embarrasing problem involving the penoire

[drama]

baaasically, last night I went to this party even though I had a fever, and was drinking which probably didn't help the fever...

aaanyway (and this is hard to phrase to avoid it being to explicit), after getting with this girl we went to a room and started doing ****, and I came before I was fully erect.

I know most people will say it's because I was drunk, but it's happened once or twice before when I was sobre, just after last night i got worried.

I know stuff like that can happen to older men who are heavy smokers, and i smoke a fair bit but the fact i'm only 16 is worrying =/



edit: it wasn't that I was premature, it's just I literally coudn't get 'fully there'


any advice?

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[Elw00d]

lol captain come quick

[Elw00d]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4 this vid might help sorry for taking the mic mate but it had to be said


Edited by ,Jess, (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not double post.

[Catchy]

Maybe you just got too excited! Apparently if you ********** really often then you come quicker or something :S I'm not sure, never had this problem before. Maybe go and see a doc?

[drama]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4 this vid might help sorry for taking the mic mate but it had to be said
at the end of the day mate i was the one getting head, lol.

Maybe you just got too excited! Apparently if you ********** really often then you come quicker or something :S I'm not sure, never had this problem before. Maybe go and see a doc?
it wasn't a thing of coming to quickly as we were there for longgg, I came in my own time it's just i wasn't fully erect when I did, lol

[Catchy]

Ohhhh, I see! Sorry I read it wrong haha! Urm I'm not sure I doubt it's nothing to worry about to be honest! Maybe see a doctor just to make sure? But I think you're worrying for nothing it'll be okay:)

[Cryptoo]

Doesn't alcohol increase awareness (or am i wrong?)
perhaps you need to play around before going straight into... the... 'actions'
like, take more time to turn each other on?

[DieselShaq]

Try again and see what happens. Might just be a one-off thing.

[Mint]

Doesn't alcohol increase awareness (or am i wrong?)
perhaps you need to play around before going straight into... the... 'actions'
like, take more time to turn each other on?
Foreplay.

Maybe try to hold the urge in for longer.

[Barkseh]

Yeh foreplay. Alcohol does the opisite for me... I last for ******* ages lol.

[flatface]

Yeh foreplay. Alcohol does the opisite for me... I last for ******* ages lol.

Alcohol does increase sexual activity, it also slows down the body usual functions therefore making you last longer.

If all else suggested in this thread fails, I would go see a doctor.

[Shrlurp]

maybe she didn't turn you on?

[Mrs.McCall]

I think your fever was the issue here. I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure that when you have colds/flu and fever it effects the blood flow.

Erections are all about blood flow.

[Sammeth.]

Don't blame yourself and start blaming the woman, you'll feel much better.

[FlyingJesus]

For those who can't read: he didn't come quick, he just never got fully up.

It's entirely normal as long as it doesn't happen all the time, your illness and alcohol intake won't have helped, both biologically and in that your mind probably wasn't all there which makes a big difference.

[Metric1]

liquor ****. i cant get hard if i'm passing out drunk, but drunk sloppy sex is the best kind. just don't get too drunk next time.

[iAdam]

As FlyingJesus said, it really doesn't mean anything, if it starts happening regular, see a doctor, Smoking affects the valve that basically gives the erection, if this is damaged you won't get fully up.

[luce]

Try again and see what happens. Might just be a one-off thing.


He has already said it's happened before lol