Internet 'love'

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was having look through old relationship threads and found bout 3 (AMUZING) threads on internet love.

so, who belives in it?!

i don't. not love. sure you can get to know someone over the internet and get to know the real them but it's not love lol not when you've experienced it in real life, some of you are deluded xx i don't see nothing wrong with flirting :rolleyes:

thought it'd be interesting to see what the people that tell others (on here) that they like each other say

[Minstrels]

lol internet love.

[Excellent2]

was having look through old relationship threads and found bout 3 (AMUZING) threads on internet love.

so, who belives in it?!

i don't. not love. sure you can get to know someone over the internet and get to know the real them but it's not love lol not when you've experienced it in real life, some of you are deluded xx i don't see nothing wrong with flirting :rolleyes:

thought it'd be interesting to see what the people that tell others (on here) that they like each other sayI agree with you babe. You can't love somebody over a forum or a game. You can like them or even 'fancy' them but it's just a fling at the end of the day.

[Kardan]

No, you can't be in love with someone over the internet.

[camera]

i dont believe in it but i think it does exist. but theyd prolly meet up after so yeh.
+ fancy/liking is more likely.

[buttons]

WHT guys don't say that all the e-lovers will be afraid to admit it!!
i agree zah it's k to be attracted to someone but love. lol.

[Immenseman]

certainly not "love" no

[Excellent2]

WHT guys don't say that all the e-lovers will be afraid to admit it!!
i agree zah it's k to be attracted to someone but love. lol.Yeah you!!

[Stefy]

I, STEPHEN AM IN LOVE WITH JENNIFER GORDON

[brandon]

WHAT IS LOVE I OFTEN FIND MYSELF ASKING THIS QUESTION I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO TELL YOU FOR I HAVE NOT LOVED

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I, STEPHEN AM IN LOVE WITH JENNIFER GORDON
WHAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOUR LAST NAME WAIT YEAS I DO IT'S MC SOMETHING PROBABLY MCDONALDS WHO CARES WE ARE IN LOVE
what no i have no idea where that came from.

[x!candi!x]

You can't love somebody over a forum or a game. You can like them or even 'fancy' them but it's just a fling at the end of the day.


Definatly :P

[Stefy]

WHAT I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOUR LAST NAME WAIT YEAS I DO IT'S MC SOMETHING PROBABLY MCDONALDS WHO CARES WE ARE IN LOVE
what no i have no idea where that came from.

oh god jen, take me to ur bed!!!11111

[Excellent2]

Definatly :PLove you (l)

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oh god jen, take me to ur bed!!!11111
lodge bed or..
no guys i'm serious :'(

[Immenseman]

urgh teens ;l

[Excellent2]

lodge bed or..
no guys i'm serious :'(No, mode.

[luce]

love no fancy yes :D

[Stefy]

lodge bed or..
no guys i'm serious :'(

so am i

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SHUT UP I WANT SERIOUS ANSWERS OR I WILL E-DIVORCE U ALL

[Excellent2]

SHUT UP I WANT SERIOUS ANSWERS OR I WILL E-DIVORCE U ALLImpossible.

[Meanies]

lollll i cud say smin but then id be banned agen naughty.

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IVE SEEN IN PAPERS AND READ UP LOTS OF ARTICLES ON INTERNET LOVE. SO THERE IS SUCH THING, BUT I DONT BELIEVE IN IT COZ IDK HOW THEY DO IT. BUT USING LOGIC, I THINK going on cam and talking on the phone makes it possible for "love" coz its the closest they can get to each other before meeting up. in most cases, they did meet up. if not, how the heck do they end up married :rolleyes:

[Meanies]

IVE SEEN IN PAPERS AND READ UP LOTS OF ARTICLES ON INTERNET LOVE. SO THERE IS SUCH THING, BUT I DONT BELIEVE IN IT COZ IDK HOW THEY DO IT. BUT USING LOGIC, I THINK going on cam and talking on the phone makes it possible for "love" coz its the closest they can get to each other before meeting up. in most cases, they did meet up. if not, how the heck do they end up married :rolleyes:
videocall marriage duh

[Melsia]

if not, how the heck do they end up married :rolleyes:
Habbo churches =P

[StripedTiger]

i think its... "limited" tbh. I'm not sure if i think its possible. I mean, most people meet up irl so..

[Lee.Norman]

Im gonna disagree with you all... and may end up looking stupid for it.

I do believe in it. Love is a feeling and not physical. So why does there need to be a physical meeting involved for it to occur?

Of course it takes time, as it would in real life. Yes it would help to meet in real life, but seeing someone in the flesh shouldn't change the way you feel. It might make things easier, but love is never easy anyway.

The question to ask isnt whether you believe in it, but whether you've experienced it.

Have you ever got close to someone online, I mean really close. And then they've got with someone in real life. Would you feel hurt and betrayed?
Could you possibly get so close to someone, that you can't stop thinking about them?

If you answer yes to either of those questions, you've got your answer.

[x!candi!x]

:8
Love you (l)

I LOVE YOU TOOO!! LETS HAVE BABIES!.

:D

[J0SH]

Jen, I love you. My life was in bits when my pet rock died but then you came along, it was great, you are amazing. xx

[--ss--]

Honestly I find it sad and pointless, sure you can have internet friends but internet boyfriends/girlfriends don't work out and are a bit sad. Ofcourse if you know the person in real life then it's a different thing but havign a relationship solely based on the net is bound to fail.


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I LOVE YOU TOOO!! LETS HAVE BABIES!.

:D
oi he's mine, back off or there's going to be a problem.

oh wow that just contridicts everything I said

[Xarea]

Internet love is possible - happens alot these days. I've experienced it myself.

It's very easy to "knock-it-until-you've-tried-it" - I know alot of people who used to dislike the idea of "edating" or stuff like that, but when it's actually happened to them, they've liked it.

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Internet love is possible - happens alot these days. I've experienced it myself.

It's very easy to "knock-it-until-you've-tried-it" - I know alot of people who used to dislike the idea of "edating" or stuff like that, but when it's actually happened to them, they've liked it.
my friend did it when we were like 14 lol
met up with some guy from habbo + i went with her so technically i did meet up with someone off the net and i ended up getting with him :8 only for a month or so but he lived 30 mins away so i fort what the hell

JOSH I LUV U 2. its ppl like adele, u crnt help but fall in luv wid dem.

[Lee.Norman]

Exactly.

Everyone is saying they dont believe in it, because if they said they do, they're worried they would be called sad.

I have experienced it, and it is real. The downside is that when it ends, the pain is just as real.

[J0SH]

True, also Tina with the voice of an angel but she isn't as active :(

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so is this thread a joke or wht?

[Xarea]

so is this thread a joke or wht?

no, it's not in spam.

[Meanies]

no, it's not in spam.
doesnt mean it cant be spam tbh

[Callum.]

no, not fully over the internet. i don't mind people adding me, find out they're quite nice and they live close and meet up a week later. but all internet is silllly. or "we talked on msn for months and then met up" is silly

[leah]

urgh teens ;l
LOL

I agree with Lee.Norman

whattup ma peepz

[,Lexiilu]

Agreed with Leah and Lee.Norman. You can't control who your heart loves, even if they are over the internet. It is real, so I don't think you should knock it until you try it either ;)

[Axel]

i thought we had something.... DAMN YOU JEN

[Favourtism]

Internet love is possible - happens alot these days. I've experienced it myself.

It's very easy to "knock-it-until-you've-tried-it" - I know alot of people who used to dislike the idea of "edating" or stuff like that, but when it's actually happened to them, they've liked it.
I agree :O!


True, also Tina with the voice of an angel but she isn't as active :(
If your on about tina from Bb then wow. The voice of a troll, face of shrek :p


Agreed with Leah and Lee.Norman. You can't control who your heart loves, even if they are over the internet. It is real, so I don't think you should knock it until you try it either ;)
Yeah, you find everyone against it hasnt got close to people like it or is just afraid of being called sad and stuff.

[Middlesbrough]

Agreed with Leah and Lee.Norman. You can't control who your heart loves, even if they are over the internet. It is real, so I don't think you should knock it until you try it either ;)

how can pixel love be real?
Its like saying 'Yeah i have a dog on the internet and its real!'

[,Lexiilu]

Um, it's not pixel love. What if you actually IM the person, voice chat with them, call them, text them, cam them, etc? Seriously, "pixel love" isn't just about saying "Oh yeah I like you" it's something that your heart can truly feel. The pain is really hard on you too because IT'S NOT A FAKE PERSON in 99% of the cases, it's someone you've gotten to know really well over time and that your heart has grown to love. You may not see it but I do. End of.

[Favourtism]

how can pixel love be real?
Its like saying 'Yeah i have a dog on the internet and its real!'
Love isnt an object is it....

You could say you cant have e-freinds but if you get close to someone, you relise you can.

[,Lexiilu]

Exactly Tom. Relationships aren't an "it", they're an element of life.

[Middlesbrough]

Um, it's not pixel love. What if you actually IM the person, voice chat with them, call them, text them, cam them, etc? Seriously, "pixel love" isn't just about saying "Oh yeah I like you" it's something that your heart can truly feel. The pain is really hard on you too because IT'S NOT A FAKE PERSON in 99% of the cases, it's someone you've gotten to know really well over time and that your heart has grown to love. You may not see it but I do. End of.
Not end of, even if you do cam with them, its still all pixels? They don't work out in the end and they're a waste of effort, where's the love when you can't meet them, hug them, feel them there with you, there is none,


Love isnt an object is it....

You could say you cant have e-freinds but if you get close to someone, you relise you can.
You can have e-friends, they're just not real friends, where are e-friends when your at school, feeling down, needing some comfort and knowing someone is there for you?

[,Lexiilu]

You don't need a body to fill the space. A voice, a "video" is just as comforting. You know they're there for you. And besides, my friends can't come over every single time I'm feeling down. Internet friends can be there because they're online often >.< So technically my e-friends are more there for me than my r.l friends.

[Middlesbrough]

You don't need a body to fill the space. A voice, a "video" is just as comforting. You know they're there for you. And besides, my friends can't come over every single time I'm feeling down. Internet friends can be there because they're online often >.< So technically my e-friends are more there for me than my r.l friends.

So basically, your saying you would prefer e-friends over real friends?
The above is a question as i don't fully understand the post.
But tbh if you had a lad asking you out irl, you liked him but you also like someone online who would you choose Lexi?

[Jord]

I belive in love yes,

Love is to be shared with someone irl not over the internet

for all you know over the internet they could be a 70 year olds peado saying there 20 and in love with you

e-Friends are one thing e-Lovers are another.

[Favourtism]

Not end of, even if you do cam with them, its still all pixels? They don't work out in the end and they're a waste of effort, where's the love when you can't meet them, hug them, feel them there with you, there is none,


You can have e-friends, they're just not real friends, where are e-friends when your at school, feeling down, needing some comfort and knowing someone is there for you?
Relationships arent just physical. Infact, some would call it superficial to only love someone based on looks/'action' etc. You must of seen a picture 'thats just pixels' and thought they were good looking before. If you speak to them and become freinds (comfortable to them, able to talk about stuff, enjoy talking to them etc) developing a bond.

So according to you, the only freinds you can ever have must be at school with you? Because you can talk/rant with 'e-freinds' and develop bonds, just as you would with 'freinds' over the phone etc. Ive got some freinds irl that I practically never see and stuff, but I ring and text them.

[,Lexiilu]

1) I'm not saying I prefer e-friends. I prefer all of my friends equally. I'm saying that my e-friends are always there when my real friends can't be, so I'm not just going to pretend they don't exist.
2) It depends on who cares more, whose more honest, who knows right from wrong better, etc. I might choose my VBF over the r.l guy if I liked him more. It has nothing to do with whether I can actually see/"feel" them or not.

[Favourtism]

I belive in love yes,

Love is to be shared with someone irl not over the internet

for all you know over the internet they could be a 70 year olds peado saying there 20 and in love with you

e-Friends are one thing e-Lovers are another.
Yeah, because there are no picture capturing devices or sound recording devices around perhaps named something like webcams that could determine whether someone is a 'peado' or not.

:rolleyes:

[Jord]

Yeah, because there are no picture capturing devices or sound recording devices around perhaps named something like webcams that could determine whether someone is a 'peado' or not.

:rolleyes:


First off all

Not hard if someone knows someones kid on bebo or something and get there pictures

2# Its not hard to get a voice changer my bro has one on his comp :rolleyes:

[Middlesbrough]

Relationships arent just physical. Infact, some would call it superficial to only love someone based on looks/'action' etc. You must of seen a picture 'thats just pixels' and thought they were good looking before. If you speak to them and become freinds (comfortable to them, able to talk about stuff, enjoy talking to them etc) developing a bond.

So according to you, the only freinds you can ever have must be at school with you? Because you can talk/rant with 'e-freinds' and develop bonds, just as you would with 'freinds' over the phone etc. Ive got some freinds irl that I practically never see and stuff, but I ring and text them.

But tbh it is just pixels, that the simple fact, the other fact is that people judge personality over looks, in real life or not so not many people base love on looks. At the end of the day why would you even want to e-date, is it simply the fact that nobody likes you in real life, cause that's what it looks like from the majority's point of view.


1) I'm not saying I prefer e-friends. I prefer all of my friends equally. I'm saying that my e-friends are always there when my real friends can't be, so I'm not just going to pretend they don't exist.
2) It depends on who cares more, whose more honest, who knows right from wrong better, etc. I might choose my VBF over the r.l guy if I liked him more.

I somehow doubt that you would choose a VBF over a real life one, if you do i don't see you having much of a life (may offend but i'm saying it lightly) Imagine what you would think of yourself for choosing a virtual boyfriend, from habbo or facebook over a boyfriend in real life.

Furthermore, any long range relationship struggles and eventually ends, this is even if you used to know them, at the end of the day you can't trust the person and the person can't trust you.

[FlyingJesus]

I don't see why it wouldn't be entirely possible for one projected persona to develop strong feelings for another projected persona, regardless of embodiment or proximity.

[Favourtism]

First off all

Not hard if someone knows someones kid on bebo or something and get there pictures

2# Its not hard to get a voice changer my bro has one on his comp :rolleyes:
Live Webcam lol? As in moving and stuff... :p

Why does Josh need a voice changer lmao :8

[Jord]

Live Webcam lol? As in moving and stuff... :p

Why does Josh need a voice changer lmao :8


they could say they dont have webcam ;)

and he got one to make his voice deeper like brenfox

[Middlesbrough]

Live Webcam lol? As in moving and stuff... :p

Why does Josh need a voice changer lmao :8

Actually, saying that any video can be transferred to webcam with the right software.


I don't see why it wouldn't be entirely possible for one projected persona to develop strong feelings for another projected persona, regardless of embodiment or proximity.

Agree with him ^

[,Lexiilu]

Look, if you're saying that e-daters don't have lives, you just dissed quite a few people on habbox staff or ex habbox staff. I think it's rude that you're telling people who can't control their feelings that they have no lives. Besides, have you ever fallen in love or liked someone over the internet?

[Jord]

Actually, saying that any video can be transferred to webcam with the right software.



Agree with him ^


That is true theres videos on youtube called like msnpranks or something where they make like sex shows go on webcam and fool people

[Middlesbrough]

Look, if you're saying that e-daters don't have lives, you just dissed quite a few people on habbox staff or ex habbox staff. I think it's rude that you're telling people who can't control their feelings that they have no lives. Besides, have you ever fallen in love or liked someone over the internet?

Well it seems i did just 'Diss' them, if you can't control your feelings then learn to, at the end of the day its the internet, the answer to your question is no.
I would also like to hear your answers to my other statements.

[Favourtism]

But tbh it is just pixels, that the simple fact, the other fact is that people judge personality over looks, in real life or not so not many people base love on looks. At the end of the day why would you even want to e-date, is it simply the fact that nobody likes you in real life, cause that's what it looks like from the majority's point of view.

I somehow doubt that you would choose a VBF over a real life one, if you do i don't see you having much of a life (may offend but i'm saying it lightly) Imagine what you would think of yourself for choosing a virtual boyfriend, from habbo or facebook over a boyfriend in real life.

Furthermore, any long range relationship struggles and eventually ends, this is even if you used to know them, at the end of the day you can't trust the person and the person can't trust you.
Thats quite insulting and wrong. People like me in real life, but why does that mean I cannot have freinds online. Its clear that the majority are against it because;
They will get called names if they do it
They cut themselves off online and do not become freindly with anyway
Associate with people who arent freindly

Its not just going on Habbo like
'HI BABE, LUV U, WANNA GET IN DIS MODE BED!". You understand weeks, months of talking will almost definately turn into freindship if your being yourself.

Long relationships dont struggle if you actually really like the person, speak regularly, aren't sex crazed/addicted, are determined. I know someone who started off by calling someone, via getting number from a freind, and he had only seen a picture of her. They talked and texted for months, then were able to meet up and now they're in late 20's and live together happily and married ;P Obviously, thats not gunna happen to a lot of people but real life relationships have something like a 50% divorce rate now and stuff so...

I think that knowing someone online builds up a freindship etc and makes you know the person more.

/debate ;D (They should set a debate up on this, if there isnt one earlier -pms matt-)

[,Lexiilu]

Then you shouldn't be commenting on something you have no experience with. I on the other hand do have experience, so I've experienced most of what I've said myself, or I know someone who has. Its nearly impossible to completely control emotions, especially love as you don't usually choose who you love, it's been proven so look it up if you don't believe me.

[Middlesbrough]

Then you shouldn't be commenting on something you have no experience with. I on the other hand do have experience, so I've experienced most of what I've said myself, or I know someone who has. Its nearly impossible to completely control emotions, especially love as you don't usually choose who you love, it's been proven so look it up if you don't believe me.

I have a lot of experience dealing with friends who have e-dated, they know it ends eventually, just faster than a normal relationship, very rarely i see an e-relationship last 2 months+, it is actually possible to control emotions, I know this because i do it regularly don't you think I've fallen in love and had to stop myself from doing it? If you ever meet someone you love, you have to keep yourself controlled. Then again Lexi, your thirteen/fourteen,I doubt you know the meaning of love yet.


Thats quite insulting and wrong. People like me in real life, but why does that mean I cannot have freinds online. Its clear that the majority are against it because;
They will get called names if they do it
They cut themselves off online and do not become freindly with anyway
Associate with people who arent freindly

Its not just going on Habbo like
'HI BABE, LUV U, WANNA GET IN DIS MODE BED!". You understand weeks, months of talking will almost definately turn into freindship if your being yourself.

Long relationships dont struggle if you actually really like the person, speak regularly, aren't sex crazed/addicted, are determined. I know someone who started off by calling someone, via getting number from a freind, and he had only seen a picture of her. They talked and texted for months, then were able to meet up and now they're in late 20's and live together happily and married ;P Obviously, thats not gunna happen to a lot of people but real life relationships have something like a 50% divorce rate now and stuff so...

I think that knowing someone online builds up a freindship etc and makes you know the person more.

/debate ;D (They should set a debate up on this, if there isnt one earlier -pms matt-)

Actually if you research what your saying at least 8/10 long range relationships fail, its a known fact they never work simply because of the trust factor. To be completely honest even if you weren't sex-crazed you would still have nobody to physically love, hug and kiss, sex isn't the only factor of a relationship.

[,Lexiilu]

You wouldn't know whether I do or don't tbh unless I told you. And I have. e-Relationships do last, I have a friend whose been dating her boyfriend for over 4 months already and they're quite happy. It's one of my very few r.l friends that actually understands e-dating, but she does and I've watched her and I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with what she's doing or what I'm doing for that matter. You make it sound like it's so easy not to fall in love with someone, when in reality, it isn't. Most people can't let themselves part from the person they love. I was in love with my ex for awhile until I finally got over him and the person I like now is an e-friend. So, it's not that easy.

[Middlesbrough]

You wouldn't know whether I do or don't tbh unless I told you. And I have. e-Relationships do last, I have a friend whose been dating her boyfriend for over 4 months already and they're quite happy. It's one of my very few r.l friends that actually understands e-dating, but she does and I've watched her and I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with what she's doing or what I'm doing for that matter. You make it sound like it's so easy not to fall in love with someone, when in reality, it isn't. Most people can't let themselves part from the person they love. I was in love with my ex for awhile until I finally got over him and the person I like it now an e-friend. So, it's not that easy.

So basically you've just said you dumped your real life boyfriend for an e-bf?
That's just not right tbh and it is quite easy not to fall in love with someone, you can't stop it but you can finish it, I'm sure a thirteen year old doesn't have the slightest clue about love, I'm 16 and I'm still unsure about what love is and who i do love, love is a confusing thing that can't be done over the internet and that really is the end of it.

[Favourtism]

I have a lot of experience dealing with friends who have e-dated, they know it ends eventually, just faster than a normal relationship, very rarely i see an e-relationship last 2 months+, it is actually possible to control emotions, I know this because i do it regularly don't you think I've fallen in love and had to stop myself from doing it? If you ever meet someone you love, you have to keep yourself controlled. Then again Lexi, your thirteen/fourteen,I doubt you know the meaning of love yet.



Actually if you research what your saying at least 8/10 long range relationships fail, its a known fact they never work simply because of the trust factor. To be completely honest even if you weren't sex-crazed you would still have nobody to physically love, hug and kiss, sex isn't the only factor of a relationship.
I dont intend to reseach at 3am hehe. I saw it in an article the other day so yeah.

Yeah but if you really love someone, you could wait until you meetup etc. It would be hard but is doable if you feel that way towards someone.

[,Lexiilu]

So basically you've just said you dumped your real life boyfriend for an e-bf?
That's just not right tbh and it is quite easy not to fall in love with someone, you can't stop it but you can finish it, I'm sure a thirteen year old doesn't have the slightest clue about love, I'm 16 and I'm still unsure about what love is and who i do love, love is a confusing thing that can't be done over the internet and that really is the end of it.

Don't twist my words please. I didn't say that I dumped my r.l bf for an ebf. We broke up awhile ago and it was to completely unrelated issues. And you can't always finish it. Most people can't bring themselves to.

[Middlesbrough]

I dont intend to reseach at 3am hehe. I saw it in an article the other day so yeah.

Yeah but if you really love someone, you could wait until you meetup etc. It would be hard but is doable if you feel that way towards someone.

I was kind of wondering how to reply to this, but I know how ;).
Yeah but if you really love someone it doesn't give them a reason to love you, as I said the trust barrier isn't there, relationships have to be built on trust, no trust = no relationship in all honesty.


Don't twist my words please. I didn't say that I dumped my r.l bf for an ebf. We broke up awhile ago and it was to completely unrelated issues. And you can't always finish it. Most people can't bring themselves to.

I wasn't intending to twist your words, that's what i thought you ment. What do you mean by finish 'it' - once i understand ill show my views.

[Favourtism]

I was kind of wondering how to reply to this, but I know how ;).
Yeah but if you really love someone it doesn't give them a reason to love you, as I said the trust barrier isn't there, relationships have to be built on trust, no trust = no relationship in all honesty.



I wasn't intending to twist your words, that's what i thought you ment. What do you mean by finish 'it' - once i understand ill show my views.
Youve gotta have trust in any relationship, offline or online? :s

[,Lexiilu]

I mean that it's very very hard for most people to stop loving someone until their heart is 100% ready. And I think that if you've started an e-relationship, quite obviously you know that you can trust the person unless you're a *****. (not you personally, anyone :P)

[Middlesbrough]

Youve gotta have trust in any relationship, offline or online? :s

Thats what i was trying to point out?
Just because you trust a person, they have the chance to do anything they want and you can't supervise them.


I mean that it's very very hard for most people to stop loving someone until their heart is 100% ready. And I think that if you've started an e-relationship, quite obviously you know that you can trust the person unless you're a *****.


Just because you trust a person, they have the chance to do anything they want and you can't supervise them, at the end of the day i don't see why you would want an e-relationship in the majorities opinion its just not right, one of the reasons for this is because just because you put your trust in someone it doesn't mean they can be trusted, long range they can't.

By the way, what im saying isn't ment to offend its just my view.

[Favourtism]

The way I see it, there are liers and cheats everwhere. You either trust someone or you dont. You gamble whether to be lonely or be broken hearted/a great relationship and this applies to irl and e-dating. You say supervise like when someone looks after a child and supervises them?

[Middlesbrough]

The way I see it, there are liers and cheats everwhere. You either trust someone or you dont. You gamble whether to be lonely or be broken hearted/a great relationship and this applies to irl and e-dating. You say supervise like when someone looks after a child and supervises them?

I'm saying supervise more in the way that you don't let them go out and get laid.
I have to agree with you there Tom, but i still don't see the point in e-dating, its not helping you in any way, and in a way its a bit of a confidence dropper.

[Lee.Norman]

In all honesty, you don't choose to fall in love with someone online. It would be much easier in real life, but the heart wants what it wants. If theres a connection, and its too strong to fight, you just go with it.

As for trust... All relationships do need trust. But do you have to meet someone before you can trust them? Of course not. As I said at the start of the thread, love isnt physical, its emotional. So is a physical meeting required?

As for saying they aren't real, and they end faster. I've only ever had one online relationship, and it lasted for 5 months. And after 4 years, we still talk on the phone and online. Even though the relationship is over, I still care about her... And sometimes its horrible as she lives so far away, and I wish I could turn these feelings off. But I cant. And believe me, Ive tried.

So don't say its not real, because once you've experienced it, you know exactly how real it is.

[leah]

I agree with the above. I don't think people chose to fall in love over the internet, it's probably awkward, complicated and painful ... but I guess it's possible.

[buttons]

Agreed with Leah and Lee.Norman. You can't control who your heart loves, even if they are over the internet. It is real, so I don't think you should knock it until you try it either ;)
yeah i've tried. years ago. for like a week. & it felt so silly and stupid i wondered why i did it :S wait till you grow up

i thought we had something.... DAMN YOU JEN
sorry

how can pixel love be real?
Its like saying 'Yeah i have a dog on the internet and its real!'
lmao

You don't need a body to fill the space.
yes, you do. If you've experienced love in real life you'd understand.

I don't see why it wouldn't be entirely possible for one projected persona to develop strong feelings for another projected persona, regardless of embodiment or proximity.
ye, wot he said

Look, if you're saying that e-daters don't have lives, you just dissed quite a few people on habbox staff or ex habbox staff. I think it's rude that you're telling people who can't control their feelings that they have no lives. Besides, have you ever fallen in love or liked someone over the internet?
i think you mean habboxlive staff. I reckon they don't have lives neither, obviously if they look for love on the internet. Okay, so maybe you didn't look for it but the fact you find it on the internet is distrubing enough ^_^ sure, there's never anyone decent irl i know, but how are you gonna live your life if you start it by dating someone on the internet?!?!?!

You wouldn't know whether I do or don't tbh unless I told you. And I have. e-Relationships do last, I have a friend whose been dating her boyfriend for over 4 months already and they're quite happy. It's one of my very few r.l friends that actually understands e-dating, but she does and I've watched her and I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with what she's doing or what I'm doing for that matter. You make it sound like it's so easy not to fall in love with someone, when in reality, it isn't. Most people can't let themselves part from the person they love. I was in love with my ex for awhile until I finally got over him and the person I like now is an e-friend. So, it's not that easy.
e-relationships don't last. I remember having a few and i looked back and was like "oh my god, WHY"

In all honesty, you don't choose to fall in love with someone online. It would be much easier in real life, but the heart wants what it wants. If theres a connection, and its too strong to fight, you just go with it.

As for trust... All relationships do need trust. But do you have to meet someone before you can trust them? Of course not. As I said at the start of the thread, love isnt physical, its emotional. So is a physical meeting required?

As for saying they aren't real, and they end faster. I've only ever had one online relationship, and it lasted for 5 months. And after 4 years, we still talk on the phone and online. Even though the relationship is over, I still care about her... And sometimes its horrible as she lives so far away, and I wish I could turn these feelings off. But I cant. And believe me, Ive tried.

So don't say its not real, because once you've experienced it, you know exactly how real it is.
you need affection & care for love. How are you gonna get that online? nah i don't think edaters need to meet up, it wouldn't be worth it, you aint gonna stay together no matter what you think and it's a waste of time. it's not real, i've thought i liked people but god i was wrong

[leah]

Jen remember when you liked harry?

[buttons]

Jen remember when you liked harry?
i also think i like people, neva eva do! :D
anyway, i know why these guys are getting defensive, they are the edaters.. I thought e-dating itself was bad, but when i find out the ages of them..:rolleyes: you can't say you're not desperate if you're a 16 year old guy edating a .. 13? year old girl

[camera]

detective jen on a case again. im impressed!

[leah]

loool zah

[buttons]

well say tis kinda obvious who it is but i gt someone to confirm it so hahaahah.

[leah]

MC lars - internet relationships

[,Lexiilu]

Song lies. And it's not desparate if they're only 1 year apart from you?

[KKH.]

YES I DO LUV DA INTERNET

Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly, thanks :)!

[Swinkid]

i dont believe in it but i think it does exist. but theyd prolly meet up after so yeh.
+ fancy/liking is more likely.

I agree with this post.

[Bun]

no. you can't trust anyone you meet online and for love you need trust.

[N-Dubz]

you can think you fancy someone over the internet, but when you meet them you find out you think the complete opposite of them aha!

i dont think you can be in "love" with someone over the internet, unless you've met them afterwards and continued to as well, else where is it going? honestly.

[leah]

You can trust people online
I trust loads of online people :S

[buttons]

i thought i trusted people online but i've just realised i can't. shame.

[leah]

i thought i trusted people online but i've just realised i can't. shame.
just? why? whos done what?

[camera]

you CAN trust people online but sometimes theres just one or two out there who wanna mess with you. it sucks really to be backstabbed right after. anyone who uses what the other person tells you in confidence against them and shove it in their face are lower than... well lower than the worst you can imagine.

[buttons]

you CAN trust people online but sometimes theres just one or two out there who wanna mess with you. it sucks really to be backstabbed right after. anyone who uses what the other person tells you in confidence against them and shove it in their face are lower than... well lower than the worst you can imagine.
that's so ironic. it's happening to me now and they think i don't get it:eusa_clap

[leah]

oh I know now :P

[Pyroka]

Me and you Jen, need I say more.

[buttons]

oh, it is love (8)
that's one of the bands you likes song. (can't word that)
how i know that, is true love ryan

[Pyroka]

oh, it is love (8)
that's one of the bands you likes song. (can't word that)
how i know that, is true love ryan

from the first time i pressed my lippps against yooours (8)

hellogoodbye, very nice.

[--ss--]

I thought you all loved me :(

[Immenseman]

in fact it does exist me and shane

[leah]

everyone loves immenseman so it must exist

[Arch]

nahhhhhhhh not on a forum/ game

[Jord]

I thought you all loved me :(


we do! :(

[Rombix]

I can tell you all that i met my current gf over the net on habbo and firts it was a like/fancy relationship then she cmae and met me and we got on like fire! so yeah it can happen :)

trust me :) its been 7months now :) and shes moved in so proves it can happen :)

[Blinger1]

I can tell you all that i met my current gf over the net on habbo and firts it was a like/fancy relationship then she cmae and met me and we got on like fire! so yeah it can happen :)

trust me :) its been 7months now :) and shes moved in so proves it can happen :)

congrats. is she uhh.. hot?

[leah]

thats so cute

[FlyingJesus]

Reminds me of Karl and Gemma

[today]

I can tell you all that i met my current gf over the net on habbo and firts it was a like/fancy relationship then she cmae and met me and we got on like fire! so yeah it can happen :)

trust me :) its been 7months now :) and shes moved in so proves it can happen :)
i lol'd so bad then.

[Rombix]

congrats. is she uhh.. hot?

Yeppo xD


thats so cute

Thankiesss :)


i lol'd so bad then.

Mind Sharing The Joke xD :)

[Middlesbrough]

Yeppo xD



Thankiesss :)



Mind Sharing The Joke xD :)

E-dating is the joke.
Anyway i love Jord so i cant say out :)
My views are summed up in THIS (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=555709&page=7) thread, i now see why Favoroutism is also 'for' e-dating, read my post for more information :).

[Naturlee]

In my opinion, it's just a bit of fun. For two people to get together and form a relationship over the internet is just a bit of fun. If they're happy and enjoying themselves, why not? As long as everyones cool with it that is.

[Rozi]

lol, I think it can be fun to have more than a friend on habbo. But love? No. Personally I would not be able to love someone over the internet because I wouldn't know who they are.

[BlueEyedSarah]

I think people need to meet the person before saying they are 'in love' from the computer.

[Middlesbrough]

Just to make it harder for you to lie -
http://img149.imageshack.us/img149/4839/datswutifortfc9.png


Um, it's not pixel love. What if you actually IM the person, voice chat with them, call them, text them, cam them, etc? Seriously, "pixel love" isn't just about saying "Oh yeah I like you" it's something that your heart can truly feel. The pain is really hard on you too because IT'S NOT A FAKE PERSON in 99% of the cases, it's someone you've gotten to know really well over time and that your heart has grown to love. You may not see it but I do. End of.

I don't give up that easily ;)

[DannyyTBH.]

AHA i lol irl!

[Middlesbrough]

AHA i lol irl!

I told you i never lose ;)

[Favourtism]

if you look around other visitor message I say 'x' etc to loads of people so... :)

On topic, I find it more sad that someone goes around searching visitor messages and stuff than anything else :]

[Middlesbrough]

if you look around other visitor message I say 'x' etc to loads of people so... :)

On topic, I find it more sad that someone goes around searching visitor messages and stuff than anything else :]

Ooft ****** eh, im more intrested in Lexi's messages than yours, im sure if i did go around searching for that i would of had it when we were debating it, i stumbled onto the page

[buttons]

Just to make it harder for you to lie -
http://img149.imageshack.us/img149/4839/datswutifortfc9.png



I don't give up that easily ;)
lmao xx i saw a few "ily" aswell on thr lol

if you look around other visitor message I say 'x' etc to loads of people so... :)

On topic, I find it more sad that someone goes around searching visitor messages and stuff than anything else :]
well if you're going around doing tha tthne maybe you're giving some people the wrong impression and if it is you and you're denying it how do u think she feels

Ooft ****** eh, im more intrested in Lexi's messages than yours, im sure if i did go around searching for that i would of had it when we were debating it, i stumbled onto the page
xoxoxox

[Alix]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix

[Axel]

i thought i trusted people online but i've just realised i can't. shame.

oh jen. :(

[Bun]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix
i never even read that but it looks good so im gonna rep u lol

[leah]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix
I agree. it is possible.

[Blinger1]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix
AUSSIE PRIDE . what a story

[DeejayMachoo$]

I met my girlfriend online and i loved her too pieces before we started going out and meeting irl regually :) and i love her even more now :)

[Sammeth.]

I don't think you can feel true love online. Sure you may feel close to someone, but feeling true pure passion for someone is just impossible, in my opinion. I mean love isn't just about one feeling for someone, its about intimacy and devotion and trust and so many other things. I guess it's different if you do actually see the person in your real life, but I would never be able to e-date and say that I truly loved my e-bf. I prefer the type of partner you can interact with and you know, physically be with as well as emotionally.

[Vodge]

yeh u can and im meetin them soon irl

[e5]

If you've experienced love in real life, you'd probably realise that it's nothing like the same as e-love or e-dating. lol sure you can flirt online, but I don't. I think e-dating is for saddos:D

I think I did it once but I was pretty much taking the piss coz i was bored, i mean it's onlineeeeee fgs LOL

[MrGazet]

can't say really as i've never experienced one but me thinks its possible.
as for e-mates theres a few that i truly care like my rl mates

[Nixt]

Reminds me of Karl and Gemma

Oh how I miss the old days of Habbox! I laughed.

Personally I believe it is a possible to perhaps find a potential partner online, but for the relationship to work and continue it must become an offline thing.

[Richie]

I think you can be in 'love' online but it depends what way like if we are talking about people on habbo who have like e-sex thats not love lool but i do think it is possible too fall in love online as some of my friends have and are with that person they met online in real life now.

[leah]

Oh how I miss the old days of Habbox! I laughed.

Personally I believe it is a possible to perhaps find a potential partner online, but for the relationship to work and continue it must become an offline thing.
Exactlyyyyy.

[Juelz]

i don't see how you can fall in love with someone over a chat room or anything, it's possible, but, it doesn't seem.. right? :L

[Janet Snakehole]

rofl, i dno some people find it on the internet so i guess its possible :S

[anna-jersey]

Its been proven that lots of ppl have met and stayed together after meeting over the net but to say u love someone imo u would have to meet them irl first but the friendship that leads to love obviously starts with the net.

[Jay.]

I have a girlfriend now. Met her on habbo. She moved down here and we got really close. Without that we wouldn't be together. Asking her to move in for Valentines Day!

[Zak]

nooo you can never tell what they are really like until you meet them in person

[lew!]

I think if you completely date over the internet, and your happy with that then that's up to you. However I believe that for a proper relationship you must be able to see them in person and do activities, because the internet is a great way to meet people but seeing them in person is better! :)

[Samantha.]

My friend adds people on like myspace and facebook from our area and then meets up with them if that is classed as internet love but yanoo

But if people online really like each other and talk alot and get along well i don't really see thats so wrong about it really, like if you knew the person really well online sometimes people meet and then the 'activities' and stuff happens, but people who meet online there relationship gets taken steady which is sometimes good! :D

[Jordan:A]

Like habbo ban people for cybering but they encourage it by putting beds in the cat and doing all this valentines stuff

[buttons]

My friend adds people on like myspace and facebook from our area and then meets up with them if that is classed as internet love but yanoo
huh that's not love that's just for people who can't get it in there area, even though i've met up with someone off habbo just coz my friend wanted to meet up with him and ended up gettin with him anyway :8

[Immenseman]

i have met thousands of online people

[leah]

Like habbo ban people for cybering but they encourage it by putting beds in the cat and doing all this valentines stuff
lmao i lol'd

[joshuar]

Someone at college is going out with someone from Australia online, and personally I find it quite sad really as he has never met her and they have been going out for over 8 months.

I could never "e-date" someone cause I like having that person to know in real life, but I may be able to do a distance relationship, an ex. lived about 10 miles away and that was easy (mainly as she went to my school).

Some people can do it, while others find it sad, I think it may be the older you get the sadder you find it.

[O]

what if you met someone on the internet and then met them in real and found out loved them? would that class as internet love?

[leah]

what if you met someone on the internet and then met them in real and found out loved them? would that class as internet love?
not unless you loved them before you met them.

[Immenseman]

what if you met someone on the internet and then met them in real and found out loved them? would that class as internet love?
no lol, you're safe ;)

[.Robman.]

tbh.. i have a girlfriend who i met over the internet..

well, although we are going through a bit of a rough patch..

[Tristan]

was having look through old relationship threads and found bout 3 (AMUZING) threads on internet love.

so, who belives in it?!

i don't. not love. sure you can get to know someone over the internet and get to know the real them but it's not love lol not when you've experienced it in real life, some of you are deluded xx i don't see nothing wrong with flirting :rolleyes:

thought it'd be interesting to see what the people that tell others (on here) that they like each other say

yeah but u love me.

[buttons]

if it makes u feel better sam then yh

[Wizzdom]

i have met thousands of online people

Gee you get around! :eusa_danc

[colourpot]

I dont think it is, it just brings out stupidness in people.
I just prefer to talk to people who are friends and wanna stay as friends.
People just become imature with the whole "Oh i love you" rubbish.

[Immenseman]

Gee you get around! :eusa_danc
i haven't really though, soz :(

[leah]

I elove immenseman tho :S

[Sexy]

well yeah if you've met up with eachother and are really good friends and are beginning to fall in love with eachother then thats fine but i just hate it when attention seekers broadcast it over the entire hotel and like cyber i mean WTH LMAO get out :|

[Swinkid]

well yeah if you've met up with eachother and are really good friends and are beginning to fall in love with eachother then thats fine but i just hate it when attention seekers broadcast it over the entire hotel and like cyber i mean WTH LMAO get out :|

Second that.


I Think its alright, i met my girlfriend online and we met yesterday and had a great time, we still are in a relationship together and we can see eacher more now.

But the one thing i hate, is when people make it immature, say it randomly to random people when you hardly know them.(IE: in BEDS or HOSPITAL rooms.) Before i asked my girlfriend out, we got to know each other more, just as friends and we aventually fell in love.

[Charlie]

I was in a internet relationship and we started to meet up every month. It's over now and now I can see how stupid it really was. I wasted all my time and money on someone I meet over the internet when I could have found someone just as good living in the same town as me but if people want to do then go for it.

[blanky12!]

my friend has an internet girlfriend, she came down to be with him like 3 weeks ago? SHES HORRID, you can never trust anyone over the Internet, the thing is, my friend is nearly 19 and shes only 15.... and they've slept together... yes it's pretty bad..

[Meg.]

You can fancy/really like someone over the internet, heck you can be best friends with someone on the net, but I don't believe you can fall in love.

I believe love needs to have that personal touch to it, you need to hug them and be with them to know love. That's just my opinion though. I have 4 people I met online who I absolutely adore, they are the kindest, funniest and most caring people I know. They're always there to talk to and support me.

[JACKTARD]

you might THINK you do but if you ever experience it in real life, youll realise you were bein stupid lol

[Cysne]

Lust, maybe little teenies wanting to **** like rabbits but relise they would only last for a minute..

Not love.

[scarlet234]

right.
internet love is real
one of my friend has it and its ded cute
he goes on and on about the girl forever and ever! not to me but to his friends and family etc...
he also goes on to me about how beautiful she is!
and how sweet and stuff she is
and hes had butterflies and everything when he sees her so yeah, i think it is real!
:)
in my opinion anywaysx