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3cww
05-12-2008, 12:50 PM
what do boys like in girls?
when i was in years 4-6 i always had a b.f but ever since year 7 i havent dated anyone and im now in year 9
ive liked boys but im not good at asking out and then i get embaressed when i am out with someone and ive never kissed anyone though i am a flirt :D
please help!anyone got any tips on how to get and keep a guy?

FlyingJesus
05-12-2008, 12:57 PM
Be fit

3cww
05-12-2008, 01:02 PM
Be fit
is dat it ? and what do guys think is fit?

Minstrels
05-12-2008, 01:16 PM
"Nice on the eye"
Personality
Dress sense
Not too shy

FlyingJesus
05-12-2008, 01:20 PM
Personality

Good joke +rep

Guys tend to think fit is large of bust and small of waist but it changes from guy to guy - I'm not bothered about the chesticles myself but for some people I know that's all that matters. Depends what bloke you're after

Hiro
05-12-2008, 01:25 PM
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Good joke +rep

Guys tend to think fit is large of bust and small of waist but it changes from guy to guy - I'm not bothered about the chesticles myself but for some people I know that's all that matters. Depends what bloke you're after

Ew. I hate large breasts, I really can't see the attraction to them..

I'd probably look for similar interests/needs/wants. A nice dress style, but that doesn't really bother me too much. Nice facial features, smile, nose, eyes. Good looking, to my standards anyway.
Bonus would be nice legs (L).

Phreedom
05-12-2008, 10:19 PM
I like personality, looks, fun to be around, someone who isn't afraid to act ******ed or say something out loud that is stupid... basically, be like me.

e5
05-12-2008, 10:24 PM
Personality/Looks/Good dress sense.

S'all that counts really

mangle
05-12-2008, 10:37 PM
Personality/Looks/Good dress sense.

S'all that counts really
Amen to that.

Aslong as she doesn't look like a cave dweller and is rather nice I'm fine :)

Javascrypt
05-12-2008, 10:38 PM
Fit'ness + Personality

cocaine
05-12-2008, 10:46 PM
Fit'ness + Personality

did you seriously put an apostrophe in fitness? :eusa_wall

and erm, yeah good looks, nice dress sense and (if you can find one) a personality.

Wig44.
05-12-2008, 10:57 PM
did you seriously put an apostrophe in fitness? :eusa_wall

and erm, yeah good looks, nice dress sense and (if you can find one) a personality.

If you want a girl with a personality - get 'em smashed.

FlyingJesus
06-12-2008, 12:15 AM
If you want a girl with looks - get yourself smashed.

Danzilla
06-12-2008, 12:23 AM
I look for a girl with nice hair, dresses wild/stands out. They have to be confident and outgoing. Oh and obivously good looking.

5,5
06-12-2008, 05:04 AM
small but nice ass, nice size breasts and a good face. good personality too

RedStratocas
06-12-2008, 06:47 AM
i tend to like shorter and smaller girls.

Sepron
06-12-2008, 08:17 AM
big bossoms and big *REMOVED*


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Danzilla
06-12-2008, 01:31 PM
i tend to like shorter and smaller girls.

Same, i don't like tall girls for some reson. But then i am 6'2".

kuzkasate
06-12-2008, 01:31 PM
Me personally:
- Someone with a nice personality
- Good looks
- A good listener and understander
- Someone I can rely on
- She can tell me her problems
- Someone to spend time with

Thats it TBH:D

drama
06-12-2008, 01:50 PM
confident and caring, nice body helps aswell

Access
06-12-2008, 01:53 PM
a clean *REMOVED*

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le harry
06-12-2008, 02:42 PM
Nice legs and nothing weird like a bung eye

Excellent2
06-12-2008, 04:01 PM
First of all personality before ANYTHING. If she doesn't have a nice personality I won't be able to love her, thus meaning I won't ever be with her.

Then the basics:

Nice ass.
Not too tall.
Nice legs.
Nice face.
Nice smile.
Don't care about dress sense.
Not too tanned, I like pale.
Someone you can have a laugh with.
Doesn't smoke.
Doesn't drink.
Doesn't do any type of narcotic.
Wants the same as me.
Isn't shy.

My long list of requirements. Luckily enough I found someone with all of that :)

Stefy
06-12-2008, 04:25 PM
errr

Not tootootoo tall but don't mind height really
Someone whose good looking (to me)
Good personality
Can have a laugh
Fun to be with
Good dress sense
Not bothered if shes shy or not really cos I'm shy aswell

Phreedom
06-12-2008, 05:05 PM
Same, i don't like tall girls for some reson. But then i am 6'2".

ditto, im about 6'2. i'd hate to have a taller girl than me. 5'7 or 5'8 is a nice height :) could pass for a little shorter too, not like 5'4 though

dogboy123
06-12-2008, 05:08 PM
Personality, as I've realised from my ex who was fit, but then I realised she was one big mess!

Not gonna make the same mistake again!;)

RyanDOT
06-12-2008, 05:41 PM
Face & Body.

And not a **** or a ****.

The Cullens
06-12-2008, 05:48 PM
is that all you guys like?
nice asses?

3cww
06-12-2008, 08:24 PM
is that all you guys like?
nice asses?
i was thinking the same

The Cullens
06-12-2008, 08:33 PM
i was thinking the same

yeah. boys are pathetic when it comes to true love.

Phreedom
07-12-2008, 03:14 AM
yeah. boys are pathetic when it comes to true love.

i'm actually a sensitive guy unlike some of the posters hehe. and true love isn't what you're looking for, it's what you aren't looking for but you find it.. if that makes sense?

-Wolverine
07-12-2008, 08:35 AM
is that all you guys like?
nice asses?

Absolutely.

I really don't care about breasts that much, but face is #1, ass #2.

edit: personality is important too though I guess

Cypher-
07-12-2008, 11:35 AM
Being upfront about things, every girlfriend Ive had always hated making decisions or taking the lead and also being quite hot ;)

Crimson
07-12-2008, 12:13 PM
Face..

Stefy
07-12-2008, 04:38 PM
i'm actually a sensitive guy unlike some of the posters hehe. and true love isn't what you're looking for, it's what you aren't looking for but you find it.. if that makes sense?

That makes perfect sense

bo$$
07-12-2008, 04:50 PM
is that all you guys like?
nice asses?

Have you even read any of the replies?
Majority don't even say "nice ass" and if it does it has other things in the list..

:eusa_whis

iDenning
07-12-2008, 06:39 PM
Good looking and a good looking sister.

Con
07-12-2008, 10:49 PM
Good dress sence - Isn't hugely important but I love it when a girl dress' in the style I like.
Nice hair - not important but I do love hair (head hair :rolleyes::D)
Looks - Might sound like a stereo type or whatever, but I prefer a slim / slightly curvy girl, I don't think I would quite look right with a bigger girl as I am rather skinny :P

Personality - huge thing, it won't be a successful relationship if you didn't get on.
Same interests - Again, same as above
Good taste in muci
and some various other things :D

deeveeNoh
07-12-2008, 11:00 PM
nice hair and face, not too fat, not too thin. tight trousers (if you're fit, if not then don't bother)

IceNineKills
08-12-2008, 04:31 PM
I like it when they can take a joke. I hate people that takes everything far too seriously.

FlyingJesus
08-12-2008, 05:02 PM
i'm actually a sensitive guy unlike some of the posters hehe. and true love isn't what you're looking for, it's what you aren't looking for but you find it.. if that makes sense?

Yeah it makes sense but not being shallow doesn't make you a sensitive guy lol.. I've got all the qualities of an old school romantic but I'm still shallow, the two can quite easily go hand in hand and hand in pants

brandon
08-12-2008, 05:02 PM
Ginger hair and stilettos

leah
10-12-2008, 11:58 AM
Ginger hair and stilettos
im not ginger tho :(

kuzkasate
10-12-2008, 08:22 PM
im not ginger tho :(


Its okay, I'll like you. :D

leah
11-12-2008, 10:59 PM
aww that's so sweet :P

Pyroka
11-12-2008, 11:01 PM
My willy!

Hehe, nah uh... I've been known to shock tbh, so really it's just who I meet. If I get on with someone, and I have a thing for them, then thats really all there is to it. There's no specific sorta girl I don't like.. except big girls, I just get creeped out, talls girls are intimidating & chicks with *****, don't like those either. Uhm... yeah! ^_^

AlexOC
12-12-2008, 01:15 AM
Someone -

-Nice body ofc
-You can talk to, and they listen and understand
- Strong trust
- someone who you can just spend time with, and forget about everything else

Unbilotitled
13-12-2008, 11:07 AM
big boobs, nice curves, not small, nice bum, pretty face, long straight hair, blue eyes, nice personality, funny, nice smile.

Just how my ex was like until i ended her.

Immenseman
13-12-2008, 11:15 AM
a girl that looks pretty without make up and dark hair

Stefy
13-12-2008, 11:19 AM
a girl that looks pretty without make up and dark hair

right on! Seen about 10 girls in my school who one day come in with makeup and they look amazing, then another day they come in with no makeup and I'm like.. eww

Rapidshare
13-12-2008, 11:20 AM
One with a nice bum, and some good boobs, not too big but not small.

buttons
13-12-2008, 03:59 PM
big boobs, nice curves, not small, nice bum, pretty face, long straight hair, blue eyes, nice personality, funny, nice smile.

Just how my ex was like until i ended her.
you just basically ask for everything lol if you have someone that perfect why let her go?

FlyingJesus
13-12-2008, 04:07 PM
He didn't let her go he ENDED her

TAYLOOOOR1
13-12-2008, 05:30 PM
Well what i like in a girl is anything to do with Avril lavigne or Diana Vickers.

If they look like these two its a yes baby (: x

alotest
19-12-2008, 10:43 PM
Personality - act like a ****, no/start arguments with people over nothing (even people you dont like) no
Dress sense
Not ugly :P
Smell nice
Nice smile

illegal
20-12-2008, 12:25 AM
Uhm. They've got to be able to have a laugh. They can't always be stressy. They need to be able to show their emotions. I've got to be able to talk to them and hold a convosation. They can't be annoying/childish, although im-mature I don't mind. They've got to be able to make me laugh. They need to have a nice body / face / hair. Oh they need to have unlimited txt's rly. Cause I do and I like texting people. :)

Imnotpure
20-12-2008, 07:45 PM
He didn't let her go he ENDED her

LOL. Was thinking that. :P

ecstasy
28-12-2008, 04:24 PM
Amen to that.

Aslong as she doesn't look like a cave dweller and is rather nice I'm fine :)

made me LOL tbh

Fart
30-12-2008, 06:32 PM
i like myself in them ;p

iAdam
30-12-2008, 08:11 PM
Doesn't smoke or drink.
Slightly taller than me.
A real personality, not a fake one just to 'fit in'.
Obv. looks do account for something but not loads for me, I'm not gonna go out with a moose.
Not a 'frequent flyer', seriously if I'm like the fourth/fifth of the year then what's the point?
Likes to talk and not afraid to say something even if it's totally dumb.

Kardan
30-12-2008, 08:41 PM
Doesn't smoke or drink.
Slightly taller than me.
A real personality, not a fake one just to 'fit in'.
Obv. looks do account for something but not loads for me, I'm not gonna go out with a moose.
Not a 'frequent flyer', seriously if I'm like the fourth/fifth of the year then what's the point?
Likes to talk and not afraid to say something even if it's totally dumb.

Sounds about the same for me, except she'd have to be smaller than me. It'd be a bit... weird going out with a girl taller than me.

And I'd prefer it if she wasn't ginger, not because she's ginger - but because I'm ginger. Then again, there are some ginger girls I wouldn't say no too :P I guess it's more of a 'bonus' really :P

iAdam
30-12-2008, 08:43 PM
I'm not the tallest crop in the field though so I've kinda got used to everyone being taller than me, I like it.

Zak
31-12-2008, 12:26 PM
( . Y . )

GoldSolid
31-12-2008, 12:37 PM
Good looking (i prefer cute looking girls, but gotta be sexy too)
personality
faithful
thoughtful

santa
31-12-2008, 01:20 PM
yeah. boys are pathetic when it comes to true love.
seconded.
guys never know how much pressures on girls to look good these days & the last thing we need is all these guys like yh id date her if she has a nice ass xoxox

Technologic
31-12-2008, 01:21 PM
Nothing.

buttons
31-12-2008, 01:22 PM
seconded.
guys never know how much pressures on girls to look good these days & the last thing we need is all these guys like yh id date her if she has a nice ass xoxox
yeh but when you do dress up or change something they never notice :eusa_wall

FlyingJesus
31-12-2008, 04:00 PM
yeh but when you do dress up or change something they never notice :eusa_wall

Yeah we do we just don't often mention it because whenever a guy says "hey you look great" you think we're coming on to you and even if we actually are it looks/sounds slimy. Don't worry, you're not the only ones who can't win :P

tdi
02-01-2009, 03:31 AM
my penis.

Joord
03-01-2009, 02:43 PM
Well what i like in a girl is anything to do with Avril lavigne or Diana Vickers.

If they look like these two its a yes baby (: x
made my day !!!

good looking, fun to be around, not awkward to talk to, nice eyes, good dress sense, slim but not anorexic.

Jacktard.
08-01-2009, 04:28 PM
Well, i think its best when you arent really good friends, because eventually the relationship wil come to an end and it will be awkward. You should be able to get along with them, be able to laugh with them and to make sure noone close to either of you (best friends etc) would get jelous and try to break anything you have up. Most guys will be too shy to ask but if you are ready for the next step then tell him and most would say yeah. Hope this helps

Jack :)

StripedTiger
11-01-2009, 08:46 PM
a lot of guys like a girl who just likes what they do. you know, likes cool films maybe daft teen movies or horrors, cos they aint a lot of boys that like romance :P

it doesnt matter how big or small your boobs are. i dont think a guy would start dating a girl with big boobs but they hand by her ankles :P

Bun
12-01-2009, 05:32 PM
a lot of guys like a girl who just likes what they do. you know, likes cool films maybe daft teen movies or horrors, cos they aint a lot of boys that like romance :P

it doesnt matter how big or small your boobs are. i dont think a guy would start dating a girl with big boobs but they hand by her ankles :P
i like boobs.

Soy
17-01-2009, 11:06 AM
slim, nice face

AJKHoosier1
18-01-2009, 04:30 AM
messed up this post, delete plz

StripedTiger
18-01-2009, 11:35 AM
i like boobs.

LOL but would you really not date a girl that was really pretty, with a fab personality, just because she had small ones?

Soy
18-01-2009, 12:17 PM
LOL but would you really not date a girl that was really pretty, with a fab personality, just because she had small ones?
all about the boobs

leah
18-01-2009, 12:33 PM
thats just stupid lol

buttons
18-01-2009, 12:35 PM
would you date someone fat coz they had massive jugs!?!? i know someone dated someone coz she had a fat ass. i dunno if he meant 'fat' or 'phat' .. :/

leah
18-01-2009, 12:35 PM
would you date someone fat coz they had massive jugs!?!? i know someone dated someone coz she had a fat ass. i dunno if he meant 'fat' or 'phat' .. :/
lol probs phat

Fehm
18-01-2009, 01:55 PM
I think personality the best one. You dont want someone who is boring, you dont want someone who might go out with someone else. I prefer girls to just enjoy being around me and i'd like to feel less awkward when im around them if ya get me..... lol

Soy
18-01-2009, 02:42 PM
would you date someone fat coz they had massive jugs!?!? i know someone dated someone coz she had a fat ass. i dunno if he meant 'fat' or 'phat' .. :/

The boobs are like the gravy, body is the meat (most important thing on the dish), personality is the veg (less important than the meat)

If ya' get where i'm comming from ;)

Zak
20-01-2009, 12:33 AM
big boobs
skinny
blonde/brunette

GoldenMerc
20-01-2009, 12:39 AM
nice jugs
nice body
not fake
has a personalty
Leah unfortually that scores you out of all of it.

buttons
20-01-2009, 07:17 AM
nice jugs
nice body
not fake
has a personalty
Leah unfortually that scores you out of all of it.
lol ohdear

Clownin
20-01-2009, 08:17 AM
I want a girl im sexually attracted to, not some ugly girl who has a good personality because shes grown up sucking **** her whole life

also she has to be passionate in the relationship, no church girl thx

leah
20-01-2009, 12:43 PM
lol ohdear
eww ross
yup that would be all! :)

camera
20-01-2009, 01:03 PM
most guys i know luv staring at women's ass

Soy
20-01-2009, 09:36 PM
most guys i know luv staring at women's ass

TRUE

I do that on a regular basis :afro:

Malachy
20-01-2009, 09:37 PM
I have one question and one question only.
How big are your boobs?

Soy
20-01-2009, 09:43 PM
I have one question and one question only.
How big are your boobs?

I settle for no less than a D

buttons
20-01-2009, 09:49 PM
I settle for no less than a D
oh crap

Excellent2
20-01-2009, 10:05 PM
oh crapDD here. ^

OMGitsHYPE
20-01-2009, 10:27 PM
Here's my nice long list :)



Doesn't smoke or do illegal drugs, and doesn't over drink, alcohol's fine be not if their drunk all the time.
Someone who I can trust and who I can have a one on one serious conversation.
Someone who wouldn't be afraid to hug/kiss me in front of her friends or be around me.
Someone who has a bubbly personality and who can be lots of fun to be around.
To be a flirt, but only with me if we were dating.
Have a nice face and attempt to do their hair.
Someone who looks good even without make up.
SOMEONE WHO CAN TAKE A JOKE! Honestly some girls take things so seriously.
Not someone who's always saying she's too fat to be my girlfriend, because if she wern't perfect for me I wouldn't be dating her.
Have reasonable size boobs :) But that doesn't really matter.
Someone who isn't shy and can show their affection.
Tell me anything if they were upset.

DONE LOL :)! I don't need all of that, good looking with a personality and doesn't smoke I would date.

Pyroka
20-01-2009, 11:01 PM
Here's my nice long list :)



Doesn't smoke or do illegal drugs, and doesn't over drink, alcohol's fine be not if their drunk all the time.
Someone who I can trust and who I can have a one on one serious conversation.
Someone who wouldn't be afraid to hug/kiss me in front of her friends or be around me.
Someone who has a bubbly personality and who can be lots of fun to be around.
To be a flirt, but only with me if we were dating.
Have a nice face and attempt to do their hair.
Someone who looks good even without make up.
SOMEONE WHO CAN TAKE A JOKE! Honestly some girls take things so seriously.
Not someone who's always saying she's too fat to be my girlfriend, because if she wern't perfect for me I wouldn't be dating her.
Have reasonable size boobs :) But that doesn't really matter.
Someone who isn't shy and can show their affection.
Tell me anything if they were upset.

DONE LOL :)! I don't need all of that, good looking with a personality and doesn't smoke I would date.

Jesus christ, I can't help but agree with you fully on every single thing there, especially the joke part... Pisses me off when girls take a joke into heart, then you have to start apologising and grovelling, it gets tiring. You sir need a +rep for that, we're on the same level. :P

Throne Sofa
20-01-2009, 11:53 PM
Perfection is required. Nothing else considered.

OMGitsHYPE
21-01-2009, 07:44 AM
Perfection is required. Nothing else considered.
LOL :L you might be looking a while, except there's Cheryl Cole :D!


Jesus christ, I can't help but agree with you fully on every single thing there, especially the joke part... Pisses me off when girls take a joke into heart, then you have to start apologising and grovelling, it gets tiring. You sir need a +rep for that, we're on the same level. :P
yeah it annoys me and when they say they're too fat it's like, NO YOU'RE NOT, and thanks for the +REP ryan I think it is? :P I think I knew you ages ago on Habbo UK on Jumbled/Alpey

Bun
21-01-2009, 08:23 AM
LOL :L you might be looking a while, except there's Cheryl Cole :D!


yeah it annoys me and when they say they're too fat it's like, NO YOU'RE NOT, and thanks for the +REP ryan I think it is? :P I think I knew you ages ago on Habbo UK on Jumbled/Alpey
although i love cheryl, i think she's a bit too skinny. i like curvy women ;).

Pyroka
21-01-2009, 09:13 AM
LOL :L you might be looking a while, except there's Cheryl Cole :D!


yeah it annoys me and when they say they're too fat it's like, NO YOU'RE NOT, and thanks for the +REP ryan I think it is? :P I think I knew you ages ago on Habbo UK on Jumbled/Alpey

OMG CORRECT, HI JUMBLED I remember yoooouuu :D:D:D:D

Yeah girls love the sympathy I think, theyre like noooess I'm too faaaaaaaat and its like WOT. LOL.

camera
21-01-2009, 09:55 AM
OMG CORRECT, HI JUMBLED I remember yoooouuu :D:D:D:D

Yeah girls love the sympathy I think, theyre like noooess I'm too faaaaaaaat and its like WOT. LOL.

eh? i think its more like
boy says: lol fats
girl says : yer ill squash u flat when i sit on ya

not all girls who ent fat says that :rolleyes:

Pyroka
21-01-2009, 09:57 AM
eh? i think its more like
boy says: lol fats
girl says : yer ill squash u flat when i sit on ya

not all girls who ent fat says that :rolleyes:

They're the ones who can have a laugh though. Not every single girl can lol.

camera
21-01-2009, 09:59 AM
then i suppose the girls youve met are losers :S

Pyroka
21-01-2009, 10:05 AM
then i suppose the girls youve met are losers :S

LOL No comment :XXXXXX

camera
21-01-2009, 10:05 AM
LOL No comment :XXXXXX

yeah figures.

Zak
21-01-2009, 03:23 PM
i dno why guys like ( . Y . ) THERE JST SO AMAZING

Calon
21-01-2009, 05:44 PM
For me, it's.. (In order): Looks, personality, intelligence.

Excellent2
21-01-2009, 06:07 PM
Well girls, here is my nice long list.

(Not in order)

1) Intelligence. I don't want my girlfriend to be a benefit bum when she's older. I want to be proud of her achievements at school.

2) Looks. Looking good WITH makeup isn't what I'd call a nice looking girl, I call it fake. I'd want my girlfriend to look good without makeup as it's au' natural!

3) Personality. Someone who will have a laugh with me. Someone who won't go round bullying others. Someone who is kind to all and is generally helpful.

4) Commitment. I want my girlfriend to be commited to me first and foremost. If she has a friend who comes first, it will not work.

5) Not afraid of being spoilt once in a while. I want someone who isn't afraid of being spent on. I like to "splash out" on the one I love.

6) Equality. Just because I'm a boy doesn't give you the right to treat me differently and visa versa. I want someone who will go by the saying "One rule for all" and not "One rule for you. One rule for me."

So there you go!

Calon
21-01-2009, 08:57 PM
Well girls, here is my nice long list.

(Not in order)

1) Intelligence. I don't want my girlfriend to be a benefit bum when she's older. I want to be proud of her achievements at school.

2) Looks. Looking good WITH makeup isn't what I'd call a nice looking girl, I call it fake. I'd want my girlfriend to look good without makeup as it's au' natural!

3) Personality. Someone who will have a laugh with me. Someone who won't go round bullying others. Someone who is kind to all and is generally helpful.

4) Commitment. I want my girlfriend to be commited to me first and foremost. If she has a friend who comes first, it will not work.

5) Not afraid of being spoilt once in a while. I want someone who isn't afraid of being spent on. I like to "splash out" on the one I love.

6) Equality. Just because I'm a boy doesn't give you the right to treat me differently and visa versa. I want someone who will go by the saying "One rule for all" and not "One rule for you. One rule for me."

So there you go!
It's a lot to ask for, especially for an English girl. :rolleyes:

Lol, well if you're lucky enough to have someone like that then yeah..

Excellent2
21-01-2009, 09:10 PM
It's a lot to ask for, especially for an English girl. :rolleyes:

Lol, well if you're lucky enough to have someone like that then yeah..I do :)

drama
21-01-2009, 10:53 PM
as long as she can take a joke, is average looking and doesnt have a bucket then s'cool.

LuckyPopcorn
22-01-2009, 09:20 AM
Tbf most boys look for different things in a girl

I look mostly on looks then personality tbf

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