o

But yeh at original post, tell someone, he could try doin somit to you.


this will end in suicide or murder

To much Pkin for you mr....

Jokes ;)

[Imnotpure]

I'm serious, hes either going to go crazy and kill someone, including himself, or someones going to kill him.

[Swinkid]

I'm serious, hes either going to go crazy and kill someone, including himself, or someones going to kill him.

Like the family guy episode where meg gets obsessed with brian?!

But yeh, it could end that way if its not sorted now.

[Imnotpure]

Shoot him.

[Abbie.]

Just sit down with him and gently break up with him, even though your not going out with him lol.
but it sounds like he sorta thinks you guys are. or he wants to think you guys are.

break up with him?? LOL that makes it sound like i was with him in the 1st place??

and im not allowed to approach him, or say anything like that to him, he actually might do something stupid to himself or end up hitting me


i HATE it when teachers say that. there was this autistic kid in ma class between year 6-9 and he was a **** to put it blunty, and whatever he did the teachers were like "he has autism, its not his fault".

deffo do summit to sort it all out, cuz of how u've described him, it seems like he'll do something crazy towards u in the future. like of mice and men if u've read the book/seen film before.

i have mice and men sitting in my room LOL yea, i know im going to see someone about it on monday, even tho they'll do nothing about it

it is really annoying me though.

[Trinity]

Try like, standing on the other side of a fence and telling him to leave you alone. That way, he can't hurt you if he gets angry :)
But yeah, make sure you let the head of year/head teacher people know, and try to avoid being on your own when he's around.

Or you could always just let him buy you stuff, if you're gonna get stalked you might as well get something out of it ;)

[Abbie.]

omg i was talking to someone in his class today, and apparently he took a full really scary fit/rant about how he shouldnt have told me he didnt like me lol....


i didnt see someone today, because hannah wasnt in, and i want to go with hannah because i dont want to go by myself lol.

[Pyroka]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

GOD I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU BUT LOLIRL.

[Abbie.]

LOL RYAN

i was walking to my bus stop right

and it was only me and him walking in opposite directions on the footpath, and i was just like 'dont look up, dont look up, dont look up..'

:(!!

[Minstrels]

Abbie want me to come round and knock him out?

[Abbie.]

LOL MATTY

u should have been on msn the other night, all the old habbofm ones from years ago were in a convo, and i had this massive arguement and it was so fun. do u know with the really old granny kim who goes on habbo and e-dates little children??? YEA HER :@ LOL


yea. i have alot of guys asking to hit him for me rofl
not NO TY LOL.

[Minstrels]

lol what mugs, fighting over msn. I'd merk 'em. Why can't I shank him? :(

[Abbie.]

lol what mugs, fighting over msn. I'd merk 'em. Why can't I shank him? :(

she couldnt think of anything to insult me with, so she had all these immature insults about makeup being made from whales, and im like 'LOL (Y)!' FREE WILLY

[Minstrels]

shes like 20 odd and plays habbo. simple as.

[Tbh.]

give him a sympathy ****

[Abbie.]

give him a sympathy ****

your not funny soz


hmm lol.. a teacher stopped me and told me to go see the head about it

and another girl stopped me and said hes planning my 18th and hes inviting the foo fighers

i lol'd

hahahaha

[Trinity]

your not funny soz


hmm lol.. a teacher stopped me and told me to go see the head about it

and another girl stopped me and said hes planning my 18th and hes inviting the foo fighers

i lol'd

hahahaha

Haha, can I come? :)
And have the teachers/head teacher done anything about him yet?

[Abbie.]

Haha, can I come? :)
And have the teachers/head teacher done anything about him yet?

i wonder if he thinks they'll turn up lmaooooo


i either have to go to the headmaster, or the senior teacher in the school
im waiting for hannah to come in with me :(

[Trinity]

i wonder if he thinks they'll turn up lmaooooo


i either have to go to the headmaster, or the senior teacher in the school
im waiting for hannah to come in with me :(

Go in by yourself, you need to get him sorted, he sounds pretty dangerous tbh.

Or you could wait and see if foo fighters turn up ;)

[Lulz]

when i went to school, their was a boy in most of my lessons alike this. but he'd like. trying to like, get with my mates, like try and kiss them and stuff.

:S it's proper werid cus you feel bad to say like "piss off" becuase of the medical problems with them, but you really have to. after i did, he left most of them alone so it's ok.

best advice, tell him "your not getting in my pants" and he'll leave you alone.

[3cww]

with his autisim he probs wont leave you alone but you have got to be careful wat u say to him cos it could get dangerous otherwise

i had dis stalker wen i was in year 5 and 6.my mum went and spoke to his mum and we had to get the head teacher involed and he did back off a bit and den i started secondary school and he hasnt stalked me much since

[le harry]

i HATE it when teachers say that. there was this autistic kid in ma class between year 6-9 and he was a **** to put it blunty, and whatever he did the teachers were like "he has autism, its not his fault".

deffo do summit to sort it all out, cuz of how u've described him, it seems like he'll do something crazy towards u in the future. like of mice and men if u've read the book/seen film before.

bu..bu..b..bu...but.. george

[Abbie.]

i think he knows my timetable aswell because he kept turning up in my classes today asking to see the teacher

i'll go about it tomorrow, i suppose i'll have to sometime.

[CJW93]

This guy has been infatiated with me for 6 years k

well, he has autism, and when i was wee, i felt sorry for him and me and my friend Chris would call at his door and talk to him for about 5mins, and because i was nice to him, he sorta liked me a bit too much.

he started posting things in my letter box, and then call back for them the next day when i didnt want them.

He follows me about school, and stands waiting for me round every bloody corner. Which is ok, but hes 6'4 and VERY imtimiating lol..

HMM well today, i was talking to my teacher, and he ran up to the teacher and was like 'I HATE HER I HATE HER :@' and i thought he was going to hit me.

so i walked off with hannah, and he ran at us like 'IM OVER U I HATE U, YOU WASTED 6 YEARS OF MY LIFE :@' and im like 'right..?' and hannah was like 'ok, i think we get the point.. leave her alone' and then he started yelling again. I dont lead him on, never have, never will LOL.

BUT ive found out, he keeps going up to EVERYONE like 'shes the most beautiful girl in the world, but i found out shes a jerk!!' and ive had random people come up to me telling me they feel sorry for me, because hes telling everyone he loves me and when i leave school, hes leaving.

OH yea, and he sat and punched an apple into peices in the canteen today according to my sister pretending it was me lol.....

oh, and apparently he tells everyone that hes going to buy me all this stuff and that he has special things planned for me

ANYWAY, should i go to a teacher about it, ive been told i shouldnt approach him because he might go over the edge lol... meh :(

Lol at that part, sounds pretty serious, that guy needs help

[Imnotpure]

kill him you dont have much time left

[buttons]

right ok one minute he's sayin he hates u and hes over you and wasted 6 years of his life now he's planning somethin special for you?? oh god, that sounds pretty scary.

talk to his parents, they'll do somethin 'bout it. or scream at you. ha. but if he's got autism surely he has someone he goes to see that helps him with it and his parents can talk to them 'bout it, go to doctors etc.


oh and i had a stalker once except he was quite alot older and he had learning disabilities aswell, went to police bout him and he wasn't allowed in a certain distance with him and i'm not allowed anywhere near where he lives :P

[Abbie.]

i dont know what to do anymore :(

id feel bad if i went to anyone about it because yeah idk

he keeps somehow being right behind me when theres like 200 people in a corridor, and i cant get away because theres too many midgets in the way :@

[Clowgon]

Are you CRAZY? Let him spoil you with expensive gifts and then.. Tell the Teacher! :P

[cocaine]

talk to someone he's close to like a carer, parent, mentor or friend (apart from you of course;) )

they'll know him best and they'll be able to break it slowly to him

[Metric1]

he's sexually excited for you, let him have something..

no, i have been in situations like that where you're nice to somebody and then they won't **** off, i don't know how i got rid of them, but they went away. now i don't get involved in those situations.

[Imnotpure]

i still suggest you kill it with fire asap.

[Abbie.]

the teacher pulled me out of the common room today to talk to me LOL


so hopefully she'll sort it tomorow

[woweezanant]

DO NOT BEAT HIM UP. DONT BE A JERK. D: I LOVE how you're nice to him. Carry on!

Why does he start being mean to you? It doesnt quite sum it up. Please don't be mean to him. He is autistic! He can't really understand whats going on. I'm sure he doesn't understand how you are actually a lovely person, very kind, and doesn't mean anything badly. Don't change that. Please.

[woweezanant]

i still suggest you kill it with fire asap.

No! :(

[jackass]

Gutted, having a stalker can't be fun.


DO NOT BEAT HIM UP. DONT BE A JERK. D: I LOVE how you're nice to him. Carry on!

Why does he start being mean to you? It doesnt quite sum it up. Please don't be mean to him. He is autistic! He can't really understand whats going on. I'm sure he doesn't understand how you are actually a lovely person, very kind, and doesn't mean anything badly. Don't change that. Please.

Are you him lol? :O

[Bun]

DO NOT BEAT HIM UP. DONT BE A JERK. D: I LOVE how you're nice to him. Carry on!

Why does he start being mean to you? It doesnt quite sum it up. Please don't be mean to him. He is autistic! He can't really understand whats going on. I'm sure he doesn't understand how you are actually a lovely person, very kind, and doesn't mean anything badly. Don't change that. Please.
looks like that camera he installed in your room has found out you use this forum, and he's found you on it :D ^.

[Abbie.]

DO NOT BEAT HIM UP. DONT BE A JERK. D: I LOVE how you're nice to him. Carry on!

Why does he start being mean to you? It doesnt quite sum it up. Please don't be mean to him. He is autistic! He can't really understand whats going on. I'm sure he doesn't understand how you are actually a lovely person, very kind, and doesn't mean anything badly. Don't change that. Please.


srsly zip it, being austistic is no excuse, hes not THAT austistic that hes a dumdum because he is actually smart.

hes mean to me becauses hes in love with me and i dont even like him because he freaks me out with all things he does.


srsly ARE YOU HIM?

[TAYLOOOOR1]

I think you should just say u feel uncomorftable with him following you. If he then doesn't listen speak to a teacher

[Ras]

any update on this? kinda entertaining lol

[Casual]

abbie, you should stalk him :P

[Abbie.]

well since the teacher spoke to him, its kinda stopped, but when he walks past me, he fully stares and gives me evil looks LMAO

[Casual]

You should see what hes thinking! hes going to come after you one day when you aren't expecting it!

[Phreedom]

ask HIM out and then dump him the day after

[Imp!]

But don't people with autism have a totally different prespective on... everything? My cousin has autism but not in the way yours sounds. Mine will contiually question why you are there for example today
"Hi Liam""Hi why are you here?" "We need to get some logs from your garage" "why do you need logs" so we can light a fire" "whose going to light the fire?" "mum or dad" then he'll walk off. He can also tell you what day you were born on if you tell him the date of your birthday for example date,month and year and he can memorise a tv guide off by scanning it.

[buttons]

But don't people with autism have a totally different prespective on... everything? My cousin has autism but not in the way yours sounds. Mine will contiually question why you are there for example today
"Hi Liam""Hi why are you here?" "We need to get some logs from your garage" "why do you need logs" so we can light a fire" "whose going to light the fire?" "mum or dad" then he'll walk off. He can also tell you what day you were born on if you tell him the date of your birthday for example date,month and year and he can memorise a tv guide off by scanning it.
yeah that's true. my mums best friends son is autistic and i don't really remember him being violent or aggresive. he asks alot of questions like you said.

[luce]

if he has autisum or w.e talk to his parents coz he's ill so yano they could talk to him/

[leah]

That's actually scary. I agree with Jen, tell his parents, but also tell your teacher, and try and stay as far away from him as possible.

[Casual]

So hows Mr. Stalker then these days?

[Abbie.]

bless him, hes too scared to even talk about me incase he gets into trouble lolol

[Casual]

awww you scared him =[

[Livv]

I remember in grade 1, There was a guy who had autism and they had a room made onto the classroom with a locked door and they used to put him in there until he would calm down. The walls were made of carpet aswell as the floor so he couldn't hurt himself and they had like, chicken wire on the window so he wouldn't break it and I swear, he would of.
He used to kick the doors and screaming and the teacher nearly fainted, haha.
And that was the year that that teacher told me how to remember zebra. a zebra wearing a bra? zomg..

[J0SH]

I'll stop my ways, very sorry Abbie. :(

[Imnotpure]

You killed him yet?

[Abbie.]

nope, hes too scared to come near me LOL

i now have chavs that come and annoy me in work from my school, they decided to jump on a big thing of kitchen rolls and knock them all over, and my manager went mad and barred them all, was funny tho. lol

[Casual]

Bully!

its because they've got nothing better to do than piss people off :rolleyes:

[Imnotpure]

Honestly slit his throat and it will be all over.

[squeaky]

Beat him up. Embarrass him.

i'm sorry dude, worst advice ever. especially to an autistic kid! in my school there are autistic kids everywhere and i know from what i saw that they can be very emotional about this stuff.

[Bef]

hmm its an awkward one. autistics oftan have problems understanding emotions which i think is the main issue hear. he knows he has feelings for u and doesnt no what ther r. the problem is they also sometimes have problems with understanding right from wrong which can b very dangerous in situatons like yours. i really think u need to make sure his parents no about what is going on so they can deal with it as he may hurt himself or u. even if he has backed off a bit now u should stil make sure they no. autistics oftan have simarly problems with ocds where they perform rituals, dislike or love certin thigs obsessivly and therfor there not really known to giv up things easily.

[quizshow]

oh, and apparently he tells everyone that hes going to buy me all this stuff and that he has special things planned for me


http://www.slephoto.com/smilies/Gonna_get_raped_cat.png

Hes going to rape you, just go to his house alone and bring a weapon and kill the guy. Were does he live give me his address I will kill this mentally challenged fool.

[Sepron]

Say his disabled and a ******, and you dont like him and should get a gun and shoot himself, or go out with another person like the toaster

[SamP]

Let the ppl getting paid to solve these situations solve it, that’s the best thing you can do in a “stalker” situation.

[Mathew]

My Mum is a SENCO officer which is aimed for helping out chidren with special needs and autism.

I daresay I have picked up a few things which would be best in this situation. You need to tell him straight exactly what you think. If you can get your Dad to go see his parents, even better. He will listen to his parents, trust me. Walking in the opposite direction isn't a good idea. If he gets bullied at school, he needs someone like you just to be a good friend to him and to comfort him.

Put yourself in his shoes. You're an autistic kid with one friend who turns out to be really nice. She then turns against you whenever you try to talk to her. Work with him, help him. Tell him you don't want a relationship but would like to continue being friends.

[Wig44.]

My Mum is a SENCO officer which is aimed for helping out chidren with special needs and autism.

I daresay I have picked up a few things which would be best in this situation. You need to tell him straight exactly what you think. If you can get your Dad to go see his parents, even better. He will listen to his parents, trust me. Walking in the opposite direction isn't a good idea. If he gets bullied at school, he needs someone like you just to be a good friend to him and to comfort him.

Put yourself in his shoes. You're an autistic kid with one friend who turns out to be really nice. She then turns against you whenever you try to talk to her. Work with him, help him. Tell him you don't want a relationship but would like to continue being friends.


Lol that wouldn't work at all. That wouldn't work even on someone who is normal (bad way of putting it)

[Casual]

abbie bullies him now.

[Abbie.]

i think i broke his heart

i feel bad lololol

[Casual]

thats mean!

i hope you do! and does he even like look at you or anything anymore lol?

[Abbie.]

no hes too scared too

but i didnt go to the teacher, about 2 came to me about it, so im gald its sorted because it was getting out of hand




but like, i was gettin a lift home by my mate the other day, and some ****** shouted matthews girl at me :@:@

[Casual]

no hes too scared too

but i didnt go to the teacher, about 2 came to me about it, so im gald its sorted because it was getting out of hand




but like, i was gettin a lift home by my mate the other day, and some ****** shouted matthews girl at me :@:@

aww well it would be weird having someone follow you round etc flattering at first then it'd be like yeah go away?

i guesss the autistic guy is called matthew? meh ignoree em bet they wish someone actually like em :D