View Full Version : No confidence :/
Holofoil
01-02-2009, 04:51 PM
I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 months now, and it's going really well, and - sorry to go all mushy but I love her to pieces and she feels the same. The thing is, she's absolutely stunning, and I'm not just saying that, she is, everyone thinks she is, and I love her personality too obviously, but then I'm nowhere near as good looking in comparison, even though she says I am, but obviously she would say that wouldn't she. Anyway even though it's going really well I just keep feeling low because of this and I really don't know when/if I'll come to accept that she just loves me and it won't change... Hm.
If she loves you for who you really are, theres nothing to worrie about, nobody cares if your ugly (witch I'm sure your not "Ugly")
brandon
01-02-2009, 06:20 PM
Just be grateful, seems like you're punching above your weight and got yourself a catch.
cocaine
01-02-2009, 06:25 PM
lmao thats just selfish, how can you be feeling bad about having a girl like her :S
Browney
01-02-2009, 06:48 PM
meh if you can get a 'stunning' girl to go out with you, be confident. i'm sure many people cant.
GoldSolid
01-02-2009, 07:21 PM
You always see fit girls walking down the street with ugly blokes
FlyingJesus
01-02-2009, 07:24 PM
Are you rich
Geraint
01-02-2009, 09:29 PM
Maybe she thinks ur G
No, if she thought that he was me, she'd never have got with him in the first place.
Holofoil
01-02-2009, 09:52 PM
Er.. I'm well off, but not enough to make a difference to how much I can spend on her etc.
Grippz
02-02-2009, 05:45 AM
don't worry about it! - At least u have the guts to tlk to girls.. haha, She loves you! thats all that matters!
too many commas arghhhhhhhhhh
Holofoil
02-02-2009, 10:16 PM
Oh, I, love, using, commas, they're, sexy.
Yoshimitsui
02-02-2009, 10:20 PM
lmao thats just selfish, how can you be feeling bad about having a girl like her :S
No it's not! Many people worry that they will loose their GF/BF as they worry about their looks and think that someone else may come along and they will be finished. Not everybody is confident about their appearance.
It's a natural feeling, not everybody is so confident and forward that they don't care if they get knocked back, however, aslong as things are good between you both and you tell each other how you feel then you have nothing to worry about.
cocaine
02-02-2009, 10:22 PM
No it's not! Many people worry that they will loose their GF/BF as they worry about their looks and think that someone else may come along and they will be finished. Not everybody is confident about their appearance.
if someone wasnt confidence in their appearance then they probably wouldn't have a gf/bf to start with. additionally, if someone who is not confident in their looks gets a gf/bf, they aren't going to be dumped because they suddenly turned ugly overnight.
Sounds good, stop worrying and just accept that she likes you for who you are.
kuzkasate
03-02-2009, 05:58 PM
If she loves you for who you really are, theres nothing to worrie about, nobody cares if your ugly (witch I'm sure your not "Ugly")
Totally agreeded. No one is perfect we all have that little bit of something we would LOVE to change.
Nobody is perfect and if your in a truly dedicated relationship then it doesn't matter. I know it can be an issue about being confident but i think you don't need to worry!
Holofoil
04-02-2009, 07:42 PM
Thanks ppl...
17-jamie-17
06-02-2009, 10:32 PM
You always see fit girls walking down the street with ugly blokes
LOL true true
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