Feel awkward

[Andys]

yeah i feel pretty awkward when im around someone i really like tbh.
and i just got with some girl and i was in town with her yesterday and i feel reallly awkward around her and she even noticed it herself. and i'm really unconfident

is there anyway to build up my confidence or make it less awkward? :/

[Nxrissa]

i dont no but might make it worse.
if you really love her try amking a move
or you could always be quite friendly and talk about stuff you would talk about when you were friends but take her hand as your talking.

[dirrty]

when your around her, treat her as if she were ur best mate. in a sense how with ur best friends, ppl r more confident n can easily say/do what u want compared to with new peope. if u get that into ur mindset, then u'll generally feel more comfortable around her. if u get wot i mean :S

[Andys]

thanks guys, and i suppose i'm only awkward around her coz i don't know what to say tbh :/

[e5]

have more self confidence is all I can say

[Andys]

have more self confidence is all I can say
thanks for that einstein.

[kk.]

lol @ above
get drunk, always works

Wait, that sounds wrong now ive posted it. What i mean is, youll ahve more self confidence with a bit of alcohol in you. If nto then just treat her how you would your mates as said, but obviously not your mates which are lads lol

[le harry]

Be yourself, just consider her as a really good friend and all that jazz.

[efq]

If you have nothing to talk about, ask her how her days was, whats she been up to, wonder around etc... I was in town with my girlfriend today and she chatters alot so I have no trouble :P and we just went wondering around the Grand Arcade and we ended up with some hot choc chip cookies as usual haha. But anyway I find it easier to be alone with her than be with your friends aswell... Odd, people are different I guess!

[Richie]

lol @ above
get drunk, always works

Wait, that sounds wrong now ive posted it. What i mean is, youll ahve more self confidence with a bit of alcohol in you. If nto then just treat her how you would your mates as said, but obviously not your mates which are lads lol


yeah so true if you wana be confident become an alcoholic haha im only joking and mate your not the only one who acts like this trust me i know this wont help but yeah lol

[Andys]

well i mean when i see her around school and stuff too.
not gunna be drinking in school am i :P

[efq]

Hug/kiss or both her every so often you meet ;) Just talk about anything, even if it is about the school lessons or so on.

[Andys]

shes not even in my classes though, or my year :P
but yeah i do hug her when i see her.

[Imnotpure]

dont think of her as the person youre with so much.

[Calon]

lol @ above
get drunk, always works

Wait, that sounds wrong now ive posted it. What i mean is, youll ahve more self confidence with a bit of alcohol in you. If nto then just treat her how you would your mates as said, but obviously not your mates which are lads lol

I actually agree with that, things with my first gf used to be really awkward, when we'd go out, we went to a pissup later that night and she put her hands down my boxers :rolleyes:.

(Some people actually do get drunk/high in school, well in my area, it's rumoured that at a local school "hillcrest", people take cocain in the toilets and I've even seen people drinking, my best friends etc.. yet the teachers don't do crap, but that's not the point, arrange to meet up with her out of school time.)

[leah]

get talking about something you're into, when you do you seem to give off a confident vibe because you know what you're talking about :)