Relationship Help

[LuckyPopcorn]

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

What really she shocked me she said "Omg, that'd be so boring"

So I was pretty upset as I was called "Boring" practically from my own girlfriend


Anyone give an any advice?

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[Middlesbrough]

You should do her up the wall.

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[FlyingJesus]

It's true up the wall is a good way to do it

[MrGazet]

o yeah up the wall baby!
hm..perhaps u shud ask urself if shes relli into this relationship?looks like shes not.
or better figure out her interests.ask her mates her likes and work out from there

good luck m8

[beth]

from behind :)

[le harry]

ask her what she would like to do lol

[Bevvie]

ask her what she would like to do lol
Yeah what he said.
And is she taking the relationship serious? Mhmm mostly partners would want to spend time together.

I think you should talk to her and maybe do something fun or whatever she wants.

[Melsia]

ask her what she would like to do lol
^^^ I agree with that =]

Also if it's upset you that she said that would me boring, you should explain that to her. She probably didn't think it would upset you.

[leah]

I don't see why she'd say no to spending time with you :S
but what harry said is good, ask her what she wants to do.

[Casual]

she sounds like she isn't bothered and would rather spend time with her mates instead of her boyfriend :l waste of space imo!

[Kevin]

Ask her what she would like to do with you, you might just be in luck :)

Some of your interest's might not be hers but hey they say opposites do attract, try to come to a medium

[Neil]

If she doesn't wanna do the stuff you enjoy then what's the point? xD It's obviously not going to work in the long run if you don't like the same things, find someone that has similar interests, things will be alot easier then.

[GoldSolid]

Dunno perhaps she's more like active and wants to do more exciting things, but tbh, with my ex GFs I never got bored of just lying in bed and cuddling and watching movies and.. the rest but still.. yeh just bang her up the wall