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Jam
07-02-2009, 12:45 PM
Yeah... Well I like someone and for the first time actually told someone I like them, just a minor problem being that they're going out with my best mate...

Bah.

Nemo
07-02-2009, 12:47 PM
Me thinks you shoulda reconsidered doin that

Devil.Wont.Cry
07-02-2009, 08:23 PM
You probably shouldnt have said you liked them...

Maybe the girl wont tell your mate

But if she does just tell your mate its a wind up

Cwmbran
07-02-2009, 11:24 PM
Yehhhh bad idea.
Try and have a word with this person before they tell your best friend and ask them to keep it quiet?

Jam
07-02-2009, 11:35 PM
Yehhhh bad idea.
Try and have a word with this person before they tell your best friend and ask them to keep it quiet?

I did, but she still did. Luckily he had no problem with it and actually apologised as I admitted I was going to ask her prior to him asking her.

Cwmbran
07-02-2009, 11:37 PM
Ahh well, it's better to have everything out in the open tbh.

Bun
08-02-2009, 12:22 AM
ouchhhh, honesty's the best policy though i suppose.

lew!
08-02-2009, 12:58 AM
This is a hard situation because one rule is never to go out with your best friend's ex! It almost always turns out bad! But love is love..

Jam
08-02-2009, 02:12 AM
This is a hard situation because one rule is never to go out with your best friend's ex! It almost always turns out bad! But love is love..

What about your "Best Friend's er Current?" :P

ReviewDude
08-02-2009, 11:36 PM
What about your "Best Friend's er Current?" :P

To be fair, and honest, it comes down to what means the most to you - a girl you fancy, or your best mate who (presumably) you've known and trusted for years.

Put yourself in his shoes - would he take your girlfriend? If he did, would you still be his mate? Probably not. I hate to sound the pessimist, but there are certain unwritten rules that you just can't break without sacrificing friendships.

Still, if she's, like, incredibly good looking, then it could be worth it :P

Barmi
09-02-2009, 12:28 AM
What about your "Best Friend's er Current?" :P
It depends if you're a caring, sharing sort.

leah
09-02-2009, 11:44 AM
omg lol what did they say?

Casual
10-02-2009, 12:55 PM
bros before ****!!

Charlie
10-02-2009, 01:01 PM
Being honest is the best. And if they broke up, you could always ask your mate what he would think if you decided to ask her out because if he knows you like her and were going to ask her out before he did then he might not mind it. Just don't get with her without asking your mate beforehand because relationships come and go but friends are forever!

Jam
10-02-2009, 06:54 PM
Never Mind, stuff everyone, better way to live IMHO.

anna-jersey
10-02-2009, 07:44 PM
What about your "Best Friend's er Current?" :P

Thats even worse :P

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