Mann. This is confusing..

[Lindsey]

My Life is like screwed up atm. :S
Bout a week ago i got dumped.
I dumped my other BF because i was getting 'Used'
Now. My Best friend in planning on dumping her bf. and i really like him..
But idk if i should Warn him.. or anything like that...
And i dont think he likes me back in the way i like Him :S
And if he does.. and my friend breaks up with him... idk if i should date him
or stay loyal to my friend... :S

[Absently]

lol.. isn't it abit soon to go out with someone else? and i really wouldn't break up another friendship if i were you. boys are useless, especially if he don't like you back. be single for abit..

[Samishlol]

lol.. isn't it abit soon to go out with someone else? and i really wouldn't break up another friendship if i were you. boys are useless, especially if he don't like you back. be single for abit..I have to agree with this user.

[FlyingJesus]

Bout a week ago i got dumped.
I dumped my other BF because i was getting 'Used'

lmao you had 2 boyfriends and you claimed they were using you?


i dont think he likes me back in the way i like Him :S

There's your answer

[Misawa]

If you were a true friend, you would maintain your loyalty in such a trivial situation.

[leah]

It's not like you love this other guy so don't date him if your friend breaks up with him and definitely don't betray her trust by telling him.

[Nxrissa]

i see how you feel but
you dont really want to lose ur friendship just over a guy
i think its better to stay a fantasy.

[Cyndia]

I agree with what pretty much everyone else has been saying. After all, boys come and go but friends are forever. I definitely wouldn't jeopardize your friendship over some guy (because she will DEFINITELY be mad if you start dating her ex, especially if its so soon after). And also the fact that you're not sure if he likes you makes it even more definite that you shouldn't go after him.

If you still like him in a month or so, maybe then you can try telling your friend that you kinda like him and ask if its alright if you go after him. She'll be more okay with it if you do it like that than if you try to date him right after they break up. Especially if you don't tell her about it before you go after him, and she finds out from someone else.

[Zak]

women can have pretty much anyone :P so ur life int so bad

[Myth]

Well just tell him you like him but you want him and you to stay friends. Because of he was your bestfriend boyfriend.

[DieselShaq]

Let me get this straight:
1. You had two boyfriends, got dumped by one and dumped the other.
2. Your best friend is going to dump her boyfriend.
3. You like him but you're not sure if he likes you back.

And your dilemmas are:
1. Should you tell your best friend's boyfriend that he may be getting dumped?
2. Should you start dating him if he likes you back?

If I have the above correct so far, read on. If not, correct me.

First of all, do not tell your best friend's boyfriend that he may be getting dumped. It would be really awkward if you did but she decides not to. You don't want him to think that you were only telling him that to get them separated so you can date him, because he'll end up hating you, if he really loves your best friend.

Second, yes, go ahead. Tell him that you like him. There's no "loyalty" involved anymore if she dumps him. It would only be disloyal if you told him whilst they were still together. If she dumps him, he's single and available to the general public. You're not in the wrong if she gets mad at you. And if she does, it means that she still likes him and it would be her fault to have dumped him in the first place.

Let me give you an example, because I have a feeling that many people will disagree and flame me (just look at how many people above have said not to date him). Say I'm holding a 100-dollar Canadian (seeing as you're in Canada) bill in front of a crowd, If I accidentally drop the bill and everybody fights for it, I have the right to tell them that the bill is mine and they ought to give it back to me. However, if I throw it into the crowd intentionally, I can't then argue that the bill is mine and certainly not demand whoever grabs it to give it back.

[Lindsey]

Let me get this straight:
1. You had two boyfriends, got dumped by one and dumped the other.
2. Your best friend is going to dump her boyfriend.
3. You like him but you're not sure if he likes you back.

And your dilemmas are:
1. Should you tell your best friend's boyfriend that he may be getting dumped?
2. Should you start dating him if he likes you back?

If I have the above correct so far, read on. If not, correct me.

First of all, do not tell your best friend's boyfriend that he may be getting dumped. It would be really awkward if you did but she decides not to. You don't want him to think that you were only telling him that to get them separated so you can date him, because he'll end up hating you, if he really loves your best friend.

Second, yes, go ahead. Tell him that you like him. There's no "loyalty" involved anymore if she dumps him. It would only be disloyal if you told him whilst they were still together. If she dumps him, he's single and available to the general public. You're not in the wrong if she gets mad at you. And if she does, it means that she still likes him and it would be her fault to have dumped him in the first place.

Let me give you an example, because I have a feeling that many people will disagree and flame me (just look at how many people above have said not to date him). Say I'm holding a 100-dollar Canadian (seeing as you're in Canada) bill in front of a crowd, If I accidentally drop the bill and everybody fights for it, I have the right to tell them that the bill is mine and they ought to give it back to me. However, if I throw it into the crowd intentionally, I can't then argue that the bill is mine and certainly not demand whoever grabs it to give it back.

Ahaaa love the Example :P and thanksss :)

[Niall!]

She's a Maneater, make you work hard
Make you spend hard
Make you want all of her love
She's a maneater
make you buy cars
make you cut cards
make you fall real hard in love
She's a Maneater, make you work hard
Make you spend hard
Make you want all of her love
She's a maneater
make you buy cars
make you cut cards
Wish you never ever met her at all!


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[Middlesbrough]

She's a Maneater, make you work hard
Make you spend hard
Make you want all of her love
She's a maneater
make you buy cars
make you cut cards
make you fall real hard in love
She's a Maneater, make you work hard
Make you spend hard
Make you want all of her love
She's a maneater
make you buy cars
make you cut cards
Wish you never ever met her at all!


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This guy truly is epic.

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