Need some advice

[Samishlol]

Around 2 years ago I liked this guy, and 2 years down the line I think he still likes me.. he flirts with me and stuff. But I have a boyfriend. What do I do?

[Toughened]

I'd say talk to him about it first, clarify whether he does like you or not. If he doesn't then you still have your boyfriend, which, I know seems a little unfair but it's better than leaving him and then the boy doesn't like you and you have nobody.

If you're having feelings for other people maybe you shouldn't be with you boyfriend altogether?

[Samishlol]

I love my boyfriend dearly, but this other guy loves to flirt with me, but he won't tell me the truth if he likes me still.

[culturist]

do you still like this other guy that flirts with you? :P

[Samishlol]

I find him attractive, that's about it.

[jack-bristol]

I find him attractive, that's about it.

Stick with your current BF, you clearly love him more!

[Immenseman]

You always go on about how much you love your boyfriend, I swear you try and cram it in everywhere and anywhere possible. If you love him so much you wouldn't even consider the other guy and you'd tell him that you want nothing more than friendship. If you don't it could hinder your current relationship where you love the guy so so so much.

[Cyndia]

You always go on about how much you love your boyfriend, I swear you try and cram it in everywhere and anywhere possible. If you love him so much you wouldn't even consider the other guy and you'd tell him that you want nothing more than friendship. If you don't it could hinder your current relationship where you love the guy so so so much.


I agree with Jake.. If you love him so much, you really wouldn't consider the other guy. I mean - why would you want to jeopardize your current relationship for someone you only find attractive? There are a million attractive people in the world. If you actually have a relationship with someone who means more to you than just good looks, then don't even humor this other guy. Set him straight and tell him that regardless of whether or not he likes you, he needs to tone down the flirting because you're in a relationship and you love your boyfriend.

However.. Part of me suspects that you may not be happy with your current relationship since you're even considering this other guy. Maybe you should focus on evaluating your current relationship than this other guy..

[Samishlol]

Thank you Cyndia!

I love my current boyfriend alot infact.

[Vause]

You always go on about how much you love your boyfriend, I swear you try and cram it in everywhere and anywhere possible. If you love him so much you wouldn't even consider the other guy and you'd tell him that you want nothing more than friendship. If you don't it could hinder your current relationship where you love the guy so so so much.

I agree with this, Sam I've known you ages (It's Emzy off CHF lol), if you loved your current boyfriend then you wouldn't even think about this other boy.

[Immenseman]

I'm just a genius.

[Vause]

I'm just a genius.


the lurrrrrve doctor

[Samishlol]

Hmm.. I don't have any feelings for this guy at all which is what I was trying to say. I was too tired to use my head so I asked for your advice.

[Immenseman]

if you don't have feelings for him then what's the issue :S lol

[Toughened]

"Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"

Hahaha I found that on a Msn name website thingy.