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kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:00 PM
Well basically I am dating this girl called Becky right... well we were going on okay until we decided to have sex... since that day after she wants sex EVERYDAY its like... chill! Iv just had enough, Im not going out with her for the sex its because I liked her. I guess I saw her other side... Well I want to finish her, any ideas how?
I will +rep if I can ;]
Pyroka
26-12-2008, 06:03 PM
She'll get the completely wrong impression, but there's no point in lying to her. Tell her what you dont like about her, she may wise up and apologise, she might have just got the spur of the moment.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:04 PM
She'll get the completely wrong impression, but there's no point in lying to her. Tell her what you dont like about her, she may wise up and apologise, she might have just got the spur of the moment.
Oh yh ROFL I never thought of that... thnx anywya +rep
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 06:40 PM
normally, i'd say, are you bent? But no, I wouldn't
I'd say it's probally cus shes growing up and is horney for most of the time you are around her, i'd say stick at it at the moment..
(this is not acrate). but has happened to me once.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:42 PM
normally, i'd say, are you bent? But no, I wouldn't
I'd say it's probally cus shes growing up and is horney for most of the time you are around her, i'd say stick at it at the moment..
(this is not acrate). but has happened to me once.
Im not bent its just that I dont want to go out with her JUST for the sex. I wouldnt mind it now and then but not every time and now we like dont even go out anywhere just spend time in her bed :(
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 06:43 PM
Im not bent its just that I dont want to go out with her JUST for the sex. I wouldnt mind it now and then but not every time and now we like dont even go out anywhere just spend time in her bed :(
You've got to wise up, you have to say to her "look, can we not just have a day in the park, or movies for once". ? How old are you anyways?
Your the man, not her.
Pyroka
26-12-2008, 06:45 PM
You've got to wise up, you have to say to her "look, can we not just have a day in the park, or movies for once". ? How old are you anyways?
Your the man, not her.
OR IS SHE? OHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol i couldnt help it. You obviously want a relationship, she might just want sex sex sex. She'll wise up.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:48 PM
You've got to wise up, you have to say to her "look, can we not just have a day in the park, or movies for once". ? How old are you anyways?
Your the man, not her.
I have asked her... Iv even said like could we calm a little down on the sex. Its turning into something like rape really. :O
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 06:50 PM
OR IS SHE? OHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol i couldnt help it. You obviously want a relationship, she might just want sex sex sex. She'll wise up.
LOL
I have asked her... Iv even said like could we calm a little down on the sex. Its turning into something like rape really. :O
What did she say to that? Seriouslly, you got to be a bit more violent. *edit one
*at telling her off.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:52 PM
LOL
What did she say to that? Seriouslly, you got to be a bit more violent. *edit one
*at telling her off.
Well the thing is she always says shes tired and she cba, yet shes not tired for sex? I dont under stand her, I litterally dragged her out once seriously, and then she went in a strop saying "I was forcing her to do things she didnt want". I am like ***! She forces me to have sex with her...
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 06:53 PM
Well the thing is she always says shes tired and she cba, yet shes not tired for sex? I dont under stand her, I litterally dragged her out once seriously, and then she went in a strop saying "I was forcing her to do things she didnt want". I am like ***! She forces me to have sex with her...
Hmm.. not to be rude, but is she a kind of ****? (sorry)
To me, it sounds like she is.
buttons
26-12-2008, 06:53 PM
Your the man, not her.
what's that meant to mean :S
unless you're sure you can leave her and get sex easily enough when u want (ONCE YA POP U CNT STOP) then yer dump her otherwise lol no
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 06:55 PM
what's that meant to mean :S
unless you're sure you can leave her and get sex easily enough when u want (ONCE YA POP U CNT STOP) then yer dump her otherwise lol no
I can get it easily its just I dont want it so often. (The text in bold made me LOL)
Btw Blanky she is a **** thats why I want to finish her -.-
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 06:57 PM
I can get it easily its just I dont want it so often. (The text in bold made me LOL)
Btw Blanky she is a **** thats why I want to finish her -.-
you spke to your perrentss about this
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 07:00 PM
you spke to your perrentss about this
Not really I dont want my parents to know these things. I mean, Im not exactly gonna tell me mum/dad Iv been having sex with a girl everyday LOL its abit embarrasing...
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 07:01 PM
Not really I dont want my parents to know these things. I mean, Im not exactly gonna tell me mum/dad Iv been having sex with a girl everyday LOL its abit embarrasing...
it may be embarrasing but you got to take that chance and tell your mum, or someone who understands like connections.
they will help you sort it out I reconmend the connections
Pyroka
26-12-2008, 07:01 PM
Not really I dont want my parents to know these things. I mean, Im not exactly gonna tell me mum/dad Iv been having sex with a girl everyday LOL its abit embarrasing...
Your dad would be impressed.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 07:02 PM
Your dad would be impressed.
He will but ROFL it doesn't seem right telling him...
Pyroka
26-12-2008, 07:03 PM
He will but ROFL it doesn't seem right telling him...
Do it, your mum will start hassling your dad then and you might get a baby brother or sister.
zing.
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 07:03 PM
He will but ROFL it doesn't seem right telling him...
Well, it's up to you, personally i'd try and dump the girl in the right way say like.
"I'm having family problems at the moment, and I can't be with you much longer, sorry "becky" love you." kiss her.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 07:04 PM
Do it, your mum will start hassling your dad then and you might get a baby brother or sister.
zing.
I dont need anymore Iv had enough of 2 sisters BTW blanky +rep
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 07:05 PM
I dont need anymore Iv had enough of 2 sisters BTW blanky +rep
best way to do it I think.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 07:06 PM
Iv only just realised... what if I got her pregnant :S
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 07:07 PM
Iv only just realised... what if I got her pregnant :S
you didn't you contraception?
Pyroka
26-12-2008, 07:10 PM
you didn't you contraception?
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPS LOL.
blanky12!
26-12-2008, 07:12 PM
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPS LOL.
this may or may not sound harsh, but you need to get that girl some way of finding if you're man juices has infected her with a baby, how old are you?
Krusty
26-12-2008, 07:22 PM
TART !
Refuse to have sex with her, tell her your manly parts hurt or something, blame it on friction !!
ahaaaaa
what a *******. did you know she was that hoooorny when you started going out?
how long have you two been together ?
maybe she just wants it becuase she thinks its what you want. talk to her!
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 08:01 PM
Well I did use condoms but like not all the time... BTW we have been going out a couple of months...
BTW im gonna get her to do a pregnancy check
Reminds me of Limp Bizkit - No Sex
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 08:15 PM
Reminds me of Limp Bizkit - No Sex
Erm... okay... :S
Google the lyrics or summit.
Kardan
26-12-2008, 08:20 PM
Well I did use condoms but like not all the time... BTW we have been going out a couple of months...
BTW im gonna get her to do a pregnancy check
Oh dear. Lets just hope you don't have a second problem on your hands.
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 08:21 PM
Oh dear. Lets just hope you don't have a second problem on your hands.
Same here, I cant belive my stupidity :@
kuzkasate
26-12-2008, 08:51 PM
Sorry for double post but I couldnt edit.
New info: She text me asking to come over for some "fun". So I text her back saying "Look bbz I cnt, not tonight iv got loads of problmz at home" Now shes annoyed. I DO HAVE A LIFE I CNT ALWAYS BE WITH HER, she just needs to exept it.:@
Wig44.
28-12-2008, 06:23 PM
For the people that kept asking his age and he kept avoiding answering, he is 13. (Source = that thread about weed and how much you do)
kuzkasate
28-12-2008, 06:30 PM
For the people that kept asking his age and he kept avoiding answering, he is 13. (Source = that thread about weed and how much you do)
ROFL do you really think that i would put my real age in that post SERIOUSLY!
Casual
28-12-2008, 07:09 PM
Should say if your bored use self love lol :P
you sorted it out now or not?
kuzkasate
28-12-2008, 07:11 PM
Should say if your bored use self love lol :P
you sorted it out now or not?
Well you could say that... I finished her but she said shes not telling me the pregnancy results. Which is abit stupid because I am bound to see her one day and if she ahs a big belly... Im in trouble :P
alotest
03-01-2009, 07:54 AM
For the people that kept asking his age and he kept avoiding answering, he is 13. (Source = that thread about weed and how much you do)
It's none of our buisness about what age he is unless he wants to tell us, so to be honest get lost with things like that, it akes yourself look bad.
somebody's telling porkies :eusa_danc.
Nxrissa
03-01-2009, 02:02 PM
maybe shes enjoying your company and wants to see you more .
just tell her that look i really dont want to hurt your feelings its just im not ready to have sex all the time and can we take things easy .
see how it goes and you might fall in love with her again if not just tell her gently because a girls heart is veyr fragile
kuzkasate
03-01-2009, 02:04 PM
maybe shes enjoying your company and wants to see you more .
just tell her that look i really dont want to hurt your feelings its just im not ready to have sex all the time and can we take things easy .
see how it goes and you might fall in love with her again if not just tell her gently because a girls heart is veyr fragile
You should write a romance! Thanks btw +rep
Nxrissa
06-01-2009, 07:21 PM
Thank you for rep (:
Lol im awful at writting stuff.
Vegas
07-01-2009, 12:48 AM
ino you may want to dump her because all she wants from you is sex,
but are you sure you don't love her?
Nobody can actually tell you who to and not to love, and i don't think anybody can tell you how to end with her as shes your GF, and many people won't know her like you do.
As people have said before *Maybe she wants more time with you* Then it shouldnt just be that she wants sex 24/7 plus its not all bout that anyways. And i think you just need to tell her straight yet lightly, as if she really does love you.. it could really upset.. just say to her
*Look... I love/Loved you.. but i just don't see how i can go on with you permantly "using" me for sex. and Maybe if thats all you see me for... we should have a break"
Livin
07-01-2009, 01:01 AM
If its the first time that she has had sex or that you have had sex this could happen because of the feeling that it gives her, But you should tell her how you feel dont be mean about it just say like Hey I dont want sex today or just tell her that having sex this many times is ridiclious, You have sex for a reson not just for the fun of it anyway thats how i see it anyway, But then if she stars to fall out with you over it then tbh that is pathetic she needs to take into account how you feel about it aswell as her , And if she cant do that then to be honest and trying not to be mean but she is really not worth it buddy :)
Hope I could Be of service :)
kuzkasate
07-01-2009, 05:14 PM
If its the first time that she has had sex or that you have had sex this could happen because of the feeling that it gives her, But you should tell her how you feel dont be mean about it just say like Hey I dont want sex today or just tell her that having sex this many times is ridiclious, You have sex for a reson not just for the fun of it anyway thats how i see it anyway, But then if she stars to fall out with you over it then tbh that is pathetic she needs to take into account how you feel about it aswell as her , And if she cant do that then to be honest and trying not to be mean but she is really not worth it buddy :)
Hope I could Be of service :)
Yh, I tried doing that. She just goes in a mood and gets all stroppy and shes like not talking to me. BTW its not my first time and I think it is her first time, yh it is actually. But she has too much "pleasure out of it".
Iv not been talking to her for a few weeks. We last talked when she said "Iv got the pregnancy results" and she seemed like really happy. But I know she wanted like a baby... so why is she happy? Im confused... really Im just lost... I hope she isnt pregnant... IM TOO YOUNG TO DIE :( you may be thinking "WELL USE A CONDOM NOOB" but when i can, I do but its not always with me ...
Nxrissa
07-01-2009, 05:26 PM
well i havent lost my virginity yet so i wouldnt no
i havent even got of ( kissin terms) with someone.
which is quite embaressing.
im not frigid just the only boy i went out with that actually made a move was sloppy ):
anyway getting back to you
fingers crossed*
hopefully shes not because i dont think you really want to be a dad yet .
if she is pregnant try and get her to have a abortion if u feel that strongly about it
but you should use protection really if you dont want kids.
kuzkasate
07-01-2009, 05:36 PM
well i havent lost my virginity yet so i wouldnt no
i havent even got of ( kissin terms) with someone.
which is quite embaressing.
im not frigid just the only boy i went out with that actually made a move was sloppy ):
anyway getting back to you
fingers crossed*
hopefully shes not because i dont think you really want to be a dad yet .
if she is pregnant try and get her to have a abortion if u feel that strongly about it
but you should use protection really if you dont want kids.
Your day will come, I wish I were like you instead (virgin terms). But, the thing is I really dont wanna be a daddy yet but it seems so cruel having an abortion. Anyway, about the protection, I use it when i have it (most of the time) but lets hope shes not pregnant.
Nxrissa
07-01-2009, 05:40 PM
Your day will come, I wish I were like you instead (virgin terms). But, the thing is I really dont wanna be a daddy yet but it seems so cruel having an abortion. Anyway, about the protection, I use it when i have it (most of the time) but lets hope shes not pregnant.
Fingers crossed. i hope it all works out x
how old are you btw ? x
Livin
07-01-2009, 05:40 PM
Yh, I tried doing that. She just goes in a mood and gets all stroppy and shes like not talking to me. BTW its not my first time and I think it is her first time, yh it is actually. But she has too much "pleasure out of it".
Iv not been talking to her for a few weeks. We last talked when she said "Iv got the pregnancy results" and she seemed like really happy. But I know she wanted like a baby... so why is she happy? Im confused... really Im just lost... I hope she isnt pregnant... IM TOO YOUNG TO DIE :( you may be thinking "WELL USE A CONDOM NOOB" but when i can, I do but its not always with me ...
Well if you do still love her then the best thing to do is to do is keep in touch with her and stick by her even if she is pregnant, I know it might be a young age to be having a kid but if she is acctuly pregnant then you will always be the father to that child, and keep a condom in your wallet or something thats what i do because if your in the mood for it then atleast you know you have got one there "Dont be silly wrap your willy" But all i can say is stick by her and tell her how you feel, Even if she does go in a mood not the end of the world and look at it this way if you havnt been speaking for a while least you aint getting the sex everyday! ;)
Hope I could Help
drama
07-01-2009, 06:10 PM
i'm really seeing no problem with your situation.
kuzkasate
07-01-2009, 08:58 PM
Fingers crossed. i hope it all works out x
how old are you btw ? x
It's none of our buisness about what age he is unless he wants to tell us, so to be honest get lost with things like that, it akes yourself look bad.
There was a big arguement with that question.:D
Titch
07-01-2009, 11:38 PM
Gor if my girlfriend wanted to stay in bed all time i would be in heaven!
kuzkasate
08-01-2009, 07:32 PM
Gor if my girlfriend wanted to stay in bed all time i would be in heaven!
Then you quite clearly, have not experience love yet. Love isnt just about the bed all the time, theres a lot more to it than that.
Ostinato
08-01-2009, 07:57 PM
Oh for gods sake get a grip of yourself.
You are making out as though shes tying you up, getting your willy out and sitting on it with you screaming no!
If you don't want to have sex with her, then you say no and tell her to get the hell of you. Stop acting like a little girl and doing it then afterwards making out as though you didn't want to and it is all one sided. If that really was the case then, like I say, theres no reason why you can't get her told straight and point blank refuse.
To the fact you are not using protection and now you are worried shes pregnant - well thats a whole different matter. But in my opinion, if you don't even fully wanna have sex with her then you shouldn't be doing so unprotected by any means.
If you keep acting like this and letting her walk over you, then come crying on here afterwards the consequences are going to get much worse. For every time you have sex with her unprotected you are just adding more risk onto the chance that you will bring an innocent baby into the world.
Like I say, get a grip and be a man. If you want to have sex then go for it keep at it, if you really don't then there is one very simple solution indeed - DON'T.
Immenseman
08-01-2009, 08:00 PM
you're 13 lol
Imnotpure
09-01-2009, 08:16 AM
just get really rough or develop some creepy fettish
mike475
09-01-2009, 04:44 PM
try out the most weirdest fantasy's you've ever thought of.
- doctors and nurses?
you do it.
- make her bite 'you'
you do it.
making me hard now thinking about it..
kuzkasate
09-01-2009, 05:09 PM
try out the most weirdest fantasy's you've ever thought of.
- doctors and nurses?
you do it.
- make her bite 'you'
you do it.
making me hard now thinking about it..
Erm... okay ...
Oh for gods sake get a grip of yourself.
You are making out as though shes tying you up, getting your willy out and sitting on it with you screaming no!
If you don't want to have sex with her, then you say no and tell her to get the hell of you. Stop acting like a little girl and doing it then afterwards making out as though you didn't want to and it is all one sided. If that really was the case then, like I say, theres no reason why you can't get her told straight and point blank refuse.
To the fact you are not using protection and now you are worried shes pregnant - well thats a whole different matter. But in my opinion, if you don't even fully wanna have sex with her then you shouldn't be doing so unprotected by any means.
If you keep acting like this and letting her walk over you, then come crying on here afterwards the consequences are going to get much worse. For every time you have sex with her unprotected you are just adding more risk onto the chance that you will bring an innocent baby into the world.
Like I say, get a grip and be a man. If you want to have sex then go for it keep at it, if you really don't then there is one very simple solution indeed - DON'T.
Look, Im not like that. I wouldnt crush a girls heart. And its really easy to say DONT isnt it? I would like to see you in this situation and then see how you would get out of it. Maybe your the sort that does bring pain to women. So you clearly dont know what your talking about or, your just... strange.
And Immensme, Im not 13. I never tell anyone my real age. And if you have a post or something, then obv I didnt put my real age. If you read the other posts, then you would know that.
i don't think you have a girlfriend called becky, enjoy your palm
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