Girl Help... (Stupid Mistake) Help please.

[Reflecting.]

Ok I've liked this girl for a while now and I think she knew. I often talk to her and I found out from a friend that she liked me. So I decided to ask her out. She said "I'll think about it." (Dont know if she was playing hard to get or anything) and I was like ok. The next day I said to her. "About me asking you out can we just like forget about it." ( I think I must off been scared of rejection) She then replys " Yeah I think we're too friendly to go out don't you think?" I was like kk's ( I was abit upest I have to admitt.) But now I just regret it and I'm not sure what to do. But I was thinking if she liked me like she said to me and too several other people, wouldn't she off said Yes straight away or was she just playing hard to get or something?

Not long after I said this to her, I heard that she said to a friend. " I hate boys" so I think she must off been upset...

Anyway I need advice I really like her and not sure what to do. I know alot of you will just say. Tell her how u feel but I'm not sure I could tell her.

Thanks for reading :)

Alan

[iAdam]

Give it a few days, she'll be thinking the same as you, hopefully then you can patch it all back up with something like "I've been thinking again....." and don't get scared again, there's no need for it. If she regects you then you just gotta move on and put it behind you.

[Inseriousity.]

Don't be scared of rejection. There's always rejection in your life, including relationships, jobs and various other things. Say 'I'm sorry for messing you about. I was just scared, that's all. Will you please think about it again?' Girls like it when boys aren't scared to show their feelings.

edit: any girls who want to attack me, I'm sorry! I'll rephrase it to 'In my experience, girls like it when boys aren't scared to show their feelings' :D

[Reflecting.]

Give it a few days, she'll be thinking the same as you, hopefully then you can patch it all back up with something like "I've been thinking again....." and don't get scared again, there's no need for it. If she regects you then you just gotta move on and put it behind you.
Yh thanks... She seems abit moody with me lol

Don't be scared of rejection. There's always rejection in your life, including relationships, jobs and various other things. Say 'I'm sorry for messing you about. I was just scared, that's all. Will you please think about it again?' Girls like it when boys aren't scared to show their feelings.

edit: any girls who want to attack me, I'm sorry! I'll rephrase it to 'In my experience, girls like it when boys aren't scared to show their feelings' :D

Lol.. Ok thanks for the advice

Lol I seemed to make 2 different posts about this by accident lol.

[luce]

give everything a while to calm down and then ask her again and say you didn't want to say let's leave it :D

[Imnotpure]

Tell her you said forget about it because you were scared of rejection, shes obviously hating boys because she thinks yo uwere just trying to be a jerk, she probably said youre too friendly to go out because she didnt want to make herself look like the mug in going to say yes but you saying forget about it.

[!.x.FaYe.x.!]

To be perfectly honest, if the girl said no, she's really not interested. Knowing girls and knowing me, if a guy asked me out I wouldn't think about it if I really liked him. Its harsh, but its true.

However, I'm 17. It all varies depending on how old you are. I remember when I was younger I'd get nervous about 'going on a date' with a boy, or having a boyfriend. So maybe she's just scared? Think about it - How much experience has she had with boys? Has she been hurt recently, therefore afraid to commit again? As I said, it depends on her situation...

Hope that's helped my darling!

[iAdam]

Yh thanks... She seems abit moody with me lol


Lol.. Ok thanks for the advice

Lol I seemed to make 2 different posts about this by accident lol.

She'll be like that for a bit, hate is always the first sign of a relationship when you're in your teens.

[Reflecting.]

To be perfectly honest, if the girl said no, she's really not interested. Knowing girls and knowing me, if a guy asked me out I wouldn't think about it if I really liked him. Its harsh, but its true.


Yh thanks but she didnt say no she said she'd think about it. But the thing which gets me is. If she told me and other people she liked me then why not say Yes straight away? Maybe she was just encouraging me to ask her out.

I think I may just leave it for the time being and later on use some charm :)

Thanks for the advice. Keep it coming please

If I could +REP u all I would.

[illegal]

I get load's of "i hate boys" "all boys are *****s" and what not from upset girls, it's just what they say. Talk to her about it tbh.