I'm 18, she just turned 16, need opinion.

[Tylenol]

I need opinions, this girl I like just recently turned 16, and I am 19 in May. Do you think that the age cap would be frowned apon by others? or is this not unussual. http://clubhabboforum.info/images/smilies/sad.gif

Please say what you need to. Thanks!

[brandon]

It's only 2 years and a bit and you're both legal.

[Tylenol]

It's only 2 years and a bit and you're both legal.

It's not about being legal... What do you mean by legal?

[RareIce]

ive kinda got the same problem but if you like her, it really doesnt matter 2 years and abit isnt that much

[Yoshimitsui]

At the end of the day it's how you both feel about each other not what other people may think. Two years is not mutch of a difference just some people are that way out to say things about the gap or they don't understand.

And he means that you are both at/over the age of consent.

[FlyingJesus]

If she's hot do it

[brandon]

It's not about being legal... What do you mean by legal?
Think about it, if you were legal and she wasn't you'd get frowned upon a lot more. And I mean the legal age to have sex.

[J0SH]

Well if she was 15 and you would have had sex it would have been against the law and you could of been locked up for a few years ;)

[Tylenol]

Think about it, if you were legal and she wasn't you'd get frowned upon a lot more. And I mean the legal age to have sex.

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

[camera]

I need opinions, this girl I like just recently turned 16, and I am 19 in May. Do you think that the age cap would be frowned apon by others? or is this not unussual. http://clubhabboforum.info/images/smilies/sad.gif

Please say what you need to. Thanks!
its not unusual lol.
loads of my friends dated guys over 20

[Tylenol]

Well if she was 15 and you would have had sex it would have been against the law and you could of been locked up for a few years ;)

Here it's not like that.

[Yoshimitsui]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

Maybe not, but to do it legally there is!

[J0SH]

Well I'll answer your question, it's only a few years, it's perfectly normal. I know my friends parents who are like 20 years apart :S But they're old now so it's normal, but as you're only a few years it's fine.

[Ostinato]

In all honesty I think the question you should be asking is whether or not YOU have a problem with the age gap - not what others think about it.

If you like this girl and think you 2 could make a go of things then seriously, what is 2 years or so? Surely you would rather look back in a few times and iether still be with her andbe happy, or be happy that you tried it out and seen how things went rather than just giving up at the first hurdle because you are too worried about the age gap! If you don't carry it through because of something petty, then I tell you now - you will look back and question what could have came out of it.

However, on the other hand you need to have a hard think and decide whether you yourself have any sort of issue with it. Having such an age gap can raise problems for instance with the groups of friends you will be involved in and you'll maybe wanna do things she isn't able too yet or whatever.

To sum up :P haha I just think you need to review your own opinion on it and then go with what your gut instict is. Don't get hung up on what other peoples think because it's what you care about that matters.

[brandon]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.
I know I'm right, but whatever. I'm not saying that you're going to have sex I'm just saying you would get a lot more criticism if she wasn't legal. Because if you WERE having sex then it would be illegal and therefore you'd get more criticism.

Edit - If it's different in your country then fair enough.

[Nemo]

Well I'll answer your question, it's only a few years, it's perfectly normal. I know my friends parents who are like 20 years apart :S But they're old now so it's normal, but as you're only a few years it's fine.
20 years aint normal at any age O.o

[J0SH]

20 years aint normal at any age O.o

The guys like 40 she's like 20, maybe she likes older men :P

[Jam]

My friends parents are about 50 & 62.

[FlyingJesus]

And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

I like your thinking! Hahaha jk

[buttons]

what you're 18 and not "all interested" in sex, crazyyy. nah i'm joking. My brother is 19 and he is datin a 17 year old, she was 16 at the beginning of the relationship, and no-one said nothing. it's not a big deal really. i dated a 19 year old when i was 14 and no1 said anything bout that either, er...

[FlyingJesus]

Lying down with someone on top of you for a couple of minutes a day doesn't count as dating

[Clowgon]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

Lmao. So im 14 and i'm walking down the street and i see a girl who is 8. I have sex with her. I'm so happy because im not going to get arrested or be put on the peado list. Wooo :rolleyes:

[Tylenol]

Update: I asked her out today, the answer was not what I was expecting, but still not great, I got "I will think about it, lets hang out more often". What does this usually mean?

[LouisCollins]

Means she likes you more as a friend, And wants to get to know you a bit better,

And dude tbh, If you like her go for it, Your both legal so no one can say anything

stay strong and if you reallly do "like / love" her this thread wouldn't be here now i qoute.

"I would do anything for love"

[Tylenol]

Means she likes you more as a friend, And wants to get to know you a bit better,

And dude tbh, If you like her go for it, Your both legal so no one can say anything

stay strong and if you reallly do "like / love" her this thread wouldn't be here now i qoute.

"I would do anything for love"

I was going to ask her out anyways. This thread was just to see what people think about the age gap. She's amazing, I wouldn't have cared what others say :D

[Bun]

reminds me of a song...



"he's not sure what he should do, she's seventeen, he's 22. is that too much of a difference?"

[jackass]

And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

Yes there is, it's 16. :S

[Rapidshare]

Yes there is, it's 16. :S


dont worry

he the jackass.

[leah]

I like your thinking! Hahaha jk
I lol'd but I shouldn't
baaaaaad Tom!

[luce]

Yes there is, it's 16. :S

Not really. if i wanted to have sex tomorrow i could my body wouldn't shut down becuase oh no im not 16!

it's like saying You can't kill someone.. Yet it doesn't stop them just becuase you can't.

[Rapidshare]

Not really. if i wanted to have sex tomorrow i could my body wouldn't shut down becuase oh no im not 16!

it's like saying You can't kill someone.. Yet it doesn't stop them just becuase you can't.


were talking about the law, i think we know that we wouldnt die from sex :rolleyes:

[FlyingJesus]

Dunno made my ex pass out before

[Rapidshare]

Dunno made my ex pass out before


just too good for her eh? ;)

[Bun]

Dunno made my ex pass out before
nah she just fell asleep ;).

[Minstrels]

Bang that thing boy!

[Mitch4?]

one of my best friends whose now 17 is going out with a 21 year old,
they started dating when she was 15 and he was 19,
bigger age gap and no one really said anything,
people were like :O! at first, but nothing more.

[Jamie!]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.
lol virgin

[Jasxn]

nah, two years difference is cool, go ahead with it tbh.

[Earthquake]

just get your leg over and teech her a lesson dating older guys. sorted.