So I kind of like this guy....

[,Lexiilu]

Okay, well, I like this guy. Like, quite a bit. But the only thing is, everyone seems to think its weird that its over the internet. So what do you guys think: is it weird or is it perfectly fine as long as you know that the person is who they say they are?

PLEASE don't answer being like "OMG YOU'RE SO WEIRD IF YOU E-DATE!"
Nice comments only :)

[Jordy]

This is a bit of paradox really, you want nice comments yet you're asking for our opinions on whether it's weird or not?

Anyway if you could both meet-up then it's just like a long-distance relationship but if there's no hope of you ever meeting much, then there's really no point.

[buttons]

you'll get over it. it's just a boy. if you could meet up, would it really be worth it? imo edating is weird, yeah

[Kevin]

You can never rely on who somone says they are, stick to real life hun

[,Lexiilu]

This is a bit of paradox really, you want nice comments yet you're asking for our opinions on whether it's weird or not?

Anyway if you could both meet-up then it's just like a long-distance relationship but if there's no hope of you ever meeting much, then there's really no point.


Lol, sorry, I just didnt want abusive comments you know? I have a few friends that e-date and I know they might see this and be offended if there's abusive comments. Anyways, e-dating has been like a last resort lately tbh because no guys ever want to date me anyways...So I'm wasting my life being bored all the time with no one to talk to in my down time :( My new hair might help but yeah... :eusa_wall

[FlyingJesus]

Does he like you back? He might be gay or something for all we know lol

[leah]

go for it ;)
its me isnt it :P

[Blinger1]

i think it is really up to you! out of curiosity, what is your name?

[,Lexiilu]

My name's Lexi...And yes, he does like me back LMAO. He was the one who told me he liked me first ;)

[Middlesbrough]

I don't see how someone who e-dates got the HxHD job over me.
But in all seriousness, stuff like this never works out, and I'm personally thinking its over Habbo etc. so I wouldn't go there if I was you.

[PaintYourTarget]

My name's Lexi...And yes, he does like me back LMAO. He was the one who told me he liked me first ;)
Gay in denial?

[Blinger1]

I don't see why you care about an e-job.


I think you shouldn't care what others think anyway

[Favourtism]

Go with your feelings :)

[camera]

Nothing wrong in e-dating. go for it:) just dont put too much hope in it in case u get disappointed.

[leah]

Nothing wrong in e-dating. go for it:) just dont put too much hope in it in case u get disappointed.
EXACTLY

[buttons]

Nothing wrong in e-dating
don't lie

[Lee.Norman]

If you like him, and trust him then go for it. Its not wierd at all.

Its complicated and difficult at times, but so are all relationships.

People say it won't work. But you'll never know unless you give it a chance. Go with your feelings. If you don't, you might end up regretting it.

[leah]

don't lie
didn't you edate skot?

[buttons]

didn't you edate skot?
haha... i hate you :'(. only cause jake forced me coz it'd be a laugh for like one day LOL :(

[leah]

haha... i hate you :'(. only cause jake forced me coz it'd be a laugh for like one day LOL :(
didn't you edate Jake too? :P

[buttons]

once upon a time but i wasn't 13 year old and he wasn't 16 year old and i didn't tell the whole forum (well i didn't use it at the time) or anyone that i had these feelings for him cause i didn't.

[camera]

don't lie
nope soz

didn't you edate skot?
strike 1

haha... i hate you :'(. only cause jake forced me coz it'd be a laugh for like one day LOL :(


didn't you edate Jake too? :P
strike 2

once upon a time but i wasn't 13 year old and he wasn't 16 year old and i didn't tell the whole forum (well i didn't use it at the time) or anyone that i had these feelings for him cause i didn't.
ANYMORE EXCUSES BUBZ

and its teenage love, it ent even gonna last long. and theyre young they can do whatever they like tbh. when things go wrong, theyll learn, and maybe they wont do it again. but then again, who knows itll last yeah?

[leah]

once upon a time but i wasn't 13 year old and he wasn't 16 year old and i didn't tell the whole forum (well i didn't use it at the time) or anyone that i had these feelings for him cause i didn't.
no you were 13 and he was 14 or something lol
this is like Jake and flem all over again
C-R-A-Z-Y

[buttons]

oh exactly i edated a few people and i don't think you know the other so HA! so i know exactly how sad it was & yes i was very sad around that time so i think i can offer ma professional advice wot do u guys have to offer?!??!?!?

[camera]

i ahve edated before and i was 15 then.
it was the only time ive ever edated lmao. it lasted 11 days :D
i wldnt say its luv tho. i thought hes kl so i thought why nt?

[leah]

Ive liked loads of people over the net so THERE.
well like 2 but stillllllllllllllllllllllllllll

[buttons]

i've THOUGHT i've liked a few people but i haven't. fair enough edate but don't tell everyone you have all these feelings for em, if someone on the internet does that to me i'm like "er right..." and back off

[camera]

same leah but for me it wears off after i ended the convo so yeah :D

im wondering if u (lexi) understand wot u said :)
hw old r u (is she)?

[leah]

i've THOUGHT i've liked a few people but i haven't. fair enough edate but don't tell everyone you have all these feelings for em, if someone on the internet does that to me i'm like "er right..." and back off
depends who it was tho

[scott]

same leah but for me it wears off after i ended the convo so yeah :D

im wondering if u (lexi) understand wot u said :)
hw old r u (is she)?
I think she is about 13/14 -shrugs
and yeah a she :)

[leah]

omg yeh I used to like scotty lool
hi scotty xo

[,Lexiilu]

O.o I've kinda liked multiple people -cough cough-
And you're all starting to confuse me -cry-
Lee, I understood what you said, thanks :D And Tom ;) And Zoom :) Thats it thats it thats it the rest of you confuse me >:L except people on the first page and ppl above :D

[Melsia]

I think you should go with what you feel, Lexi, and don't listen to what other people think =]

Ps. Does this mean we're back together?

[--ss--]

Isit Sam? He's actually gay btw.

if its not go for it, aslong as the other person is ok with it.

[scott]

omg yeh I used to like scotty lool
hi scotty xo
used too? :(

[,Lexiilu]

No it's not Sam lmao. It's someone else who -cough- might just be a manager -cough- of multiple areas of Habbox -cough-

[buttons]

Isit Sam? He's actually gay btw.

if its not go for it, aslong as the other person is ok with it.
haahhaahalmao
it's favourtism

No it's not Sam lmao. It's someone else who -cough- might just be a manager -cough- of multiple areas of Habbox -cough-
and ppl say i go for ppl with power pft!!

[Kardan]

No, in my opinion e-dating is as useful as a chocolate teapot.

[Kevin]

No, in my opinion e-dating is as useful as a chocolate teapot.

If you ate it fast enough, it would be quite nice actully? :D

[buttons]

how long have you guys known each other anyway

[,Lexiilu]

About 5 months or so? We first met when I started working here in August and got closer over time...

[leah]

used too? :(
I mean still do
hi sexy x

[scott]

I mean still do
hi sexy x
paha shame the feeling isnt mutual :eusa_ange

i joke hi.

[buttons]

I mean still do
hi sexy x


paha shame the feeling isnt mutual :eusa_ange

i joke hi.
OMG EDATER ALERT

[,Lexiilu]

Buttons there's nothing wrong with edating :P

[scott]

-smax- leah is way too good for me :(

[leah]

-smax- leah is way too good for me :(
BUT I LOVE YOU.

[buttons]

Buttons there's nothing wrong with edating :P
well okay if you say so :D

[leah]

Jen you've edated when you were Lexii's age :P

[scott]

Kk meet me at Habburgers, spoil another date :'(

[buttons]

exactly leah therefore all i'm saying is it's not worth it. i guess it couldn't do any harm, live on other side of world.

[leah]

Kk meet me at Habburgers, spoil another date :'(
LOL you spoiled my date with Jake cos I spoiled urs :P
he took me to his cat walk room
and we went swimming
what a night out LOL

[Excellent2]

If it's over Habbo I do not advise you follow through. I'm in a long distance relationship but I see her every single month so it's not bad. If you both feel you can get the train to meet eachother, go for it :)

[buttons]

If it's over Habbo I do not advise you follow through. I'm in a long distance relationship but I see her every single month so it's not bad. If you both feel you can get the train to meet eachother, go for it :)
yea well one lives in the USA not sure bout the other loolol

[leah]

If they were going to meet they'd need a plane
but they don't want to meet
they're just messing around, don't see the harm in it :)

[Excellent2]

If they were going to meet they'd need a plane
but they don't want to meet
they're just messing around, don't see the harm in it :)I sort of agree but I do think it's a bit pathetic in some respect. There is no harm inbeing friends but girlfriend and boyfriend? Come on.

[buttons]

then what's the difference of being friends & being "boyfriend and girlfriend" only thing it does is make you look sad :S

[brandon]

The person in question is me, hi everyone. I know this will swing your opinion to go for it seeing as it's me.

[buttons]

The person in question is me, hi everyone. I know this will swing your opinion to go for it seeing as it's me.
no1 would date you no matter how far away you are!!!!!!
jokes :( i thinnk its obvious who tis

[scott]

no1 would date you no matter how far away you are!!!!!!
jokes :( i thinnk its obvious who tis
A little bit :rolleyes:

[Excellent2]

then what's the difference of being friends & being "boyfriend and girlfriend" only thing it does is make you look sad :SWith the girlfriend and boyfriend title comes a status, you know what I'm on about ;)

[leah]

I sort of agree but I do think it's a bit pathetic in some respect. There is no harm inbeing friends but girlfriend and boyfriend? Come on.
yeh I agree
I think you can like someone online but id never go out with them if I had no plans to meet them.

[Con]

I have a feeling I know who this is about..

Anyway,
My own opinion is that it shouldn't happen.
Yes, you can grow to like someone, occasionally alot. But you shouldn't 'e-date'. Things will just get even more complicated. And all the 'living far away' complicates things even more.

I agree with some of the 'pathetic' comments, as like..you can't really love someone online? Unless you plan on meeting them in real and actually meet each other and talk. And then you know what each other looks like and is actually like. Remember, online you can fake yourself.
Online, I am a different person to in real life. Online, I'm alot more 'outspoken' and open with things. Whereas in real life, I'm REALLY shy. :rolleyes:
So yeah, you don't know someone properlly, until you meet them.

[scott]

I have a feeling I know who this is about..

Anyway,
My own opinion is that it shouldn't happen.
Yes, you can grow to like someone, occasionally alot. But you shouldn't 'e-date'. Things will just get even more complicated. And all the 'living far away' complicates things even more.

I agree with some of the 'pathetic' comments, as like..you can't really love someone online? Unless you plan on meeting them in real and actually meet each other and talk. And then you know what each other looks like and is actually like. Remember, online you can fake yourself.
Online, I am a different person to in real life. Online, I'm alot more 'outspoken' and open with things. Whereas in real life, I'm REALLY shy. :rolleyes:
So yeah, you don't know someone properlly, until you meet them.
Its cause you want him yourself i bet :(

[RedStratocas]

the question i always ask is would you break it off with him if you found some one else that you liked (and who liked you) in person? if youre committed to the online relationship, then youre going to subconsciously prevent yourself from meeting someone real. you'll give yourself excuses for not pursuing a real relationship, because you have someone online.

a real relationship is nothing like an online relationship. i have a girlfriend that i only see every few weeks (we met and dated in high school for 9 months before i went to college, but now she's still there and im 3 hours away) and i talk to her online and everything but its honestly not the same as being with her.

ive gone years without a girlfriend and had a good time. being single is fun too. you dont NEED a boyfriend. just have fun with friends. im not judging your e-relationship, but you seem to think that its a last resort for something that you dont need anyway.

[,Lexiilu]

I'm not dating anyone online, lol, I was just seeing how people react. And besides, as I've said before, I really like the person. So it's not just a last resort or anything. It's true feelings.

[LouisCollins]

Tbh, My views on internet dating is um, Stupid?, How can you have a relationship with somebody that you have no physical bond with other then seeing him say 3Times every 6Months, It wouldn't work, Yeah the relationship would last, But then you got to remember your MILES apart, So anything could be going on behind your back, Personaly i'd say don't do it but it's up to you completly!

[Middlesbrough]

The content in this thread clearly proves my point in the other thread that there is no such thing as 'e-love'.
Also reading through the threads I see why Tom (Favoroutism) helped you in the debate with e-dating.

[RedStratocas]

I'm not dating anyone online, lol, I was just seeing how people react. And besides, as I've said before, I really like the person. So it's not just a last resort or anything. It's true feelings.

if you just wanted to see how people would react, why would you tell us in the begining "nice comments only"? :S wouldnt mean comments be part of how people react?

[Favourtism]

The content in this thread clearly proves my point in the other thread that there is no such thing as 'e-love'.
Also reading through the threads I see why Tom (Favoroutism) helped you in the debate with e-dating.
Despite that so called hint it actually isnt me lol.... not saying who but you wont guess

[buttons]

Despite that so called hint it actually isnt me lol.... not saying who but you wont guess
well there was clues about people who were managers + it was either you or danny and well .... that's not what other people were sayin but k

[Favourtism]

I know that was said but it isnt so yeah.. :p

[scott]

I could have swore she said your name anyway lol.

[Middlesbrough]

Despite that so called hint it actually isnt me lol.... not saying who but you wont guess

I still have my opinions :)

[leah]

:O:O:O screamz

[kuzkasate]

Depends... where you both live... distance? Try get his MSN and like... just go for it if you feel its needed!

[anna-jersey]

Depends... where you both live... distance? Try get his MSN and like... just go for it if you feel its needed!


Agree :eusa_clap