What should I do next?

[anonymus]

Well k. For a bit of time i've been off the idea of having a girlfriend and just wanted to get on with learning.
Now today in my lesson (only one) there was this new girl. Now I can't stop thinking about her? I personally don't believe in "love at first sight" and still don't but I don't know what I should do next? Avoid her?
I havn't had the chance to speak to her yet, I only saw her once out of the lesson and she was with the "popular" crowd. I bet your all like "whats that got to do with it?". Well: I have no interest with them (blokes and sports, not very sporty), not the most confident of people and I mean with any new person I don't often speak to, and I'm not exactly the fittest guy in the area, or sportiest as said before.

So what should I do next? Avoid her and avoid the damage it may cause on me or go for it?
Also any tips on how to go for it (if thats what you say)?

[Clowgon]

Go for it. Life is too short hanging around waiting for something coming to you. Take this chance NOW! Or you'll regret it for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!

[flyingbrick]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.

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[flyingbrick]

And ignore that clown above. What you will regret for the rest of your life is the embarrasment and humiliating rejection you could have spared yourself from by being less mad.


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[leah]

split personality eh nik?
erm Id get to know her a bit first, before you tell her you like her.
She might find it a bit weird coming from some random dude she doesn't speak to lol

[Janet Snakehole]

i reckon go for it :)
but get to know her first yeah?

[anonymus]

that's what I meant :P of course I'd get to know her first, then try it

[Clowgon]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.


And ignore that clown above. What you will regret for the rest of your life is the embarrasment and humiliating rejection you could have spared yourself from by being less mad.

Lol clown. If there a "CLOWN" here it's you. Why does he need to start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes to get a girl. It's YOU who needs to get out more and "socialize" because you are talking complete ****

Oh i never knew you had to play football to get a girl. :rolleyes:

[flyingbrick]

Lol clown. If there a "CLOWN" here it's you. Why does he need to start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes to get a girl. It's YOU who needs to get out more and "socialize" because you are talking complete ****

Oh i never knew you had to play football to get a girl. :rolleyes:

Hah!

I have plenty of a social life, as a matter of fact......and I go out really quite often.

This is school we are talking about - school isn't real life.

School is one big social class system - theres the popular kids, the geeks, and the averages. The popular kids only go out with the popular kids, and thats a fact.

His best chance is an average.

True, this isnt the case when these popular kids actually grow up and become wiser - then they start to appreciate personallity and other factors.

But while he is at school, and he is a geek, and she is a popular person.....he hasn't a chance in hell.

You lot telling him to "go for it" will just end in tears and embarrassment. I'm simply making sure he isn't disapointed.

[The Cullens]

Well first of all talk to her and try and get to know her. Don't go for it until you know she likes you. Just say simply ''Hi'' to her or ''How r u'' introduce yourself and just frekkin talk to her!

[Sepron]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.

Dude, sorry but i have to agree with Clowgon, wth you on about? Your taking the piss out of people for what you are?

Anyway just go for it

[The Cullens]

Dude, sorry but i have to agree with Clowgon, wth you on about? Your taking the piss out of people for what you are?

Anyway just go for it

Totally agreed. It's not who you are it's what's inside you that counts.

TAKE IT FROM A GIRL BYATCH :) x

[flyingbrick]

Totally agreed. It's not who you are it's what's inside you that counts.

What the hell does that mean?
You people, honestly. You should write a bloody romcom.

Are you actually tring to tell me that, as a school kid, you would go out with a complete rotten faced gizzard who likes maths, just because he was "pretty on the inside?!"

Give me a break.

I may be a cold hearted sod, but you're all living in floating dream worlds.

I think you should ask her out - come back and tell us whether or not you were successful, I'd very much like to know the results......

[iAdam]

What the hell does that mean?
You people, honestly. You should write a bloody romcom.

Are you actually tring to tell me that, as a school kid, you would go out with a complete rotten faced gizzard who likes maths, just because he was "pretty on the inside?!"

Give me a break.

I may be a cold hearted sod, but you're all living in floating dream worlds.

I think you should ask her out - come back and tell us whether or not you were successful, I'd very much like to know the results......


Ima fly kick you.

Listen; It really isn't about who you hang out with and who you look like. Frankly who in the whole of this bloody world cares about it? No one. As to social life again it doesn't matter, anyone can fit in anywhere. 'popular' kids are the ones who look at others and think they are "rotten faced gizzards" probably like yourself, frankly I'd rather hang around with people who arn't fake. Atleast I know that the girl who likes math won't dump me jsut because she likes another guys hair more that day. Social status has nothing to do with relationships, seriously, and as to you having a life, you are a dj on a habbo based online radio station. -.-

I admire people like clowgon, and my motto is exactly as he said "Go for it" if anonymous doesn't he'll never know, Even if she says no, who cares? He took a shot and dived, and for that he is great in himself. At the end of the day he'll know himself that he gave it his best shot and that's all that matters, feeling good in yourself.

Now stand back and look at yourself, I tihnk it's time you changed your attitude and views on alot of things and;

THINK BEFORE YOU FRICKEN POST.

My two cents.

[Jasxn]

Just talk and that and get her number ya kno then txt her etc
then get down her pants, and ur sorted.

[iAdam]

Lol at jasxn.

[flyingbrick]

Ima fly kick you.

Listen; It really isn't about who you hang out with and who you look like. Frankly who in the whole of this bloody world cares about it? No one. As to social life again it doesn't matter, anyone can fit in anywhere. 'popular' kids are the ones who look at others and think they are "rotten faced gizzards" probably like yourself, frankly I'd rather hang around with people who arn't fake. Atleast I know that the girl who likes math won't dump me jsut because she likes another guys hair more that day. Social status has nothing to do with relationships, seriously, and as to you having a life, you are a dj on a habbo based online radio station. -.-

I admire people like clowgon, and my motto is exactly as he said "Go for it" if anonymous doesn't he'll never know, Even if she says no, who cares? He took a shot and dived, and for that he is great in himself. At the end of the day he'll know himself that he gave it his best shot and that's all that matters, feeling good in yourself.

Now stand back and look at yourself, I tihnk it's time you changed your attitude and views on alot of things and;

THINK BEFORE YOU FRICKEN POST.

My two cents.




Well aren't you the self-righteous little world beater.

[Bun]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.
HAHAHAHAHA, stupid little ****, I think you need to be educated before you start preaching.

[iAdam]

Well aren't you the self-righteous little world beater.
Your posts make me laugh, I normally don't have a problem with msot people, but you get right on my nerves. and no I'm not a 'world beater' I just have my views and stand up for them, if i'm on ym own in that view I dont care. I jsut know I'm right so I don't care what people like you think.

[Fifteen]

I think you should actully talk to her and get to know her before you ask her out..she would be well freaked out if someone she hadn't talked to before/doesn't even knows asked her out..

[Clowgon]

Hah!

I have plenty of a social life, as a matter of fact......and I go out really quite often.

This is school we are talking about - school isn't real life.

School is one big social class system - theres the popular kids, the geeks, and the averages. The popular kids only go out with the popular kids, and thats a fact.

His best chance is an average.

True, this isnt the case when these popular kids actually grow up and become wiser - then they start to appreciate personallity and other factors.

But while he is at school, and he is a geek, and she is a popular person.....he hasn't a chance in hell.

You lot telling him to "go for it" will just end in tears and embarrassment. I'm simply making sure he isn't disapointed.

Oh shut up. You doing my head in.


Ima fly kick you.

Listen; It really isn't about who you hang out with and who you look like. Frankly who in the whole of this bloody world cares about it? No one. As to social life again it doesn't matter, anyone can fit in anywhere. 'popular' kids are the ones who look at others and think they are "rotten faced gizzards" probably like yourself, frankly I'd rather hang around with people who arn't fake. Atleast I know that the girl who likes math won't dump me jsut because she likes another guys hair more that day. Social status has nothing to do with relationships, seriously, and as to you having a life, you are a dj on a habbo based online radio station. -.-

I admire people like clowgon, and my motto is exactly as he said "Go for it" if anonymous doesn't he'll never know, Even if she says no, who cares? He took a shot and dived, and for that he is great in himself. At the end of the day he'll know himself that he gave it his best shot and that's all that matters, feeling good in yourself.

Now stand back and look at yourself, I tihnk it's time you changed your attitude and views on alot of things and;

THINK BEFORE YOU FRICKEN POST.

My two cents.

Thanks. :)