View Full Version : Hard Question..
dogboy123
06-12-2008, 08:43 PM
My friend asked me this today:
If you're in a car crash (hopefully you never had, an never will)
You're best friend is in the car aswell, at the last minute, you get the oppertunity to save yourself,or save your best friend?
What would YOU do, not what you think is best, what would you personaly do?
Thanks
dogboy123 x
Malachy
06-12-2008, 08:43 PM
Depends on how old I am.
If they were younger, I'd save them and kill myself. Truth.
Fifteen
06-12-2008, 08:43 PM
save myself obv
CJW93
06-12-2008, 08:45 PM
I have no idea
dogboy123
06-12-2008, 08:45 PM
Interesting responces
Depends on the situation, if they were terminally ill, i'de rather they would die of a car crash than cancer. I would save the person more likely to survive. If I saved them, but then they got ran over by a truck, instead of saving myself, well.... that would be ****
Malachy
06-12-2008, 08:49 PM
Depends on the situation, if they were terminally ill, i'de rather they would die of a car crash than cancer. I would save the person more likely to survive. If I saved them, but then they got ran over by a truck, instead of saving myself, well.... that would be ****
True but you wouldn't know about them getting run over by the truck. You'd be dead.
dogboy123
06-12-2008, 08:54 PM
Nice reponces,
THANKS FIFTEEN FOR +REP
1ST REP!! :D
MrGazet
06-12-2008, 09:29 PM
maybe selfish but i'd save miself.dun wanna die yet.but maybe ill feel guilty :S i dunno really.maybe i wud maybe i wudnt.but at this point,id save my a$$
Corporal
06-12-2008, 09:30 PM
them everytime.
others come first, then me simple as.
Ofcourse i dont know exactly how id react until i get in that situation.
dogboy123
06-12-2008, 10:00 PM
I hope you never get into that situation
Middlesbrough
06-12-2008, 10:03 PM
I would say id save my friend, but im sure id think differently at the situation, i know that sounds sad but... i dont know.
Dan2nd
06-12-2008, 10:06 PM
I don't know how I'd react if I was really in this situation however..
If it was a member of my family I'd save them.. if it was a friend I'd save myself I don't want to sound heartless or w.e but you can make new friends but you can never replace your family
I would save them becuase I dont think id be able to live with the guilt of knowing that it was my fault that my friend died.
Geraint
06-12-2008, 10:13 PM
I would save them becuase I dont think id be able to live with the guilt of knowing that it was my fault that my friend died.
I was just about to post that.
Janet Snakehole
06-12-2008, 10:19 PM
them everytime.
others come first, then me simple as.
Ofcourse i dont know exactly how id react until i get in that situation.
i really do agree with you there :)
Depends how much I like the "friend".
Abbie.
06-12-2008, 10:24 PM
if judge on whether is was possible to save my friend, if it was, i would try and save her
Inseriousity.
06-12-2008, 10:26 PM
I'd need friends first... :(
Depends entirely on the situation, and i may act differently under that pressure anyway, but probably save myself :( lol.
BowTies1
06-12-2008, 10:27 PM
i would save myself hands down
drama
06-12-2008, 10:29 PM
when it's down to it i'd save myself - thats a natural instinct..
theres only one person that if it came to it, i'd die to save them.
deeveeNoh
06-12-2008, 10:30 PM
I'd save my friend then try and save myself. I'd always try to save the other person before myself, even if I hated them cos I'd rather die than live my life as a puss.
dogboy123
06-12-2008, 10:31 PM
All those that say themselves, how would you live it down that you decided to save yourself and let your friend die?
This really is a hard question!
Geraint
06-12-2008, 10:31 PM
However much I disliked someone, I couldn't go through the rest of my life knowing that someone died because of me.
velvet
06-12-2008, 11:54 PM
I'd save myself :S
Recursion
06-12-2008, 11:57 PM
It depends who the other person was, but I would live with guilt knowing they died because I didn't help them, So I would try to save both of us.
If it was family, I'd save them.
If it was a friend, I'd save myself, and probably live with the guilt for the rest of my life.
Describe
07-12-2008, 12:14 AM
I might be missing the point, but theres something you have to do to save both of you, surely? :P
Swearwolf
07-12-2008, 12:21 AM
save myself tbh unless it was 1 certain person
Fifteen
07-12-2008, 12:40 AM
All those that say themselves, how would you live it down that you decided to save yourself and let your friend die?
This really is a hard question!
well if I didn't choose myself I would be dead.
[Chris]
07-12-2008, 02:00 AM
Depends really, most likely my friend
PaulMacC
07-12-2008, 02:52 AM
save myself tbh unless it was 1 certain personawww, thanks george m8.
camera
07-12-2008, 07:25 AM
My friend asked me this today:
If you're in a car crash (hopefully you never had, an never will)
You're best friend is in the car aswell, at the last minute, you get the oppertunity to save yourself,or save your best friend?
What would YOU do, not what you think is best, what would you personaly do?
Thanks
dogboy123 x
id save my best friend because i love her to bits. if she dies, ill feel dead anyway so whats the point of living
Titch
07-12-2008, 07:32 AM
dont have a clue, wouldnt knw unless i was in that situation.
dogboy123
07-12-2008, 09:11 AM
Hope you never get into that situation!
Rapidshare
07-12-2008, 11:03 AM
I would save 2 people only
My girlfriend if i have one, and my younger brother.
Oh, maybe my younger cousins.
Anyone else, well only if they are really great :)
Wootzeh
07-12-2008, 11:11 AM
I'd save myself.
Cypher-
07-12-2008, 11:20 AM
Ive been in two the first being quite serious but the second I was driving whilst my then girlfriend was in the passenger seat, when I rolled the car it was on her side and first thoughts were to get her out first. Broke my hand while smashing the window and lifted her out before anything else happened but thankfully we both were alright. It wasnt really about thinking who was first, you just think that you will be ok no matter what.
Nobody wud ever no until that split second. its fair enough saying ud save them bt ud never no until it came down to it. Its that split second decision that u wudnt even think about.
MrGazet
07-12-2008, 11:28 AM
i guess if id save miself than mi m8.ill just hav to live wif the guilt.but to be less guilty,id be like..."its his fate to die"..and pray for him.hope tht will ease my guilty a bit
but relli whu knows wot wud happen rllly if im in teh situation.and no,dun wanna be in one k fanks
dogboy123
07-12-2008, 01:01 PM
Hope you never get into the situation
Technologic
07-12-2008, 01:14 PM
kill both of us
le harry
07-12-2008, 02:24 PM
bail on him and hope for the best
Stefy
07-12-2008, 02:27 PM
The question really should be..
Feel guilty the rest of your life or go to heaven
Technologic
07-12-2008, 02:49 PM
The question really should be..
Feel guilty the rest of your life or go to heaven
That is... if heaven existed, i'd rather live than pin my hopes on a fairy tale
Herman
07-12-2008, 03:55 PM
Save myself, of course. :S No buts about that.
dogboy123
07-12-2008, 04:27 PM
The question really should be..
Feel guilty the rest of your life or go to heaven
And if you dont belive in heaven ...
Wayne
07-12-2008, 04:33 PM
I'd save myself.
Realistically, if this situation were to come up I doubt it'd be a matter of guilt afterwards because you're not in the car thinking "alright, I'm going to kill my friend right now, escape and no one will know". It'd be more of a "LET'S GET THE **** OUT OF HERE" and I'm sure you'd try to help your friend but if time is running out you'll try to live. When you're in a situation like that you can't really think logically, you're just trying to get out. That being said, I'd probably try to help my friend, realize it was hoping and it's their time to go and then save myself. Also, I think it depends on what exactly is happening/how the death is about to go down.
MeRkAgE
07-12-2008, 05:23 PM
I'd help my friend, i'd rather die and people know i tried helping my friend :)
Kardan
07-12-2008, 05:28 PM
Depends on the suituation and who it was.
If it was a family member; then I'd try and save them no matter the suituation...
If it was a friend, it depends how much I like them - if it was a really close friend, I'd try to save them - but if they wern't, I'd save myself and then concentrate on trying to save them.
Neversoft
07-12-2008, 06:18 PM
Myself.
i love my life so i would go to save my own life.
however i'm too kind, so i'd probs try to save them first.
dogboy123
08-12-2008, 09:07 PM
Ive been in two the first being quite serious but the second I was driving whilst my then girlfriend was in the passenger seat, when I rolled the car it was on her side and first thoughts were to get her out first. Broke my hand while smashing the window and lifted her out before anything else happened but thankfully we both were alright. It wasnt really about thinking who was first, you just think that you will be ok no matter what.
Wow, that's brave! I admire you for that honestly!
+ Rep, if it shows it? :S :D
scottish
08-12-2008, 09:10 PM
How would you know you'd DEFINETLY die if you helped them or they'd DEFINETLY die if you left? o.0 also to help them you'd go in and get them, but if you went in to get them you'd have a chance of living so you can't really say if you help x you'll die, if you help yourself x will die? :P
but i'd wanna live obviously.
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