Ideas

[Meg.]

Ok, so I want to fix my relationship. I never do anything nice for him like he does for me and I want to.
I've not got a job anymore so I'm low on cash, I need help thinking of something fun, thoughtful and low cost that I can do for him.
Neither of us are into really cheesy romantic stuff either.

Any ideas?

[Nemo]

Cheap Alcohol + Bed = Dere u go

enjoy urself.

[Meg.]

I don't drink and we don't base our relationship around that kinda stuff. Serious answers would be appreciated.

[Nemo]

I don't drink and we don't base our relationship around that kinda stuff. Serious answers would be appreciated.
That was serious, its cheap,fun and thoughtful. Its the ultimate step in your relationship.

[Meg.]

We're not taking that step..

[Ashhizzle]

We're not taking that step..
I see what u mean when u said u dont do anything nice for him...

perhaps he wants it?

[buttons]

:/ sex isn't always the answer!!!!111
ummm get him tickets for something he wants to see in cinema? cause if you don't like slushy stuff no point goin to see a movie you won't both enjoy, or maybe themepark? ummmmmmm football tickets?! ask him if there's anything he wants to go to, instead of doing stuff together.

[blanky12!]

Sex is never the anwser, and stop being so rude to her god sake.

Take him out for a nice meal, cinema or even a nice night in with him :).

[cocaine]

:/ sex isn't always the answer!!!!111



Sex is never the anwser

thats right, sex is never the answer.






















sex is the question, yes is the answer.

[Yoshimitsui]

I see what u mean when u said u dont do anything nice for him...

perhaps he wants it?

That kind of step in a relationship is something that both must feel for each other not one wanting it and getting annoyed with the other because they are not ready. If you are pressuring someone like that then you are not showing much respect for your partner nor are you caring.


However onto answering Meg's question! I don't think you have to do a great deal to show you care and want to to do something for him, so you could maybe just go out for the night like the cinema and a takeaway and you can talk and what not or you can just do something one night meet up or go out for the day. It depends what you like doing and what options you are available to you.

[Meg.]

We don't want sex. It's not a necessary part of a relationship.

I might take him to the cinema and then out for lunch or something this weekend.

Edit: Thanks, I know I don't need to do a great deal but I feel like I've been neglectful and want to show I really do want it to work.

[FlyingJesus]

Sex is never the anwser

Two people are aroused by each other and would like to copulate. Is sex not the answer even then?


We don't want sex. It's not a necessary part of a relationship.

Yes it is in the end but fair enough I get that you don't want to sleep with him.

Maybe just a handjob or something

[Meg.]

I'm not doing anything sexual!!

[FlyingJesus]

Is he ugly then

[Meg.]

No....

[Yoshimitsui]

Tom, now now! You don't know how old she is, she just wants to secure her relationship. I give it to you for wanting to make an effort though, it cannot be said for all girls unfortunately.

[Meg.]

I'm 16, it's not like we haven't done stuff like that together, we just don't believe it's necessary in a relationship. I want to make an effort to go out with him and spend time with him, I've been too neglectful.

[Yoshimitsui]

Well i praise you for being decent and making the effort. Hope it goes well :)

Lag posts merged!

[le harry]

double post -rep

[blanky12!]

Have sex when you both feel right, how long you been with him?

[Meg.]

Coming up for 4 months, we've been friends for around 3 years before actually becoming an item. We've had sex together, been there done that and decided it's not a necessary part of a relationship and we don't want the relationship to become dependent on it, which I've seen happen to friends, etc.

[Blinger1]

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Edited by Yoshimitsui (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not make inappropriate posts.