View Full Version : Girl Trouble... Eek. Need Help.
Reflecting.
21-12-2008, 08:11 PM
Okay, I've liked this girl for a while now and I think she knows it. We speak alot and I found out that she liked me through one of her friends. So I took the opportunity and asked her out she said "Let me think about it" or something along those lines. So I was like ok. The following day I randomly said to her. Can we just forget about me asking you out? which I regret saying now ( I think I must off got scared of rejection) and she goes. Yhh I think we're bit to friendly to be going out.
Later I found out that she told one off her friends that she hated boys. I think that maybe she went all defensive after I said can we just forget about it. Also I was thinking if she liked me wouldnt she off said yes straight away?
Anyway... You're probably going to say... Tell her how you feel... Well I dont think Ive got the guts for that.
Anyway give me some advice please in my time of need lol
camera
21-12-2008, 08:19 PM
maybe like you, she ws scared of rejection too.
o nd she ws prolly quite shocked tht ud ask her out so yer.
Reflecting.
21-12-2008, 10:04 PM
maybe like you, she ws scared of rejection too.
o nd she ws prolly quite shocked tht ud ask her out so yer.
Thanks...
for the advice. The thing I dont get is: If she said she liked me then why not say Yes straight away and she might not off been shocked cos I told her I liked her.
maybe like you, she ws scared of rejection too.
o nd she ws prolly quite shocked tht ud ask her out so yer.
yeeeer
Sir.Gold
21-12-2008, 11:02 PM
Really the best thing to do is
Walk up and kiss her and say to her im sorry for saying lets forget about it and i dont want us to be just friends.
F**k rejection because this is your chance dont let some other guy take that chance.
kuzkasate
23-12-2008, 12:44 PM
If she would of liked you then she would of said it straight away, But girls are annoying that way, they waste time that way because they like too. Its so annoying, then they get to the point where you are like, forget it and they go off sulking. Women these days ...
BowTies1
23-12-2008, 02:08 PM
live in fear my friend and you'll get no where in life
Wig44.
26-12-2008, 06:26 PM
Thanks...
for the advice. The thing I dont get is: If she said she liked me then why not say Yes straight away and she might not off been shocked cos I told her I liked her.
She actually did tell you why. She was probably scared about wrecking your relationship as friends and needed time to think about it.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 08:27 PM
maybe like you, she ws scared of rejection too.
o nd she ws prolly quite shocked tht ud ask her out so yer.
I agree with the above post
illegal
29-12-2008, 02:05 AM
Okay, I've liked this girl for a while now and I think she knows it. We speak alot and I found out that she liked me through one of her friends. So I took the opportunity and asked her out she said "Let me think about it" or something along those lines. So I was like ok. The following day I randomly said to her. Can we just forget about me asking you out? which I regret saying now ( I think I must off got scared of rejection) and she goes. Yhh I think we're bit to friendly to be going out.
Later I found out that she told one off her friends that she hated boys. I think that maybe she went all defensive after I said can we just forget about it. Also I was thinking if she liked me wouldnt she off said yes straight away?
Anyway... You're probably going to say... Tell her how you feel... Well I dont think Ive got the guts for that.
Anyway give me some advice please in my time of need lol
Write how you feel into a text. Get it to the send button. Then get somebody else to press it. I've done it a few times before when I really didn't wanna send a text but had to.
Cwmbran
29-12-2008, 02:11 AM
Write how you feel into a text. Get it to the send button. Then get somebody else to press it. I've done it a few times before when I really didn't wanna send a text but had to.
A text... No.
If your going to try and salvage anything from this it has to be done face-to-face.
As for the reason she told one of her friends she hates all boys it could be because she did like you and was shocked that you asked her out then the next day you turn around and literally say "forget about it" says to her that you don't care and only wanted to go out with her for the sake of it.
Damn I should write a book on this crap, call it "Common sense, are you missing some?".
alotest
02-01-2009, 05:37 PM
does anyone else know about this, tell a friend and get them to tell her that you still want to.
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