Mums boyfriend hit me.

[Describe]

So he comes home a little drunk with my mum who's completley sober. Of course when my mum says something thats completley out of hand to my nineteen year old sister, she begins to cry and a whole social moment goes on. My mums boyfriend (who's been with the family for two/three months) tells my sister he loves her and her baby as if he was her dad.

The conversation goes onto his former daugthers, who he doesn't see anymore due to complications. My mum brings up the fact they'll want to trace him, and I agree admitting that she may want to come back to trace her dad and maybe money issues. The whole thing kicks off with the mouthy, arrogant **** pointing fingers and being the independant person so he smashed me against my door, my door handle and theres rough marks on my neck, shoulder & back. I've called the police, dunno what to do now.

Thanks.

[camera]

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go to ur room and lock the door

[Jord]

Just punch him or wait untill the police is there.

[Clowgon]

Kick his candy ass. Go to your room and lock your door. Make sure you have enough food supplies until the police comes. :P

[Jord]

Arm yourself, Just incase he trys it again.

[Minstrels]

Get a cricket bat, or a baseball bat. But i dont you will have a baseball bat because you live in the uk, its something you dont buy for sport in uk. go down, smack him. kick his head in.


congrats, you have now twated the **** out of him and he's in your own home. He was introtruding upon your premises, you did it for self protection.

[Coheed&Cambria]

Get a cricket bat, or a baseball bat. But i dont you will have a baseball bat because you live in the uk, its something you dont buy for sport in uk. go down, smack him. kick his head in.


congrats, you have now twated the **** out of him and he's in your own home. He was introtruding upon your premises, you did it for self protection.


Do that ^^^^^

[Jord]

Get a cricket bat, or a baseball bat. But i dont you will have a baseball bat because you live in the uk, its something you dont buy for sport in uk. go down, smack him. kick his head in.


congrats, you have now twated the **** out of him and he's in your own home. He was introtruding upon your premises, you did it for self protection.


HAHA Listen him!

[Fifteen]

should of kicked him in his woop woop

no but seriously get the police involved?
but before you do think of what it would do to your mum

[Rozi]

I hope your OK :(

You did the right thing in calling the police.

[luce]

Get something like a cricket bat.
But if you called the police something should have been done by now!

[paradox]

you did the right thing, should of kicked him in his area and run lol

[drama]

Calling the police was a good idea, just try and stay away from him from now on.

My dad hits me, less frequent now that I can actually hit back, but i'd never report him or I would have nowhere to live..

[paradox]

mmmmmmm, drama true at last part.
my dad has never hit me he mucks around tho and we play box. :]

[Jordy]

How did this turn out then?

[Rixion]

attack him and say it was self defence

[Excellent1]

Turn him into a paraplegic by stabbing him in the spine with glass shade.

[Funya Chin]

I can make stories up too!

Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not make pointless posts - there is little need to post unless you can make a positive contribution to the thread.

[Jackbee]

I'd knock im out :(

[Earthquake]

Does everything have to be a story for you :rolleyes:

Why don't you tell your family what hes done? I'm sure your uncles will sort him out.

[paradox]

how did it go

[Nereo]

should of kicked him in his area and run lol

His knee? :S


Anyway, as people have said, kick the crap out of him :)

[Arch]

yeee wait for the police but if he tries it kick him in the nutsssssss

[Andeeh]

Make sure ur safe nd all nd just wait for police

[Vodge]

Hit back or you will get pushed around for the rest of your life.

[Calon]

http://www.gemzies.com/upload/page_thumb/adolf_hitler.jpg
WAATEVER U DO M8... DNT PUT DAT ON UR WALL PLZ.

thnx.

Erm, break your table into pieces and smack him with a table leg.. That's the modern use of a domestic table.

[stereotype10]

lol!! that was random

[Madox]

oK, Ill tell u what ill woul do if i was in ur postion firsty when he had u up against the door i would of gave him a right hock and plus hes not ur real dad so why does he have the right to touch you like that secondly go to the police :) whihc u have done

[The Cullens]

Be sensible. Phone childline.

[Rizla,]

Hit him back? like someone said he's not your real dad and he hasn't raised you so he doesn't have the right to hit you.

[Arron]

Nah I wouldn't hit him if I was you, but you probably might feel you want to. Wait till the police come then they will sort him out, that's more a less like the same issue I had here a few months ago.

[BobX]

***
go to ur room and lock the door


he cant if the door smashes in half can he.
protect from melee in future.

[Jord]

he cant if the door smashes in half can he.
protect from melee in future.

Hes only 2 Pray :o

[drama]

Hit him back? like someone said he's not your real dad and he hasn't raised you so he doesn't have the right to hit you.
Not even a biological dad has the right to their child

[Javascrypt]

Oh, Wow. Barricade in your room and wait for the police.
Get him locked up...
Abuse that is!

[Rizla,]

Not even a biological dad has the right to their child
I'll hit my kids if they deserve it.

[LoveToStack]

put some hydrocyanic acid in his tea.

[drama]

I'll hit my kids if they deserve it.
Then I hope you never have children, ever.

[paradox]

what happened? in the end..

[Rizla,]

Then I hope you never have children, ever.
Get a grip, sometimes a child needs a slight slap when they're growing up.

[paradox]

no, they need help to guide them

[Nemo]

no, they need help to guide them
Not quite, words can be guiding but if they see theres no consquences except for a shout or having their stuff taken away, then they'll be naughty.

Part of guiding someone is to show them consequences.

[360]

fake your death in a canoeing accident, get your mum to claim life insurance and then buy a house in panama. Sell your story to cover the flight costs

works 100%

[Clowgon]

Get a grip, sometimes a child needs a slight slap when they're growing up.

Dam right they do. :P

[Sepron]

he hasnt been online ever since he posted this, i wonder if his dead?

[drama]

Get a grip, sometimes a child needs a slight slap when they're growing up.
obviously you have never been on one particular side of that spectrum, or maybe you have and it's affected you to make you a bitter *removed* who thinks he/she's deserved what came to them, if it's the first then get the *REMOVED* out and if the latter I feel very, very sorry for you.

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[LoveToStack]

Beating your kis is totally not alright in any case imo? I mean, they learn on their own what not to do and what's right by you teaching them about morals, still it's fair to say that someone who's beating a child doesn't have many morals themselves.

[graffiti]

I THINK HE'S DEAD.

[Vodge]

Be sensible. Phone childline.

That's not being sensible, that's going to cause a whole wealth of problems for his family, his mum would be upset etc etc.

If you hit him the worse that would happen is that he would hit you back, unless he is mental and kills your whole family with a chainsaw or something..

Besides, hitting him back will show him you won't be pushed around and he might even respect you for it, or just not push you around again.

[Rizla,]

obviously you have never been on one particular side of that spectrum, or maybe you have and it's affected you to make you a bitter **** who thinks he/she's deserved what came to them, if it's the first then get the fuck out and if the latter I feel very, very sorry for you.

Yeah I was given a slap when I was younger, but it hasn't made me bitter. I'm not talking about beating my kids, there's a big difference. Maybe you don't see the line between a slap on the legs and genuinely beating your kids, but most people can.

[Nemo]

obviously you have never been on one particular side of that spectrum, or maybe you have and it's affected you to make you a bitter *REMOVED* who thinks he/she's deserved what came to them, if it's the first then get the *REMOVED* out and if the latter I feel very, very sorry for you.
Why feel the need to swear, but also avoid the filter?

Edited by Alkaz (Forum Moderators): Please do not tell others they have broken the rules.

[drama]

Yeah I was given a slap when I was younger, but it hasn't made me bitter. I'm not talking about beating my kids, there's a big difference. Maybe you don't see the line between a slap on the legs and genuinely beating your kids, but most people can.
Well the thread isn't exactly about a slap on the legs is it.

[Rizla,]

yeah but me and you weren't exactly talking about the thread.

[paradox]

Yeah I was given a slap when I was younger, but it hasn't made me bitter. I'm not talking about beating my kids, there's a big difference. Maybe you don't see the line between a slap on the legs and genuinely beating your kids, but most people can.
still...
... no pain, no gain

[Describe]

Sorry for not posting what happened. The police entered my house and stayed there for a good fifteen minutes until I decidet I want done. I'd decided not to press charges and not to have him arrested, although he was standing down in the kitchen willing to accept arrest for what he did. I thought about many things like how this would affect my mum and him being arrested/for assualt wouldn't help him see his 'kids' that he doesn't see. He's still currently living here (pathetic, i'd admit) although, if he acts over rationally again - he's gone, jailed.

[Hiro]

Sorry for not posting what happened. The police entered my house and stayed there for a good fifteen minutes until I decidet I want done. I'd decided not to press charges and not to have him arrested, although he was standing down in the kitchen willing to accept arrest for what he did. I thought about many things like how this would affect my mum and him being arrested/for assualt wouldn't help him see his 'kids' that he doesn't see. He's still currently living here (pathetic, i'd admit) although, if he acts over rationally again - he's gone, jailed.

You do realise that if he does get jailed, it will only be overnight, happened to my dad Feb 2008.

[Access]

lol *** you phoned the police for just knock the **** out

[Describe]

lol *** you phoned the police for just knock the **** out

I'll pretend you made sense.

[Rapidshare]

You do realise that if he does get jailed, it will only be overnight, happened to my dad Feb 2008.


Meh, not if he got brusies :). I got moved away to my mums and didnt see my dad for 3 months.

[drama]

obviously you have never been on one particular side of that spectrum, or maybe you have and it's affected you to make you a bitter *removed* who thinks he/she's deserved what came to them, if it's the first then get the fuck out and if the latter I feel very, very sorry for you.

Edited by Hayd93 (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not avoid the filter
If you're going to infract me and remove a swear word, atleast remove the other one.

[LoveToStack]

I just dont see the point in beating your kids. I've never been hit by my mum or dad and it's rubbed off on me. I never think of getting in a fight with someone and I find it totally OTT when people get aggressive physically. I know people say "whatcha gonna do if someone hits you" well I just think why are they even driven to that? Can't people just not fight eachother? :S

[e5]

run away

[Wig44.]

Get a grip, sometimes a child needs a slight slap when they're growing up.

By the sounds of it you do.

[Rapidshare]

If you're going to infract me and remove a swear word, atleast remove the other one.

I lol'd

[Yonder]

Get a cricket bat, or a baseball bat. But i dont you will have a baseball bat because you live in the uk, its something you dont buy for sport in uk. go down, smack him. kick his head in.


congrats, you have now twated the **** out of him and he's in your own home. He was introtruding upon your premises, you did it for self protection.

Agreed. Im in UK and i have baseball bat one in my room and one in the car! Oh an a cricket bat but thats for playing cricket.

[Jordan:A]

Go into care ?
Heres an idea aswell, allways carry a baseball bat around ur hours or if you wanna go to jail kill him

[Crimson]

Well isn't this all eventful? :o

[drama]

Agreed. Im in UK and i have baseball bat one in my room and one in the car! Oh an a cricket bat but thats for playing cricket.
A baseball bat is also for baseball if i'm not mistaken

[Homosexual]

isn't that assault?

[Jackboy]

So he comes home a little drunk with my mum who's completley sober. Of course when my mum says something thats completley out of hand to my nineteen year old sister, she begins to cry and a whole social moment goes on. My mums boyfriend (who's been with the family for two/three months) tells my sister he loves her and her baby as if he was her dad.

The conversation goes onto his former daugthers, who he doesn't see anymore due to complications. My mum brings up the fact they'll want to trace him, and I agree admitting that she may want to come back to trace her dad and maybe money issues. The whole thing kicks off with the mouthy, arrogant **** pointing fingers and being the independant person so he smashed me against my door, my door handle and theres rough marks on my neck, shoulder & back. I've called the police, dunno what to do now.

Thanks.

Tbh weapons are for *******. How much bigger than you is he?

Coz if i were in your situation, at the time i would've fought back and punched him up. (Not trying to sound hard LOL)

But seriously, it's your ******* house and your body, don't take that ****.

AND WHY DO I ALWAYS SWEAR IN THE TEEN LIFE SECTION!

[bobochobo]

Go to your room and get your Igor ray gun then blast his tiny Igor brain to dust!

[lew!]

This is very serious issue. You need to contact the police (I know you already have) but you need to make sure they take it seriously and make sure you speak out and make sure this stops.

[Nixt]

Get a grip, sometimes a child needs a slight slap when they're growing up.

I would personally disagree, there are better ways to guide your children than to suggest that hitting - however lightly and whatever 'offence' they committed - is the right way to respond to someone doing something wrong.

[Describe]

Wow, I'm suprised this is still active. I'm OK!

- He's moved out in some rampage saying i'm a mummy's boy, if you were looking for a conclusion.

[Jay.]

Sharing this traumatic experience while on HxF. -Feel Special-

but in all seriousness. Stay brave until police come. If it's emergency, they'll be there in about 4 mins.

[Describe]

Sharing this traumatic experience while on HxF. -Feel Special-

but in all seriousness. Stay brave until police come. If it's emergency, they'll be there in about 4 mins.

I made this thread two months ago. :P

[Zak]

go find him n hurt him

bring weapons, makes it easier

[lew!]

I'm glad hes gone. He sounds like a bloke who needs to sort his life out!

[Describe]

I'm glad hes gone. He sounds like a bloke who needs to sort his life out!

I honestly couldn't say it better! Though my mum has gone back to meet him today, and because he's gone blames me for ruining her life. :|

[Ali]

what bout childline or connexions or something? or tell your mum or sister.

[Slowpoke]

You do realise that if he does get jailed, it will only be overnight, happened to my dad Feb 2008.

Happened to my dad a lot of times. :(

[7]

i'd wack him back.

[Anvrew]

If he attacks teenagers, how tough can he be?
Hit back.

[Louis-Fox]

Just punch him or wait untill the police is there.

Agreed, you should be old enough to defend yourself against him, well done in calling the police, it's your choice if you want to punch him i wouldn't encourage it and i'm not saying i wouldn't and if you've ever seen gridiron gang (extreme case) the son threatens the step dad with a gun he eventually shoots him dead and goes to prison, you don't want to be in that situation ! :L

i feel for you though, situations like that truely suck. :eusa_wall

[Crimson]

He's dead. It's really his step-dad, pretending that he's alive cuz he's scared.

[Describe]

29-11-2008
thread bumpin noobs! :rolleyes:

[Rizla,]

Jesus this thread's still going?

[AgnesIO]

Jesus this thread's still going?


You still thinking hitting kids is right? :rolleyes:

[Samishlol]

Why did this thread get bumped?

[cocaine]

You still thinking hitting kids is right? :rolleyes:

it is if they misbehave.

[Rizla,]

You still thinking hitting kids is right? :rolleyes:
Kids needs to see consequences and boundaries.

[Nosx]

You need to talk to your mom about this.

Tell her that you feel unsafe in the house and that you don't like being hit.

Calling the police was good, by the way.