Confused :S

[Samishlol]

Hey, as you probably know i'm gay yeah? Well earlier this evening me and my friend was talking and we both think i'm bisexual, not gay. The reason for this is because I really like this girl, shes my ex. If I could i'd probably get back with her.

Does that sound stupid to you?

[Portish]

I don't know how to answer this question. As a straight person I would find it wierd for me to suddenly turn bisexual. If you like her, go for it!

[Samishlol]

Well turning from gay to bisexual wouldn't really make a difference to me.

[buttons]

lol omg, my best friend reckoned he was gay for ages then he said he liked me now he's bisexual..... i don't really think it matters, why do you need to know your sexuality if you change it so much? it's not like if someone asks you have to give a straight out answer because you don't even know yourself. I dunno what i'm tryna say, i don't think it matters atm, if you're having feelings for girls you're probably not *gay* you're just at confused stage.... you don't need to decide on what you are if you don't know

& it's not a choice lol you don't just decide "k i'm gonna be bi it doesn't make a difference" 0.o

[Samishlol]

Thanks Jen :)

Thanks Jose

[Asher]

I don't know... it still seems weird to me.

I used to play the bi card when I was slightly younger. I really can't see how someone can screw a guy and feel exactly the same feelings and emotions when sleeping with a girl.

[Ribbons]

Usually people at a young state are normally confused about their sexuality.
It could just be a fase for now until you grow up or you may just be more conferable with guys than girls.
I don't think you sound stupid.
Maybe shes just the only girl you can be with.
I have a friend is who like that too, he has this huge crush on me but he is gay.
Weird, eh?


Hey, as you probably know i'm gay yeah? Well earlier this evening me and my friend was talking and we both think i'm bisexual, not gay. The reason for this is because I really like this girl, shes my ex. If I could i'd probably get back with her.

Does that sound stupid to you?

[Jssy]

Idk im in the same situation atm. Im bi but ive been having stronger feelings for the same sex as me recently.

[Ali]

It sounds like your friend (and probably yourself too) were convincing you to be bisexual because you like this girl. You don't have to label yourself as bisexual because you like her -- she's your ex and you have a history there, thus why there is most likely some feeling floating around.

It's like the unspoken attraction on Will & Grace, if you watch that :)