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buttons
24-11-2008, 05:13 PM
kk so i was with a guy on and off for ages, would've been a year round bout this time yeh.
i think we dated on and off total of 4 times lol shows what kinda relationship we had + i dated someone else for a month or so in between that time.

in august or somethin tho he finished with me saying he'd just carry on breakin my heart blah blah whatever and that i deserve better than him. which i do tho, he used to always pick friends over me and would hardly come see me :( & he said that was our relationship totally over.

but he texted me askin if i wanted to give it another go. & i'm welllll confused coz he told me i deserve better than him but i think that was an excuse just to get outta our relationship:S nd well fing is i'll never see him coz i'm grounded (coz im nt 16 i can't really do nout bout it) till i'm 16 lolll apparently!! but he sayz we can still av a relationship

i dnt think we can. i no it's only like a month to wait lol (he duznt go to school) & i like someone else atm but i can't do nothin bout that either. should i just tell him no not until i get to see him or no 'cause of the way he's playin me bout or yes give him anotha chance OMG i dunno. fnx.

Affreux
24-11-2008, 05:15 PM
Like you said to like someone else, don't give that looser the satisfation.
One of my friends is similar to you, she was with this guy for a few months and he treated her like crap but she finished with him through my advice but she still thinks she likes him but she often tells me she is much happier than she was.

buttons
24-11-2008, 05:22 PM
Like you said to like someone else, don't give that looser the satisfation.
One of my friends is similar to you, she was with this guy for a few months and he treated her like crap but she finished with him through my advice but she still thinks she likes him but she often tells me she is much happier than she was.
oh true. i spent most of time moaning bout him. & yeh it's maybe cause she was with him a long time like me, so i guess i spent too much time wiv him n got used to his ways but i don't actually no if i still like him.

Clowgon
24-11-2008, 05:32 PM
No. Why? Because that loser will keep breaking your heart. My advice?
Go out there experiment and just have fun! If you do get back with him it probs be over within a month or so. Move on, never go back to the past.

H
24-11-2008, 07:36 PM
If your previous relationship didn't work the first time round, it isn't going to work again the second time. If you broke up 4 times during that year, is it really going to work getting back with him? Especially if he hurt you aswell. There are plentyyyy of guys who would be willing to make you happy. You don't deserve to be upset so I'd stay single and wait for the right guy to come along.

buttons
24-11-2008, 07:39 PM
No. Why? Because that loser will keep breaking your heart. My advice?
Go out there experiment and just have fun! If you do get back with him it probs be over within a month or so. Move on, never go back to the past.


If your previous relationship didn't work the first time round, it isn't going to work again the second time. If you broke up 4 times during that year, is it really going to work getting back with him? Especially if he hurt you aswell. There are plentyyyy of guys who would be willing to make you happy. You don't deserve to be upset so I'd stay single and wait for the right guy to come along.
oh god. these weren't the replies i wanted, but i know it's true. lol o well. i guess it's a no then "/

Malachy
24-11-2008, 07:42 PM
Don't give him another chance. If he broke your heart, you break his. Go for it with the guy you actually like.

scottish
24-11-2008, 07:43 PM
free sex

Swinkid
24-11-2008, 08:35 PM
free sex

maybe shes not a **** ;)

Anyways yeh, i dont think you should give him a chance...

Love you Jen <3

buttons
24-11-2008, 08:42 PM
free sex
whtz sex??? :S god

maybe shes not a **** ;)

Anyways yeh, i dont think you should give him a chance...

Love you Jen <3
i dunno y i asked tbh.
i'll probably end up sayin ye again.

leah
25-11-2008, 11:49 AM
Put your foot down!
Be strong womaannn!!
Tell him, No because you need a bf who spends time with you... basically tell him what you want him to be like and then he might say "Ill do that" and it could make him change for the better? :)

camera
25-11-2008, 12:01 PM
**** jen omg ha this sounded like what one of my annoying "friend" is going through.
basically, they broke up but guy doesnt give up. then they patched up like recently because this friend of mine feels guilty about it. but yesterday they broke up again because she says shes not feeling it so she went to text him about it.

I think you shouldnt go back to him.

MissAlice
25-11-2008, 12:02 PM
kk so i was with a guy on and off for ages, would've been a year round bout this time yeh.
i think we dated on and off total of 4 times lol shows what kinda relationship we had + i dated someone else for a month or so in between that time.

in august or somethin tho he finished with me saying he'd just carry on breakin my heart blah blah whatever and that i deserve better than him. which i do tho, he used to always pick friends over me and would hardly come see me :( & he said that was our relationship totally over.

but he texted me askin if i wanted to give it another go. & i'm welllll confused coz he told me i deserve better than him but i think that was an excuse just to get outta our relationship:S nd well fing is i'll never see him coz i'm grounded (coz im nt 16 i can't really do nout bout it) till i'm 16 lolll apparently!! but he sayz we can still av a relationship

i dnt think we can. i no it's only like a month to wait lol (he duznt go to school) & i like someone else atm but i can't do nothin bout that either. should i just tell him no not until i get to see him or no 'cause of the way he's playin me bout or yes give him anotha chance OMG i dunno. fnx.

It's your life, you openly admit you like someone else, so you must of lost interest in him, move on in my opinion. On the one hand he admits you deserve better, and then treats you like a puppet, he pulls your strings when it suits him. So how long before he changes his mind again, and tells you it was wrong to try again? Keep your self respect and don't bother with him :)

J0SH
25-11-2008, 12:17 PM
If you take him back, he'll 'break your heart' again, he even admitted it :P I'd say find someone else as their are plenty of paracetamols in the sea.

Earthquake
27-11-2008, 03:03 AM
lol i wish i could **** you jen

FlyingJesus
27-11-2008, 01:16 PM
maybe shes not a ****


Keep your self respect

Some people don't know Jen very well huh :8 haha

THE MILKY BAR KID IS STRONG AND TOUGH
AND ONLY THE BEST IS GOOD ENOUGH
HE MIGHT TELL YOU THAT HE'S IN LOVE
BUT DON'T LET HIM NEAR THAT UNDERAGE MUFF

Basically. Go for the moustache man instead

buttons
27-11-2008, 01:27 PM
nice poem and great advice but no thanks @ moustache man.
hmmm he did text me yesterday but he didn't ask anythin else 'bout it just sorta like "hi how ya doing" so i dunno maybe he didn't mean it then lol nevermind

prophet muhammad
28-11-2008, 04:55 PM
He's after sex.

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