View Full Version : I have no friends
Holofoil
16-03-2009, 09:10 PM
Suggestions?
Thread closed by iAdam (Forum Moderator); Closed due to bump.
.ZzZzZ
16-03-2009, 09:19 PM
What do you mean you have no friends ? No offence but instead of us all trying to feel sorry for yourself you could always make some friends and mates at your school just go upto to them and say can i be your friend go on you don't need to be shy to be honest you could always make friends online as well you know like sites like...
* MySpace
* Habbox Forum ( :) )
* Habbo
* Runescape
And many many many more! Or you could try to get out of the House more often you may feel that you don't have no friends but you might do anyways i know i feel like this and i know how it feels i find it quite a horrible feeling i hope this helped you ;)
PS: I'm sorry if the first bit of my sentence caused offence or i was being meanful to you but i actually wasn't i was giving you some advice!
;)
flatface
16-03-2009, 09:19 PM
Join a youth group (sports, acting etc) good way to make friends :)
Minstrels
16-03-2009, 09:22 PM
Gym
Sports
Go out
Talk
Shout
Laugh
Not hard really.
buttons
16-03-2009, 09:28 PM
you guys realise he might not have any friends cause he's shy????? therefore doubt a club would help him if he aint gonna interact
don't change yourself, smile so you look approchable and friendly, talk to other people that seem to have no friends, go to gigs of music you enjoy, pubs? :P alcohol will make you more confident, local events, voulenteer (sp) for local things.
if you're not shy just get the hell out there
Throne Sofa
16-03-2009, 10:10 PM
Unlucky.
Edited by lAscend (Forum Manager): Please don't post pointlessly.
Minstrels
16-03-2009, 10:15 PM
Unlucky.
Unlucky that you decided to post useless crap in the thread.
Loser
16-03-2009, 10:16 PM
Make friends with the nerdos first, then ditch them to make real friends.
GoldenMerc
16-03-2009, 11:03 PM
Your a disgrace to Warwickshire.
never the less join social groups irl, try get in the football team ect..
Barmi
16-03-2009, 11:16 PM
What do you mean you have no friends ? No offence but instead of us all trying to feel sorry for yourself you could always make some friends and mates at your school just go upto to them and say can i be your friend go on you don't need to be shy to be honest you could always make friends online as well you know like sites like...
Do you regularly send friend requests in real life? :eusa_thin
[DC]eption
17-03-2009, 12:21 AM
Your a disgrace to Warwickshire.
never the less join social groups irl, try get in the football team ect..
Your a disgrace in general but we wont go on about that.
Anyways... surley you must have one friend or some one you can go out with and meet knew people, try not to be the one in the corner dead quite that wont get you anywere in life!
GoldenMerc
17-03-2009, 12:24 AM
eption;5681343']Your a disgrace in general but we wont go on about that.
Anyways... surley you must have one friend or some one you can go out with and meet knew people, try not to be the one in the corner dead quite that wont get you anywere in life!
Disgrace in general but least i have friends to rely on and keep me in place ;D
[DC]eption
17-03-2009, 12:27 AM
Disgrace in general but least i have friends to rely on and keep me in place ;D
touche lol .
Like join some social groups and play some sports to make some friends. :)
Samishlol
17-03-2009, 07:21 AM
Disgrace in general but least i have friends to rely on and keep me in place ;DWould you give it a bloody rest. His not a disgrace in anyway.
Maybe this boy is just really shy to make friends in real life. Why not try and make friends at school ?
Minstrels
17-03-2009, 07:37 AM
Would you give it a bloody rest. His not a disgrace in anyway.
Maybe this boy is just really shy to make friends in real life. Why not try and make friends at school ?
That's the problem, he can't.
Samishlol
17-03-2009, 09:57 AM
Why can't he? So his had no friends all his life?
le harry
17-03-2009, 10:20 AM
wouldn't surprise me
Samishlol
17-03-2009, 10:24 AM
Don't be horrible harry
FlyingJesus
17-03-2009, 11:21 AM
don't change yourself
talk to other people that seem to have no friends
I disagree with these points. If he has no friends and never has then he clearly needs to change. You can play the "best to be yourself" card but alter yourself to be someone decent and then be THAT self, because one would hope no-one's so useless that the best they can be is someone with no friends. Also if you get in with crowds of other loners you'll be stuck with them, and frankly there's a reason they have no friends either - they're likely boring. In my experience these types are actually quite volatile too, and not good friend material.
alcohol will make you more confident
This is true entirely. Not a healthy suggestion but oh well, being cool > health and it's not that bad anyway
wouldn't surprise me
floods
Join a youth group (sports, acting etc) good way to make friends :)
Thats a really good Idea, I think joining clubs is a great way to meet new people. Surely you sit next to people in school or college, why don't you talk to them?
camera
19-03-2009, 12:04 PM
crash parties.
study groups or something.
joining clubs is another way but its usually nerds/geeks that you find there = lollllll!
its funny if you dont have at least A friend.
surely u shd have at least hi/bye friend?
underscore
19-03-2009, 09:04 PM
Your a disgrace to Warwickshire.
never the less join social groups irl, try get in the football team ect..
So are you with your lack of English skills, no wonder you own a fansite, must of dropped out of school early therefore your English is terrible, for starters you're reffering to him as "you are a disgrace" so it should be "you're a disgrace" not "your", the only time your would be suitable is if you said "that's your disgraceful behaviour torwards Crapwickshire. And it's etc for Et Cetera. After a full stop you must also use a capital letter, so you missed out on the capital N for never. And obviously he must join social groups in real life, where's he gonna join them, on your forum?
Twist
19-03-2009, 09:07 PM
What do you mean you have no friends ? No offence but instead of us all trying to feel sorry for yourself you could always make some friends and mates at your school just go upto to them and say can i be your friend go on you don't need to be shy to be honest you could always make friends online as well you know like sites like...
* MySpace
* Habbox Forum ( :) )
* Habbo
* Runescape
And many many many more! Or you could try to get out of the House more often you may feel that you don't have no friends but you might do anyways i know i feel like this and i know how it feels i find it quite a horrible feeling i hope this helped you ;)
PS: I'm sorry if the first bit of my sentence caused offence or i was being meanful to you but i actually wasn't i was giving you some advice!
;)
Oh my god lol.
Anyway yeah just go out more and stuff. Been covered in most of other posts. Surely you have atleast a couple friends :P.
c[__]
19-03-2009, 09:08 PM
So are you with your lack of English skills, no wonder you own a fansite, must of dropped out of school early therefore your English is terrible, for starters you're reffering to him as "you are a disgrace" so it should be "you're a disgrace" not "your", the only time your would be suitable is if you said "that's your disgraceful behaviour torwards Crapwickshire. And it's etc for Et Cetera. After a full stop you must also use a capital letter, so you missed out on the capital N for never. And obviously he must join social groups in real life, where's he gonna join them, on your forum?
owned!
Twist
19-03-2009, 09:12 PM
Your a disgrace to Warwickshire.
never the less join social groups irl, try get in the football team ect..
So are you with your lack of English skills, no wonder you own a fansite, must of dropped out of school early therefore your English is terrible, for starters you're reffering to him as "you are a disgrace" so it should be "you're a disgrace" not "your", the only time your would be suitable is if you said "that's your disgraceful behaviour torwards Crapwickshire. And it's etc for Et Cetera. After a full stop you must also use a capital letter, so you missed out on the capital N for never. And obviously he must join social groups in real life, where's he gonna join them, on your forum?
Warwickshire mentioned twice, where I live - what an honour :rolleyes:,
I think you've got "Crapwickshire" wrong you ******. Your just trying to pick up on the smallest detail to try and make yourself seem big and clever. Who do you think you are? Albert ******* Einstein?
underscore
19-03-2009, 09:15 PM
Warwickshire mentioned twice, where I live - what an honour :rolleyes:,
I think you've got "Crapwickshire" wrong you ******. Your just trying to pick up on the smallest detail to try and make yourself seem big and clever. Who do you think you are? Albert ******* Einstein?
Hello I'm Francesca Anobile, welcome to Jackass.
c[__]
19-03-2009, 09:16 PM
Warwickshire mentioned twice, where I live - what an honour :rolleyes:,
I think you've got "Crapengland" wrong you ******. Your just trying to pick up on the smallest detail to try and make yourself seem big and clever. Who do you think you are? Albert ******* Einstein?
fixed for you
**** this **** lol bye
Twist
19-03-2009, 09:17 PM
Hello I'm Francesca Anobile, welcome to Jackass.
:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap :eusa_clap:eusa_clap.
Niall!
19-03-2009, 09:24 PM
Oh shut up the lot of you.
BAWWWWWWW HE INSULTED MY TOWN BAWWWWWWWWW
grow up and realise it's only a place in which many people live. Nothing to be proud of.
Also, to the loner, drink smoke and do drugs, not joking, you will become loved.
underscore
19-03-2009, 11:51 PM
Oh shut up the lot of you.
BAWWWWWWW HE INSULTED MY TOWN BAWWWWWWWWW
grow up and realise it's only a place in which many people live. Nothing to be proud of.
Also, to the loner, drink smoke and do drugs, not joking, you will become loved.
I lol'd.
FlyingJesus
20-03-2009, 04:32 AM
So are you with your lack of English skills, no wonder you own a fansite, must of dropped out of school early therefore your English is terrible, for starters you're reffering to him as "you are a disgrace" so it should be "you're a disgrace" not "your", the only time your would be suitable is if you said "that's your disgraceful behaviour torwards Crapwickshire. And it's etc for Et Cetera. After a full stop you must also use a capital letter, so you missed out on the capital N for never. And obviously he must join social groups in real life, where's he gonna join them, on your forum?
Must have <-- "must of" makes no sense.
Referring <-- spelling.
etc. <-- need a period to denote the abbreviation.
et cetera <-- no capitals, it's not a title.
Furthermore <-- shouldn't start a sentence with "and".
Holy hell you just got yourself done over by a guy absolutely off his face. I'm the best mayne, I deed it
GoldenMerc
20-03-2009, 07:43 AM
So are you with your lack of English skills, no wonder you own a fansite, must of dropped out of school early therefore your English is terrible, for starters you're reffering to him as "you are a disgrace" so it should be "you're a disgrace" not "your", the only time your would be suitable is if you said "that's your disgraceful behaviour torwards Crapwickshire. And it's etc for Et Cetera. After a full stop you must also use a capital letter, so you missed out on the capital N for never. And obviously he must join social groups in real life, where's he gonna join them, on your forum?
Suck's to be you, i havnt dropped out of school. Just on the internet i dont act formal like im 30 odd, i act like my age exactly ;)
Just to make you sleep tonight i go to college :)
Warwickshire mentioned twice, where I live - what an honour :rolleyes:,
I think you've got "Crapwickshire" wrong you ******. Your just trying to pick up on the smallest detail to try and make yourself seem big and clever. Who do you think you are? Albert ******* Einstein?
It might be "Crapwickshire" to you because you live in holbrooks or lillington but in Kenilworth its fairly nice.
RedStratocas
20-03-2009, 02:56 PM
*ignores stupid thread argument*
well, im assuming you lack the confidence to approach people. what you could do is try to improve things you dont like about yourself, because that's where lack of confidence comes from. get some new clothes, or work out, or start playing an instrument or anything that other people will see as good traits. but thats just step one. inevitably, you'll have to start conversing with people, and more likely than not you'll have to strike up the conversation yourself. and don't think you'll have to have some grand conversation that lasts for hours worked out; sometimes just side comments or compliments can show that you're open to talking and lets people know you're approachable.
Cysne
20-03-2009, 03:09 PM
Booze solves all, note that guy from big bang thoery. :D
RedStratocas
20-03-2009, 04:51 PM
Booze solves all, note that guy from big bang thoery. :D
lol @ how bad that show is.
Twist
20-03-2009, 05:37 PM
Suck's to be you, i havnt dropped out of school. Just on the internet i dont act formal like im 30 odd, i act like my age exactly ;)
Just to make you sleep tonight i go to college :)
It might be "Crapwickshire" to you because you live in holbrooks or lillington but in Kenilworth its fairly nice.
What? Lol I said it wasn't crap :S. Listen next time.
I live in Kineton - near Banbury.
ecstasy
20-03-2009, 06:02 PM
pay people to be your friend
lissilo
20-03-2009, 06:32 PM
Joining into a Youth Club is a great idea. I had no friends before, it was nasty. But once I joined the Youth Club I've now got load of friends. But I am still shy for some reason.
It's harsh when you haven't got someone by your side I know. But sometimes a good old talk with your mum or dad can help.
Make sure you don't try ignoring people, that will make them think you don't care. Try being more into convo's then thinking about stuff.
Paranoia can be a problem though. But come over your fears and try yourself out. You only have one life as of yet, make the best out of it. Be yourself, and just change the stuff which could be improved.
A good old smile can help now and again. Give people respect they'll give it back. If they don't then that's their problem, get on with yourself.
I do fine well without any. Just critise everyone and everything.
this is very unfortunate for you and i know how you feel.
well, at the start of my school year i was placed into a year half with nobody i knew and it was hell -- because i was always by myself i was targetted by bullies. i did however seek help and now one of the bullies is a really good friend.
what i did was join lots of clubs at school and that really helped because i got to know loads of people. i know joining a club or organisation by yourself is hard and daunting but nothing could be more dauting than having no friends. try it (:
also, if your school/town has a debating society join that because that is a real confidence builder.
hope this helps.
buttons
20-03-2009, 09:08 PM
this is very unfortunate for you and i know how you feel.
well, at the start of my school year i was placed into a year half with nobody i knew and it was hell -- because i was always by myself i was targetted by bullies. i did however seek help and now one of the bullies is a really good friend.
what i did was join lots of clubs at school and that really helped because i got to know loads of people. i know joining a club or organisation by yourself is hard and daunting but nothing could be more dauting than having no friends. try it (:
also, if your school/town has a debating society join that because that is a real confidence builder.
hope this helps.
why would you befriend a bully? i made the mistake in forgiving one of mine because i wanted it to stop and she walked all over me and felt she could get away with being horrible to me :S
Cysne
20-03-2009, 09:18 PM
why would you befriend a bully? i made the mistake in forgiving one of mine because i wanted it to stop and she walked all over me and felt she could get away with being horrible to me :S
Some change, I guess. I know some people that used to hate each other became good friends. It's wierd, I guess befriending the bully sort of gets you out of the way and they can focus there attention on someone else.
Make imaginary ones, they have no choice than to be your friend.
Serious:
Just survive with out any. I did for year 7.
Suggestions?
I used to be the same really, I suggest that you start going out more, to meet new kinds of people. Or just hang out with some of your friends from your school (If you have any).
no waiii
28-03-2009, 08:40 PM
Make friends with the nerdos first, then ditch them to make real friends.
omg lololol
Do you regularly send friend requests in real life? :eusa_thin
omg lolol aswell _Jen has Requeseted friendship do you accept_
I play alot of sport and go to church and they are both great ways to make friends and become part of a comunity :D!
no waiii
28-03-2009, 10:02 PM
omg realy church?
Josh-H
28-03-2009, 10:57 PM
just go upto to them and say can i be your friend
I'm sure everyone will LOVE him for that handy little quote.
Seriously just try saying hello in the corridors and stuff and if you're on your own at school just go over to a group and sit down if there's a spare chair.
SugarPlum.
12-04-2009, 12:13 PM
I only have three friends really,
but i love themmm loads :]
Most people just end up drifting away anyways..
:Technical
12-04-2009, 12:58 PM
Be a friendly face.
On bebo/myspace/facebook add people from your school/college/workplace and just send a comment like "Hey, how are you?". Join a football team or whatever sports interest you? Go to a library club and talk with people there about what books you enjoy?
I'm sure you have Habbo friends - its almost alike.
Edit: I only have one friend and I love her big time. But in my position I don't really get to make friends in "real life". I'm a "pig" or a "screw". I usually say I'm a computer technician but they always find out so its useless.
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