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Devil.Wont.Cry
04-02-2009, 01:28 PM
I went to spain last summer and had kind of a summer romance with this 17 year old scottish girl (im 16).
After a week I had to go and she was staying there for another week.
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
I havent seen her since then but we still talk loads over msn and texting each other.
Only problem is I still cant let her go...
I might arrange a trip up to scottland.
What do you all think?
ToxicPaddy
04-02-2009, 04:40 PM
I went to spain last summer and had kind of a summer romance with this 17 year old scottish girl (im 16).
After a week I had to go and she was staying there for another week.
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
I havent seen her since then but we still talk loads over msn and texting each other.
Only problem is I still cant let her go...
I might arrange a trip up to scottland.
What do you all think?
I think if you still like each other go for it, but if you ever do end up going out, sadly I don't think it would last long because of the distance. Good luck though, I'm sure things will work out :)
dogboy123
04-02-2009, 04:43 PM
I think that if you really like her then you should go for it :)
The distance may be a bit of a problem, but if ur really made for each other. I don't see why it can't work :)
Hope it goes well :)
BlueEyedSarah
04-02-2009, 05:45 PM
I think if you both like each other and you both can handle a long distance relationship then go for it. The good thing is you are both in the same country - it could be worse she could be from the USA or another part of europe and you wouldn't see each other for many months or even years.
kuzkasate
04-02-2009, 07:14 PM
I went to spain last summer and had kind of a summer romance with this 17 year old scottish girl (im 16).
After a week I had to go and she was staying there for another week.
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
I havent seen her since then but we still talk loads over msn and texting each other.
Only problem is I still cant let her go...
I might arrange a trip up to scottland.
What do you all think?
Of course you should! If she is worth it, then go ahead!
anna-jersey
05-02-2009, 09:33 PM
Just go for it
SUMMER LOVIN HAD ME A BLAST
SUMMER LOVIN HAPPENED SO FAST.
had to be done.
Meet up with her :)
SUMMER LOVIN HAD ME A BLAST
SUMMER LOVIN HAPPENED SO FAST.
had to be done.
Meet up with her :)
Noooo Leah.
And yeah i'd go for it blatess!
ReviewDude
08-02-2009, 11:31 PM
I went to spain last summer and had kind of a summer romance with this 17 year old scottish girl (im 16).
After a week I had to go and she was staying there for another week.
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
I havent seen her since then but we still talk loads over msn and texting each other.
Only problem is I still cant let her go...
I might arrange a trip up to scottland.
What do you all think?
Sounds like you've already made up you mind as to what you want to be doing ;) Though, of course, the odds are against you with regards to a long-distance relationship, if you stay in contact, and the trust holds firm, then there's no reason it can't blossom.
Whatever you do, the best of luck :)
Barmi
09-02-2009, 12:31 AM
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
Call me cynical, but can you run that one by me again?
I guess if you see her once you'll know there and then whether it's going to fail in epic proportions. But before you do, spell Scotland correctly as a sign of respect for the good girl.
Noooo Leah.
And yeah i'd go for it blatess!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LUCY ;)
buttons
10-02-2009, 01:02 PM
I went to spain last summer and had kind of a summer romance with this 17 year old scottish girl (im 16).
After a week I had to go and she was staying there for another week.
We was both really gutted and heart broken cause i was going.
I havent seen her since then but we still talk loads over msn and texting each other.
Only problem is I still cant let her go...
I might arrange a trip up to scottland.
What do you all think?
wait whattttttttt? what ever happened to just going on holiday to have fun with loads of people and have no worries, you're not meant to go for a relationship!!! hm anyway have you even told her your plans yet?! think that'd be a good idea :P if she says yes i'd just go and see what happens. I'm not a big fan of long distance relationships but i did once meet someone on holiday who lives bout 3 hours away and we met up twice since and it didn't really work out and i wasn't expecting it to cause it's a while away
But before you do, spell Scotland correctly as a sign of respect for the good girl.
init!!
Charlie
10-02-2009, 01:06 PM
Does she feel the same? Have you told her your plans to go to Scotland and visit her yet? I'd talk to her about it and see what she has to say and if she's all for it then go for it. But long distance relationships are hard, the trips cost money which soon adds up and the fact that you can't be with each other as much as you want is really hard to deal with as well as other things like paranoia and the like.
But other then that, if you really like this girl and the feeling is mutual, go for it!
From personal experience holiday romances dont last.
I met a boy when i was in spain, was out there for 3 weeks and so was he and we were together pretty much 24/7 for those 3 weeks. he lived like an hour and a half away from me back home and drove up to see me quite a bit after but the distance was to much and we both had our own lives so it didnt work out.
wel actually, he was meant to be coming up and his car broke down on the way and he rang me all panicked and i thought he was just making excuses so told him to f off, only his car really had broken down. Woops!
it was fun for the few months it lasted though so i say go for it! but try not to get to attached as the odds are against u, ur young. have fun :)
StripedTiger
10-02-2009, 04:17 PM
Hmmmmmmm
well it could go either way. You end up getting stronger the second time you 2 visit, and you can try some sort of distant relationship? or you'll meet her again, find shes changed quite a bit and might go off her a bit but remain friends. Atleast it will be some sort of closure on it.
Ask her what she thinks of you going to visit her?
Antallica
10-02-2009, 10:07 PM
Go for it mate,
BowTies1
11-02-2009, 08:45 PM
lmao dont go man you went on holiday had a bit of fun with a girl and it should be left there. It WILL NOT WORK OUT get over it as quick as you can mate cause your wasting you time.
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