I don't know what to do.

[chantellehugs]

Okay basically, my Best Friend (She's a girl) went out with my Friend (He's a boy) in Year 8. But then they had to end it cause my best friend's mum found out and made her dump him. He got her a £110 ring from H.Samuel, so as you can guess, he's pretty much in love with her. But she gave it him back. My best friend says she intends to go out with him in Year 10 or 11, but I don't think she will. My friend is going to be heartbroken because he's wasted all this time waiting for her and he'd had soo many offers. Like 6 girls all like him at once. I don't know whether I should tell him he's wasting his time or leave it. Because when he finds out, he might realise I knew that my Best Friend never intended to go out with him. Then he'll be angry with me. I'm currently in Year 9 now, so it's getting close and I'm confused! He is a really nice person and doesn't deserve this. Plus, they are two completely different people, they just act the same around each other. My Best Friend makes me and my other friend look stupid infront of him and he is just normal to us infront of her. And they're both too scared to talk to each other...

Another bad thing, people keep saying stuff about me and him liking each other because we always laugh and joke around. This makes my Best Friend all jealous.

Help pls?

[iAdam]

Seems a bit obvious that you should tell him, You seem good enough friends, tell him gently, it's probably the first girl he's felt serious about.

[leah]

Ok

You have no proof that she doesn't like him, surely if shes jealous she must do, why else would someone be jealous? :S! Although she could just like having power over him and might not want this messed with.
Also if you tell him she might say you're only saying it cos you like him and want him which could result in them both falling out with you, maybe ask her if she does like him on msn or something and if she says no send the logs so you can't be accused of lying :P

[Cysne]

Just get on with it, your like what 12? Jesus. I bet the boy has hardly started puberty.

[chantellehugs]

All of us are 14..

[Cysne]

All of us are 14..

No, sorry. Something just doesn't add up, year 8 = 12/13? If your gonna ask for help atleast have a real story. :(




Okay basically, my Best Friend (She's a girl) went out with my Friend (He's a boy) in Year 8

[Minstrels]

Okay basically, my Best Friend (She's a girl) went out with my Friend (He's a boy) in Year 8. But then they had to end it cause my best friend's mum found out and made her dump him. He got her a £110 ring from H.Samuel, so as you can guess, he's pretty much in love with her. But she gave it him back. My best friend says she intends to go out with him in Year 10 or 11, but I don't think she will. My friend is going to be heartbroken because he's wasted all this time waiting for her and he'd had soo many offers. Like 6 girls all like him at once. I don't know whether I should tell him he's wasting his time or leave it. Because when he finds out, he might realise I knew that my Best Friend never intended to go out with him. Then he'll be angry with me. I'm currently in Year 9 now, so it's getting close and I'm confused! He is a really nice person and doesn't deserve this. Plus, they are two completely different people, they just act the same around each other. My Best Friend makes me and my other friend look stupid infront of him and he is just normal to us infront of her. And they're both too scared to talk to each other...

Another bad thing, people keep saying stuff about me and him liking each other because we always laugh and joke around. This makes my Best Friend all jealous.

Help pls?


No, sorry. Something just doesn't add up, year 8 = 12/13? If your gonna ask for help atleast have a real story. :(




Read the whole thing? :rolleyes:

[Cysne]

Read the whole thing? :rolleyes:

Using my brains and reading comprehension ability, that would mean to me that the boy's in year 8 and she's in year 9. But that might just be me. The wording, such as ''Currently in year9 now'' I mean, wut. Doesnt really help. :)

[Minstrels]

Using my brains and reading comprehension ability, that would mean to me that the boy's in year 8 and she's in year 9. But that might just be me. The wording, such as ''Currently in year9 now'' I mean, wut. Doesnt really help. :)
She went out with the boy in year 8...

[Cysne]

She went out with the boy in year 8...

Who's in year 8?
Or
When she was in year 8.

The structure, content and infomation does nothing to clearly distinquish clearly what she means, plus the great blue wall o'text doesn't help much.

[e5]

ask her if she really thinks she will go out with him. y cant they go out? she can jus refuse to dump him if her parents try force her :S i wudnt let my parents get in the way of the person I loved, never. If they said they didn't like her/ to break up id be like er no its my choice lol... :)

and btw
this couple thing

they went out in year 8. finished it coz they were forced. said wud go back out in year 10 and now in year 9 at the moment. time inbetween tht she didnt say kk

[chantellehugs]

No, sorry. Something just doesn't add up, year 8 = 12/13? If your gonna ask for help atleast have a real story. :(





Basically
1) They went out in Year 8, when we were all 12/13.
2) They had to break up in Year 8, when we were all 12/13.
3) Since then (We're all in Year 9 now, 13/14.), she's talks about going out with him, but I don't think she actually will, another reason is because he happens to be white and her parents don't want her going out with someone white.

We are in YEAR 9 NOW, but we were in YEAR 8 THEN (When they went out and broke up).

If you don't understand what I mean, just don't reply. :rolleyes:

[TAYLOOOOR1]

if you let things just drag...it will be a lot more complicated at the end of the tunnel!

just tell him..if your his friend you would..i know its a little mean telling him but he will understand you only want him to know the truth and not devlope any stronger feeligns 4 the girl!

Sooner the better.

-goodluck

Tay ;] x

[SpicyChippy]

Bring him to the side and say look uno what eva the girls name is her mum said she cant go out with u and she really upset to tell u but then say to him sorry i left it so late to tell u we still mates and btw just ignore people saying we love eachother

[leah]

Basically
1) They went out in Year 8, when we were all 12/13.
2) They had to break up in Year 8, when we were all 12/13.
3) Since then (We're all in Year 9 now, 13/14.), she's talks about going out with him, but I don't think she actually will, another reason is because he happens to be white and her parents don't want her going out with someone white.

We are in YEAR 9 NOW, but we were in YEAR 8 THEN (When they went out and broke up).

If you don't understand what I mean, just don't reply. :rolleyes:




her parents are racist? :O

[chantellehugs]

They are against it because if they had a kid, it would be mixed raced, so it would be "confused".
I'm mixed race so I took offence to this. But my friend isn't racist, and she disagrees with her parents.
But then again, they only like African people because they are African, they like people who are Kenyan even more. For the same reason..
=l

[Cysne]

They are against it because if they had a kid, it would be mixed raced, so it would be "confused".
I'm mixed race so I took offence to this. But my friend isn't racist, and she disagrees with her parents.
But then again, they only like African people because they are African, they like people who are Kenyan even more. For the same reason..
=l
I lol'd.

[chantellehugs]

You "lol'd" at racism?

o.o

[Cysne]

You "lol'd" at racism?

o.o
Just the joke of what is her parents.

[Japan]

Just tell him and get it over and done with.
he's gonna be more hurt in the long run if you don't tell him, so its probably best to do it as soon as possible. Yes hes going to be upset and probably a little mad at you, but he will get over it, like everyone else does =)

[buttons]

her parents are racist? :O
lol luv it

Okay basically, my Best Friend (She's a girl) went out with my Friend (He's a boy) in Year 8. But then they had to end it cause my best friend's mum found out and made her dump him. He got her a £110 ring from H.Samuel, so as you can guess, he's pretty much in love with her. But she gave it him back. My best friend says she intends to go out with him in Year 10 or 11, but I don't think she will. My friend is going to be heartbroken because he's wasted all this time waiting for her and he'd had soo many offers. Like 6 girls all like him at once. I don't know whether I should tell him he's wasting his time or leave it. Because when he finds out, he might realise I knew that my Best Friend never intended to go out with him. Then he'll be angry with me. I'm currently in Year 9 now, so it's getting close and I'm confused! He is a really nice person and doesn't deserve this. Plus, they are two completely different people, they just act the same around each other. My Best Friend makes me and my other friend look stupid infront of him and he is just normal to us infront of her. And they're both too scared to talk to each other...

Another bad thing, people keep saying stuff about me and him liking each other because we always laugh and joke around. This makes my Best Friend all jealous.

Help pls?
if they're too scared to talk to each doesn't it suggest they're both nervous around each other, probably because she likes him too. You can't just assume she won't go out with him especially after she's just told you she will. You said "he might realise I knew that my best friend never intended to go out with him," make up your mind, does she or doesn't she? If he's gonna be angry with you then that's a bit selfish, you should really just butt out, if you ask her she'll think you're jealous & if you tell him you could spoil something without knowing any facts. & you've yet again just contradicted yourself, she's all jealous which could be as Leah said 'cause she wants him to pine after her only but she's said she wants to date him later on so I think she likes him.
Maybe she isn't doing anything about it however because you two are acting too friendly towards each other and she doesn't think he likes her, if she's your best friend why haven't you spoke to her about it? It's simple, ask him if he still likes her and if he does tell her he still has feelings for her and she should either do something or stop messing 'bout.
i better have gotten this right =/

[leah]

Her parents have a rubbish view.
How would someone that's half caste be confused?
I doubt someone in year 9 would be looking to settle down and have children anyway. Tell her to do what she likes.

[RockyHorror]

All I will say is, who are you to decided if your bestfriend is going to do. You have no right in discussing the mater with the boy.