Advice

[ClumsyCarson]

Okay, I don't really know but I'm 13 years old, and I have always had "feelings" for the same sex since about 4th grade. Well, now I'm in the 8th grade and my hormones are going nuts, I don't know if I'm really gay or my body is playing April Fools on me every day. When I look at a girl I don't get that "vibe" like I get for looking at a guy. I just can't picture myself "doing" it with a female. I like a few guys and I know they're straight except for one, Michael. He's adorable, built, football player, basketball player, OKAY I'll stop teasing you. Anyway, he seems to at school hit on me by calling me sexy names and always likes to touch me, sneak up to me when im bent down in my locker screaming where the bloody hell are my books, and he just starts rubbing my back, I deny any feelings towards him and pushes him away :(.

I don't really know what to do, my parents are homophobic and threaten me saying if I'm gay or bi they'll send me to foster care or "kill" me.

My life is spy rolling down the toilet.

[Janet Snakehole]

ouch, pretty harsh words from your parents :|
does sound like you're gay though

perhaps you should try talk to your parents, and if you can't do that.. then perhaps write a letter explaining how you feel etc. i know you say they're homophobic, but surely as you're their child - they would have some understanding?

[today]

ouch, pretty harsh words from your parents :|
does sound like you're gay though

perhaps you should try talk to your parents, and if you can't do that.. then perhaps write a letter explaining how you feel etc. i know you say they're homophobic, but surely as you're their child - they would have some understanding?
Dont worry everyone has bad times, dont give up dude!!!!

[Rapidshare]

dude

your 13

y think about your love life now?

SCHOOL WORK BOY

R U NUTS

SCHOOL WORK FIRST OKAY

[Technologic]

jesus your parents said that? "/

[Fez]

You got the short end of the stick. My mum's racist, homophobic, law-loving vegan while my stepdad is a hitler-supporting, freedom hating, religon nomming thing.

Advice: Don't count your chickens before they hatch

[dogboy123]

Seriosly, 13, don't be thinking about stuff like that, concentrate on ur school work etc. worry about your sexuality later, that way all your hormones will have settled and you will know who you truley feel for, also, at an older age you will be able to deal with your parents so if you turn out bi, then you will be more mature and hopefuly they will understand.

:D

[Samishlol]

Simple, don't tell your parents until you move out. I swear you're been gay ages..

Also speak to this guy and see if he likes you in that way ?

[TAYLOOOOR1]

Hello!.

Well ye from what you wrote it does sound like your gay however because you're 13 your hormes will start to go wild as your in adelesense (however its spelt) but if you get attracted to men and not girls its more likely you're Gay.

Your Mum & Dad should just accept who you are as a person and now what you like. you shouldn't lock your true feelings away as this may effect you in many ways - stress etc.

Soo goodluck in what you decide to go and i think michael may like you :P lol!

Ps. Once it's all out in the open it will be like a pile of bricks has been took off you D:

[leah]

Your parents should be ashamed of their behaviour
you're their son and they should love you no matter what your sexuality is, I'd remind them of that if I was you.
It seems quite obvious that you're gay, so go for it with this lad who sounds hot btw :P

[brandon]

CrashCarson what are we gonna do with you eh? Not abandon you that's for sure. Did your parents say that in jest? I struggle to believe that any parent could say that seriously.

[TAYLOOOOR1]

id your parents say that in jest? I struggle to believe that any parent could say that seriously.


I know its harsh isnt it.