Really Confused

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

I met this girl two years ago as my mum and dad are friends with hers so naturally me and her got to know each other.

Shes 1 year younger than me and at the time she was seeing someone that I went to Primary school with (I never talked to him). Anyway, they break up and as I'm a nice gentleman (:D) I calmed her down a bit.

On news years eve (not the one just gone, one before that) she wanted to meet me (when i say meet I mean snog lol) and I couldnt as I had to walk the dog. When i came back she had gone so I had no chance to.

Since then its been really wierd as Id ask if she still wanted to meet me and she would say yeah and we talked for a bit but then she stopped talking etc so i took tha as a no.

She would then ask me again a couple of months later and Id say yeah so its starts all over again. Then she stops talking and when we on msn she says "Brb tea" and she never comes back.

That has happened about 5 times. Its my dads birthday party soon and I asked if she was going and she said yeah. She then starts flirting with me saying tha she will have to dress up nice if I'm going etc. but then she stops talking and i say "u there?" and she will say "brb tea" and dosnt come back.

I am really really confused.

Sorry if its confusing

[Nxrissa]

its slightly but i can see where your coming from.
tbh if shes being like this then shes not worth it.
find someone else who is really interested in you and will wait for her tea and tell her mum to shut up and ill get tea in a minute and give you a reply lol x.
hope this helps

[Nixt]

Without meaning to break hearts, she's messing you around. She's building you up and breaking you down and to me she isn't interested in you at all. You could perhaps give her an ultimatum but my advice would be to just totally ignore her and move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, most of them better than this girl I reckon!

[leah]

She seems to enjoy playing games.
Forget her if I was you, maybe get with someone else at your dads party just to piss her off :P

[beth]

she probably gets an ego boost from the fact you're still on her, so i'd leave it.
she's a playaaa bruv.

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

Thanks everyone

I'll take your advice and stop talking to her :D

[dirrty]

well u did reject her for ur dog...

[Andys]

your not by any chance from the north east area are you?
coz we say meet :P

but yh, just take a hint i suppose haha. or if she's gunna mess you about, just mess her back ;)

[e5]

its slightly but i can see where your coming from.
tbh if shes being like this then shes not worth it.
find someone else who is really interested in you and will wait for her tea and tell her mum to shut up and ill get tea in a minute and give you a reply lol x.
hope this helps

You cant really say that? She's just going for her tea? You can't just jump in and be all like that.

Keep talking to her as you do, and if she says brb tea and doesn't return, just go off yourself, which she might notice and come on later and see if she's on and talk normally etccc

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

I'll see what happens at my dads party. If she ignores me then thats that

[Shrlurp]

Like people have said shes messing with you, if she talks to you don't be fooled, just act as a friend not so much a relationship.

[MrGazet]

maybe the reason she says brb all the time is cause she doesnt know wot to talk
and feels awkward
i does dat all the time tbh so that i wont feel awkward
well if she does ignore u at ur dads party
then its over man.

[leah]

did you see her at the party?

[StripedTiger]

snog her at the party
and see what happens after that
maybe shes one of them that go for her tea, and doesnt say shes back lol i used to do that XD

[leah]

snog her at the party
and see what happens after that
maybe shes one of them that go for her tea, and doesnt say shes back lol i used to do that XD
yeh same
she might close the convo and forget who she was talking to before

[cocaine]

On news years eve (not the one just gone, one before that) she wanted to meet me (when i say meet I mean snog lol) and I couldnt as I had to walk the dog.

yeah.. thats what went wrong :P