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Juelz
27-01-2009, 05:32 PM
well heres the story right..
there were stories going around my class that my girlfriend was saying lovey stuff to this other boy in my class.. & we're not exactly friends.
like she been saying in texts to him that she loved him more than me.
& that soon she was gonna dump me for him.
loads of people had been sayin it was true so i decided to believe my girlfriend of course..
but then i saw proof ;/
i blanked her for a little cos i was annoyed & really upset but she never even apologized.. so i had to go up to her today & apologize, she said okay & we hugged & "made up."
but today on msn she keeps ignoring me & saying i lied about it being all sorted out, cos apparently i've been saying to people it isn't. when i thought it was :|
so i dunno what to do, shud i dump her? :( but i really like her it's unbelievable :\

dirrty
27-01-2009, 05:35 PM
dump her if she has been sending texts 2 some1 else

Shann
27-01-2009, 06:07 PM
i think you should dump her because in a way she's playing you around and no-one should be treated like that :)

Browney
27-01-2009, 07:07 PM
why did YOU apologise? :S

luce
27-01-2009, 09:40 PM
Yeah she's playing you about dump her

Lee.Norman
27-01-2009, 10:06 PM
Sounds to me like she just enjoys the attention. She obviously likes being chased, and enjoys watching people beg for her forgiveness. Firstly, you have nothing to apologise for. If you do it now for no reason, you will forver be expected to back down and admit fault, in all arguements.

Also, Can you be sure she isnt saying these things to several other guys, behind you back? Except this time, managing to keep it a secret.

To be honest, your best option is to get rid. You might not want to, but it will benefit you in the long term. If she's acting like this now, she isnt worth the trouble.

Casual
27-01-2009, 10:08 PM
Do it to her just come in with a new girl n kiss her n w.e infront of her and if she comes over be like oh yeah this is my new gf :)

Nicola
27-01-2009, 10:22 PM
I know you really like her but she's clearly messing you around.
You really have nothing to apologise for at all, you're not the one in the wrong, she is.
If you can't trust her and she's doing stuff like that then there's no point in carrying on the relationship :(

Jackk
27-01-2009, 10:30 PM
You say you seen proof, what kind of proof? Did you confront her with the proof instead of just going off in a mood and blanking her when you could be making the situation 10 times worse?

Sounds to meet shes playing you around, she could either being doing all this to try and make you finish her, giving you reasons to finishing her making her look all innocent in the reltionship because you dumped her or she just likes attention of other men.

I wouldnt jump to conclusion and dump her straight away, i think you should sit her down and talk about it. Confront her with the proof you have seen and ask for an explanation, if shes still ignoring you then theres not much you can do but to end the reltionship. But dont do anything untill you have actually spoken to her and heard her side of the story because by the sounds of it you really like her and i doubt you want to loose her over a stupid situation that could easily be sorted by the two of you just talking about it.

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