Guilt Trip

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My mum does that alot.
Like when she needs something, and i say that im not gonna do it, she'll start going on and on about how she shes spent half her life raising me up bla bla bla and this always end up with me caving in lmao. It always works on me.
Not just that, my friends do that too. Its annoying because i cant like say no to them you know?

So has anyone done this to you? Or have you done it to someone else?

[Minstrels]

My dad does it. He's like "Will you do this?" I'll be like "Yeah in a minute" then he'll be all like "Nah your alright I'll do it " so then I'm like "Nah man I'll do it" and he's all like... "No, no I'll do it" so then I'm left like ":rolleyes:".

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i know! its annoying coz they take advantage of that :/

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my mum does it alllllllll the time i just turn my music up n ignore her :D
& some guy who took me out did it once aswell he kept sayin "i paid for your bus!" whenever i'd go in a mood with him even though he offered! :S

[FlyingJesus]

My mum does that alot.
Like when she needs something, and i say that im not gonna do it, she'll start going on and on about how she shes spent half her life raising me up bla bla bla and this always end up with me caving in lmao. It always works on me.

To be fair though she HAS spent half her life raising you lol, no-one's ever grateful enough to their parents. Me included so that's not a jibe at you or anything


my mum does it alllllllll the time i just turn my music up n ignore her :D
& some guy who took me out did it once aswell he kept sayin "i paid for your bus!" whenever i'd go in a mood with him even though he offered! :S

lol he's just a skank obv

[Minstrels]

my mum does it alllllllll the time i just turn my music up n ignore her :D
& some guy who took me out did it once aswell he kept sayin "i paid for your bus!" whenever i'd go in a mood with him even though he offered! :S
So if you didn't want to talk he'd go "You've got to talk, I paid for your bus!". :S

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yer i was in a mood the next day and he just kept calling me ungreatful :l

[Minstrels]

Lmao! For what £2? That's sad...

[LoveToStack]

Ye my mum does it but I just don't do it and endure the guilt.

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To be fair though she HAS spent half her life raising you lol, no-one's ever grateful enough to their parents. Me included so that's not a jibe at you or anything



lol he's just a skank obv

i know. thats why i caved in. but it still feels like bein taken advantage of :eusa_wall

LTS: i cant stand feeling guilty lol. one of my weaknesses :/

[Yonder]

I have a friend in your position and it wont stop until you voice your opinion. Worse thing is getting into an argument over it though so just some how discuss that it was her choice to bring you in this world not yours. But sometimes parents can take this the wrong way just make sure you use the right time to say it e.g. not in the middle of an argument xD.

[Imnotpure]

Mine do it but I see where theyre coming from always, so I dont have a problem with it ive been a ***** to raise im sure.

[5,5]

im a sucker for a guilt trip.

[Homosexual]

say no and mean no

[Jordan:A]

My mom does it to me, im like ****

[Cwmbran]

No, I just dont give anyone the opportunity to do that to me.
Only person that could is my mum but she wouldnt, my dad tried it once and i actually said to him "**** off you dont even know when i was born" which he replied with something stupid and i told him to get lost.

[Shawnstra]

My dad does it. He's like "Will you do this?" I'll be like "Yeah in a minute" then he'll be all like "Nah your alright I'll do it " so then I'm like "Nah man I'll do it" and he's all like... "No, no I'll do it" so then I'm left like ":rolleyes:".

YES OMG. My mum also always does this to me. I'll be like no. And then she'll go all sad and say, oh nevermind and stuff and in the end I cave in.

[Janet Snakehole]

my mum does this to me all the time, she knows my weaknesses :(

[kuzkasate]

My mum does that alot.
Like when she needs something, and i say that im not gonna do it, she'll start going on and on about how she shes spent half her life raising me up bla bla bla and this always end up with me caving in lmao. It always works on me.
Not just that, my friends do that too. Its annoying because i cant like say no to them you know?

So has anyone done this to you? Or have you done it to someone else?

Yh my friends do it all the time