Spanking

[ClumsyCarson]

Do you think spanking is fair, and reasonable, were you spanked as a child, are you still spanked as a teenager, discuss.

This would be in Debate but I was unable to post it.

[Janet Snakehole]

spanking? that arouses some.. you know?
don't you mean smacking dear :)

no i wasn't, and no i'm not
i'm a good child!

[Danzilla]

When i saw "Spanking" i was like, oooh kinky! But i was quickly disapointed.
I was not hit when i was a child and still don't.

[Tbh.]

Do you think spanking is fair, and reasonable, were you spanked as a child, are you still spanked as a teenager, discuss.

This would be in Debate but I was unable to post it.

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they'll put a stop to it ;)
haha

[5,5]

a few time but not many or anything and im not anymore
i remember when i was like 4 i was running away from my mom crying with no pants cause i didnt wanna get spanked
hah

[scott]

spanking? that arouses some.. you know?
don't you mean smacking dear :)

no i wasn't, and no i'm not
i'm a good child!
You a good girl, keep dreaming.

And nope i havnt been!

[Cwmbran]

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they'll put a stop to it ;)
haha
FULL STOP.
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[FlyingJesus]

I was hit a couple of times as a kid, nothing regular and only if I'd been really out of order. I think it's good tbh, these days parents are too scared to discipline their kids in case they get looked on as child abusers and so children learn from birth that they can get away with anything.

[Tbh.]

FULL STOP.
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well you completely beat me there haha

[Cwmbran]

well you completely beat me there haha
Physically or theoretically?

[Tbh.]

Physically or theoretically?

i sea wut u did thar

[Cwmbran]

i sea wut u did thar
:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap
but yeh its bad stop it please, full stop.

[Blinger1]

As a child I was punished by getting hit, I don't regret or hat my parents for it. I would do the same to my kids, makes you/them learn quicker :)

[leah]

when I saw spanking I thought sexual aha.
erm kids I know that didnt get smacked are actually better behaved than those that did.

[cocaine]

yeah i got hit a few times cus i was being badly behaved

it worked on me

[Titch]

yeh, it i was rude or missbhaved i got a smack, its the way you learn things.

[Wootzeh]

I got a slap on the legs, and it worked for me so meh.

[Access]

been smacked a few times, nothing serious or nout only if i was being a little ****

[camera]

oh err, ive never been slapped by my mum. or spank. well i got spank by friends. i dont like it :/

ive been slapped by my teacher when i was in primary 1.
uhm ive been caned by my mum when i was young. :)
been abused by my dad when i was VERY young just coz i defended my mum.
and er, i got hit by a belt when i failed my exams.

looking back, i thought its more of a lesson to be learn. my mum meant well when she did all that. my father, lol thats just not acceptable.
all these thats happened made me stronger.
im one tough nut to crack now.

bottomline, ive never been spanked. just by my playful friends :/ and thats only recently

[Casio]

I dont that its fair atall !

[Ostinato]

I was only smacked if I ever did somethign major wrong. In heinsight it definitely taught me whats right from wrong and it's definitely did me no harm.

If my kids do anything wrong they will be smacked.

I'm not talking about a leathering, lol, obviously the strength of the smack is very little indeed.

[Patt]

i'm completely for Spanking/Smacking. Parents are living fear of being arrested for touching there own Children.

Offtopic; i'm also for Copral Punishment.

[Crimson]

I was 'Smacked' when I was younger if I done something really wrong. It was only on a rare occasion anyway... I think it's certainly acceptable.

[Bun]

im for smacking kids.


im not for spanking kids. :eusa_wall

[RyanDOT]

999

Best option!

[Cypher-]

Course its acceptable, I cant remember any times I was hit as a kid but when we are really young we obviously dont have that great of a grasp on behaviour. Its like having a new dog, need to teach it right from wrong somehow before it gets into a pattern of being bad. I dont mean slapping the face or body or anything thats just abuse but its a parents obligation to the public to keep their child in line. I wonder how many walking asbo's werent spanked as kids.

[Andeeh]

tbh as a kid i was a pain in the bum.
and i only got smacked a few times but i understand why cause i pushed them to the limit.

Nowadays i get on wid my dad and sis so no need really.

[Asher]

Nothing wrong with a slight spank/slap/hit whatever you want to call it if the child is misbehaving.

[websitedude1997]

nothing wrong wiv it

[le harry]

Eh my dad smacked me when I was being a moron lol

[Herman]

I have been smacked by my father, but rarely, only once or twice in my entire childhood. My mother does most of the disciplining. She used a cloth hanger to cane me, but this was also rare. I guess it has helped me. :S

[ClumsyCarson]

Was anyone ever birched?

What does canning feel like?

[Nick.]

Physically or theoretically?
Literally or metaphorically* ;)

[Shawnstra]

To be honest, I don't think spanking is really the best thing to do. If you spank a child, he would only not do the bad thing he did because he was afraid of another spanking, not do it because he knows it is wrong. Parents should do explaining first. (Although, after multiple times and he still doesn't listen, spank away!)

[Abbie.]

i was hit ALOT as a child, but my mum and dad would take it further and lift me up by the neck etc, and if i couldnt do my homework, i remember one day i dad winded me because i was crying so much because he kept pulling my hair and i couldnt take a breath after a fullstop. Then there was the wooden spoon, which wasnt too bad, but yeah.


i reallllly dont agree with it, srsly ive got to the point now were i backchat my parents so much because im scared they'll hit me, to make them scared of me, if that makes sence :S

i dont agree with it atallll.

[buttons]

oh err, ive never been slapped by my mum. or spank. well i got spank by friends. i dont like it :/

ive been slapped by my teacher when i was in primary 1.
uhm ive been caned by my mum when i was young. :)
been abused by my dad when i was VERY young just coz i defended my mum.
and er, i got hit by a belt when i failed my exams.

looking back, i thought its more of a lesson to be learn. my mum meant well when she did all that. my father, lol thats just not acceptable.
all these thats happened made me stronger.
im one tough nut to crack now.

bottomline, ive never been spanked. just by my playful friends :/ and thats only recently
i love it when my mates spank me lollll
oh that's a bit extreme, getting hit by a belt! i got hit by one of my teachers on sports day in my first year and she took me by the throat coz i kept changing the scores on the points so my team was winning lol she got sacked tho

my mam still smacks me on the head if i'm stupid lol but i'm just like "whatever" i don't disrespect her though so she has no reason to hit me, people who do get hit probably deserve it or their parents are physcos. I don't think i was ever hit as a child 'cause i'm just good.

[Geraint]

I'm the kind of person, who if hit, would fight back. Have done before.

[ClumsyCarson]

911 > 911 What is your emergency > My mommy molestors me :(

[Abbie.]

I'm the kind of person, who if hit, would fight back. Have done before.

id never lay a finger on anyone, specially my parents lol

[ClumsyCarson]

id never lay a finger on anyone, specially my parents lol

When my mom use to drink, she'd get aggresive and start to punch, let's just say she got herself knocked on the floor plenty of times, thanks to learning karata :)

[Abbie.]

When my mom use to drink, she'd get aggresive and start to punch, let's just say she got herself knocked on the floor plenty of times, thanks to learning karata :)

but you should respect her, even if she is a ***** LOL

[buttons]

id never lay a finger on anyone, specially my parents lol
even if they hit you? my step mum hit me when i was 8 for not cleaning my room and i just walloped her back 'cause she aint my mum :)

[Geraint]

id never lay a finger on anyone, specially my parents lol

I have. When I was younger, I was a bit mad so if my mother hit me, I'd hit her back.

I regret it now but I kinda don't.

[Abbie.]

if i hit my mum, my dad would fully punch me so no thankssss lol


but like, theyre so going in a nurseing home when theyre old heheheh

[ClumsyCarson]

My mom still didn't earn back my respect for her. I treat her like she treats me. Like a dog.

[Geraint]

but you should respect her, even if she is a ***** LOL

There's also other methods other than hitting children. I think that the parents are also showing a lack of respect to their children, if they decide to hit them.


even if they hit you? my step mum hit me when i was 8 for not cleaning my room and i just walloped her back 'cause she aint my mum :)

step-mum's a little different.


if i hit my mum, my dad would fully punch me so no thankssss lol


but like, theyre so going in a nurseing home when theyre old heheheh

my mum never told my dad though.