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blanky12!
11-01-2009, 10:54 PM
So, shes pretty good look, tho, she sleeps around.
She asked me the other night, then the day after she asked me, we went on a date in a nice resturant in my town, it was good, I was very nurvious.
right so, as I said, she sleeps around quite a bit, but she'd never cheat (I've known her for a very long time) and she randomly pop'd the question.
I feel some times, awkward, but it'll get better I hope.
What to do?
edit: shes a very nice girl and everything, I've told my mate from work that I don't know what to do. :(
Immenseman
11-01-2009, 10:57 PM
just go for it, have fun and enjoy yourself.
buttons
11-01-2009, 10:58 PM
'pop'd the question'
you're not getting married lol
anyway if she doesn't cheat you got nout to worry about other than aids or sumfin but wear condoms kk
blanky12!
11-01-2009, 11:03 PM
I don't know what she likes, cus she said, we will do anyhting, i'm not easy
Ramones
11-01-2009, 11:21 PM
i'm struggling to understand what the hell you're talking about, could you let us know what you actually want advice on?
Should you go out with a **** that wont cheat on you? No, she's a **** of course she'll cheat on you
What should you do with your girlfriend who sleeps around? Sleep with her (protected) and then get rid.
Don't give her the opportunity to cause you obvious heart ache
UncleBuddy
12-01-2009, 12:14 AM
My mom says I'm too young to date. What a drag.
Cyndia
12-01-2009, 06:31 AM
Well.. If she sleeps around you definitely have to be careful and use protection if you guys end up fooling around or sleep with each other. If you're sure she won't cheat on you, then that's a good thing.. As nervous as you are, if you actually like her, then you should give her a shot. If the whole idea of her sleeping around disgusts your or turns you off of her (which is what I'm assuming your main problem is?), then I don't know how you'd make it manage.. Or unless your main problem is that you're nervous since you're inexperienced compared to her.. If thats the problem, just try to relax. I'm sure you'll gain experience with her if you decide to give her a chance lol. And the awkwardness will fade with time as you get to know her more.. And if you're not sure what she wants, I would suggest just asking her! Its amazing how silly boys are sometimes.. you can always just ask a girl if you're not sure about something and she'll nearly always tell you (unless its a stupid question haha) :P But yeah.. I'm not really sure what you're asking either. I'd say just go with your gut on whether you want to give her a chance or not, and don't turn away just because you're afraid (or you'll never get anywhere in life). You should give her a shot in that case. If, however, you don't want to because you don't like her or are disgusted by her sleeping around, then thats a different story and by all means turn her down.
blanky12!
13-01-2009, 08:40 PM
well, tomorrow she wants me to have sex with her.. i consulted some of my "girl" mates.... they have told me just be cool, dont worry about it.
Calon
13-01-2009, 08:49 PM
well, tomorrow she wants me to have sex with her.. i consulted some of my "girl" mates.... they have told me just be cool, dont worry about it.
It's only sex, it's not like you're permanently devoting yourself to her forever, due to my previous relationships I'd rather not have sex again until I know I have the right person.
If this girl is the right person for you, then just don't worry.. It'll be fine.
MrGazet
14-01-2009, 12:34 PM
well, tomorrow she wants me to have sex with her.. i consulted some of my "girl" mates.... they have told me just be cool, dont worry about it.
yer dont worry much about it
just stay cool and go for itv
BlueEyedSarah
14-01-2009, 04:18 PM
Only do it when you feel ready and if you do it then make sure you are protected since she sleeps around you don't know what she might have.
blanky12!
15-01-2009, 07:57 AM
last night was amazing, we didn't sleep together, but we was in the same bed watching movies, we was huging, sleeping together (we fell asleep) I already knew the mother as I worked with her. So nothign bad there! hoping to go around on friday too!
MrGazet
15-01-2009, 08:24 AM
last night was amazing, we didn't sleep together, but we was in the same bed watching movies, we was huging, sleeping together (we fell asleep) I already knew the mother as I worked with her. So nothign bad there! hoping to go around on friday too!
dats gd then ;)
good luck with it xD
blanky12!
15-01-2009, 08:26 AM
it's good, she had a good evening with me aparently, really happy :)
blanky12!
16-01-2009, 08:22 AM
well, tonigths my big night again, see what happens... "have fun and be cool" thats whats gonna be tonight :D
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