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Why do I all of a sudden have this urge to want/need it and even give some back?
It's like totally overpowering, it stops me sleeping, sometimes eating. It's like there is this huge gap in me.
That might not make sense to many, but I'm sure others have gone through it, hopefully.
RedStratocas
03-12-2008, 03:19 AM
cause affection rules, dude. its nice knowing someone thinks highly of you.
Metric1
03-12-2008, 04:15 AM
I like when somebody runs my back or stomach, it makes me feel loved!
camera
03-12-2008, 04:44 AM
who doesnt want affection anyway? its a wonderful thing:love7::love7:
who doesnt want affection anyway? its a wonderful thing:love7::love7:
Yeah, I didn't mean like "oh no one else will want it", I mean, why do I have like a sudden outburst and urge to want it?
It's really frustrating. >_>
rocksteaddy
03-12-2008, 01:21 PM
Uhm, affection affects people. And therefore you're having all these sudden thingy.
Uhm, affection affects people. And therefore you're having all these sudden thingy.
Hmm, I think I read somewhere that if a child doesn't get a lot of affection and touch from parents during the ages of 4 to 6, the touch can lead to like instant sexual stimulus (I think that's because your mind treats the lack of touch as a "special" thing, which when induced in the right way can produce the sexual chemical stuff). And the affection, something about lack of it can start to show in late teen years.
So I guess that sort of explains some things.
camera
03-12-2008, 02:54 PM
yeah maybe thats it dan :P
yeah maybe thats it dan :P
or am I just being stupid? lmao :P
camera
03-12-2008, 03:12 PM
naw dan. it does sound true tho
cmon dan theres nothing wrong wanting it kk.
buttons
03-12-2008, 03:13 PM
or am I just being stupid? lmao :P
nahhh, not stupid.
the only thing i miss bout my most recent relationship was the cuddling up on sofa :(, i think it's worse if you had some then lost it :'(
nahhh, not stupid.
the only thing i miss bout my most recent relationship was the cuddling up on sofa :(, i think it's worse if you had some then lost it :'(
i think that might be another reason. lonely nights and stuff. (n)
camera
03-12-2008, 03:24 PM
please dont be depressed!
please dont be depressed!
its not that im depressed, its just the attachment and stuff. I guess one could say that I like the idea of being needed, wanted. Maybe I thrive on caring too much.
FlyingJesus
03-12-2008, 05:27 PM
only thing i miss bout my most recent relationship was the cuddling up on sofa
Init I'd rather just have mates that I can curl up with than a proper relationship atm, and like Dan said it's nice feeling like you're needed/wanted.
It's not a weird thing at all mate, I'm the same and I'm like the best person in the whole world so yeah
Init I'd rather just have mates that I can curl up with than a proper relationship atm, and like Dan said it's nice feeling like you're needed/wanted.
It's not a weird thing at all mate, I'm the same and I'm like the best person in the whole world so yeah
LOL! don't flatter yourself babe xo
and dan is fudge not cuddling you anymore? :(
but ino what you mean, im like it atm too. Maybe you just crave a relationship :D
LOL! don't flatter yourself babe xo
and dan is fudge not cuddling you anymore? :(
but ino what you mean, im like it atm too. Maybe you just crave a relationship :D
Lmao, a relationship that doesn't stick?
I ask for too much at 17, there's only one person I know who wants the same.
camera
04-12-2008, 12:56 PM
yer dan just be patient kk. everything will be fine :D
Virgin Mary
04-12-2008, 03:38 PM
hormones
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