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Immenseman
04-02-2009, 06:24 PM
Urgh just everything, friends college I just feel like staying in bed all day every day. I have all these depressing thoughts such as "OK I'm at college now, I'll go to Uni, get a degree work for 40 years in a boring job and retire". Urgh, nightmare.

buttons
04-02-2009, 06:35 PM
yeh i'm the same some days i just decide "ok i'm not going to school tomorow" and i won't and it's not doing nothing for me and i'm not even gonna bother going to college at least you've got like a plan anyway, know where you're going etc, got a great group of friends. If i'm lucky i can count my friends on one hand.

Immenseman
04-02-2009, 06:37 PM
i just feel myself detaching from them and i dont really care i still go out with them on fri/sat nights but it's like i go to drink my sorrows!!

Pyroka
04-02-2009, 06:50 PM
Jake I know exactly how you feel, I try my best to detatch from my friends because they just irritate me now. I like to meet new people, and they're always around me so I can't. When you finish Sixth Form, you'll feel so much better. I'm looking forward to finishg, because then I can go and live my own life.

Immenseman
04-02-2009, 06:53 PM
Yeah, I really want to go to University now and then I want to take on the whole world and not be stuck in some office job although I fear that's where people who are very academic end up.

Slowpoke
04-02-2009, 06:56 PM
i just feel myself detaching from them and i dont really care i still go out with them on fri/sat nights but it's like i go to drink my sorrows!!

That's me to a tick. But then you know all about me so I won't bore you. :D Crap though innit Jake!!

Pyroka
04-02-2009, 06:57 PM
Yeah, well most academic people do end up in office jobs but to be honest, there's that many job oppurtunities nowadays, that'd be a very stereotypical thing to say. You just have to look around really. :P

Immenseman
04-02-2009, 06:59 PM
Yeah, which makes me think maybe do a criminology degree and join the police force somewhere in the middle, which isn't an office job but not patrolling the streets. Decent pay and good pension

Pyroka
04-02-2009, 07:01 PM
Jake you're deluded there. The Police Force is an office job, my mums a paedophile officer & my dads been all over the place in the police, and they were all office jobs. The paperwork in the police is unethical.

Go into Gun Design, that way you'll always have a job and you'll get to play with guns! :D

Ramones
04-02-2009, 09:10 PM
You have no reason to be scared of ending up in a boring job, if you get a degree in pretty much anything it opens doors for all kind of careers, i think your problem is that you don't know what you like and want to be doing for the rest of your life. I have that problem too ;)

Immenseman
04-02-2009, 09:31 PM
Just an example Ryan! I'm just so fed up of life, I've been doing the same thing for like 12 years!! Going to school at 9 leaving 3;20

LoveToStack
04-02-2009, 10:16 PM
I feel the exact same, I like that other's feel the same. I wish I could just do something massive, something that would be remembered rather than just fulfill the template of what's expected. :(

Pyroka
04-02-2009, 11:01 PM
You have no reason to be scared of ending up in a boring job, if you get a degree in pretty much anything it opens doors for all kind of careers, i think your problem is that you don't know what you like and want to be doing for the rest of your life. I have that problem too ;)

You're so right on that, +rep. :)


Just an example Ryan! I'm just so fed up of life, I've been doing the same thing for like 12 years!! Going to school at 9 leaving 3;20

I think everyone does after a while... Take a gap year perhaps? Just an idea, if you want to do something amazing before you're stuck behind a desk for the rest of your life. xDDDD


I feel the exact same, I like that other's feel the same. I wish I could just do something massive, something that would be remembered rather than just fulfill the template of what's expected. :(

You shouldn't want to do something massive to make others remember you, just something which makes you feel great is amazing. Voluntary work is a good start to feel like you're making a difference, but if you wanted to make a massive difference, try and go over to Africa, get in touch with the charities (some kids do go over there) and help build shelters. My mate did it and he loved it... went brazil for free, lucky git. Not saying Brazil is Africa btw!!!

Nixt
04-02-2009, 11:33 PM
Life is what you make of it. If you're scared of your life becoming boring and routine, you can make sure it doesn't :).

Bun
05-02-2009, 05:10 PM
i kind of know what you mean, especially in maths... :(. i'm like why am i eevn doing this? i hate it and means nothing to me.

Rozi
05-02-2009, 05:21 PM
I though I was the only person feeling like this at the moment.

icba going into it because I don't want to cry.

I am a crybaby.

Hope your ok Jake :)

Vodge
05-02-2009, 11:42 PM
I think its the time of the year, I keep getting fed up over stupid things that wouldn't normally bother me. Give it a few weeks and you'll feel fine again.

e5
06-02-2009, 09:37 PM
Yeah, which makes me think maybe do a criminology degree and join the police force somewhere in the middle, which isn't an office job but not patrolling the streets. Decent pay and good pension
That's what im planning on doing :P

TotalShambles
06-02-2009, 09:45 PM
Aw jake :( I have not got to that part of life yet. Do what you want! :) x

Describe
06-02-2009, 11:57 PM
Urgh just everything, friends college I just feel like staying in bed all day every day. I have all these depressing thoughts such as "OK I'm at college now, I'll go to Uni, get a degree work for 40 years in a boring job and retire". Urgh, nightmare.

just stay thinking postitive, i'm sure 90% who go through college & university have felt the same at some point in their lifes.

Jord
10-02-2009, 08:41 AM
Its because you dont want to be doing the same thing everyday so you get bored off it like


Wake up
wash
eat
get dressed
go college
come home
shower
dinner
bed


stuff like that 5 days a week would be annoying maybe try change it round abit

Soy
11-02-2009, 08:56 PM
If you aim higher and be more self confident then maybe you wont have to work in an office all of your life, but yes life will always be unsatisfactory i'm afraid :(

Immenseman
11-02-2009, 08:57 PM
i don't think i need any more self-confidence :lol:

Soy
11-02-2009, 09:02 PM
i don't think i need any more self-confidence :lol:

Touché I don't know who I was directing that at but be wise and learn from my mistakes and not your own :$

Wizzdom
11-02-2009, 09:05 PM
Join me Jake! ;)

Immenseman
11-02-2009, 09:06 PM
Touché I don't know who I was directing that at but be wise and learn from my mistakes and not your own :$
ok ty anyway :)

Join me Jake! ;)
i already told you why i wna go uni

kuzkasate
12-02-2009, 09:48 PM
Urgh just everything, friends college I just feel like staying in bed all day every day. I have all these depressing thoughts such as "OK I'm at college now, I'll go to Uni, get a degree work for 40 years in a boring job and retire". Urgh, nightmare.

TBH being alive is like being a slave... you learn learn then work work and die... what a waste.

Fleshy
22-03-2009, 09:38 PM
dont worry jake
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leah
23-03-2009, 10:47 AM
Urgh just everything, friends college I just feel like staying in bed all day every day. I have all these depressing thoughts such as "OK I'm at college now, I'll go to Uni, get a degree work for 40 years in a boring job and retire". Urgh, nightmare.


i just feel myself detaching from them and i dont really care i still go out with them on fri/sat nights but it's like i go to drink my sorrows!!


Yeah, I really want to go to University now and then I want to take on the whole world and not be stuck in some office job although I fear that's where people who are very academic end up.

I feel like that so much, some days I just cba and I had a spell where I kept bunking college, recently ive sort of stopped bunking and going though because I know that if I work hard now in the future I'll get a good job with lots of pay with minimal work, instead of a shelf stacker who puts in loads of work but gets little pay. I can't wait for uni either, although im contemplating taking a year out before uni for a job so I can actually have money for a change. Anyway its just a spell and you'll get over it soon :)

Titch
23-03-2009, 11:52 AM
just keep pushing on, it gets easyer, well thts wt i hope.

luce
23-03-2009, 07:41 PM
*headbuts* All beta

And yeah just keep on going you'll soon get through it and be at Uni!

e5
23-03-2009, 07:44 PM
think bwt kids nd growing up
learning
love
exploring
etc (:

Cysne
23-03-2009, 09:29 PM
I'm hitting B's in all my alevels, I'm even thinking about been a footman in the army to escape a office job, or a marine biologist. :]

Bun
23-03-2009, 11:55 PM
gimme a hug x

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