what to do!?

[Mitch4?]

okay so i havent posted in a while cause for some reason habboxforum never seemed to work anymore but yeah.

I was going out with some guy, for a couple of weeks and whilst i was dating him, my best friend whos also gay met this guy and they were seeing each other and still have been for a few weeks but we've been texting each other. I finished my boyfriend and then i really got close with this guy,
the other week behind my best friends back i slept with him and we've been non stop texting and he always says he's going to break it off with my friend, but he seems to avoid it.
I've never felt this good with a guy before, he's amazing in every way except not single. I have no idea what to do cause it's such a good friend, over possibly the guy ive liked the most ever aghhhh.

and to top it off, im going to a party now and theyre both gonna be there :/!

[dirrty]

well since you've already slept with him, i wouldn't really class your friend as a 'best friend' as once he finds out, he probably won't think the feelings mutual. so depending on his reaction, you may of already lost him as a friend so its just the case of continuing/starting a relationship with his bf/waiting for him to dump your friend or just brush it under the rug. if hes avoiding breaking up with his bf, then maybe hes just pulling you along with no intention of breaking it off.

[Immenseman]

i love your life, lmaooooo. mitch, you know you're best off ditching them both and getting with me. in all seriousness, you shouldn't have gone behind your "best friends" back and done that. clearly now you have and it's too late to say that. what i personally would do now is to get the guy you like to end it with your friend and be with him but keep it on the low down for a few weeks and then explain to your best mate. if he doesn't accept it then tough luck. i always say friends before partners but it's too late for that. good luck anyway babe x hope you get with them BOTH at the party to spicen things up.

[Pyroka]

Mitchypoo, omg long time no speak. I think you should just ditch the bloke tbh, and I'd warn your mate too. If the guy isn't faithful to your best friend, then who says he will be faithful to you? If you told your mate you slept with his bf(?) then your mate would be like *sadface* but it'd be less awkward if you don't go out with the other bloke. He might seem perfect Mitch, but you need to realise that he slept with you and do you think he'd sleep with someone else behind your back!!! They're not all perfect! :(

MEH, anyway its your choice rly, you've got loads of options but all of them will end up with uncomfortable situations between you and your mate. I'd hate to be in your position lol.

[Immenseman]

Mitchypoo, omg long time no speak. I think you should just ditch the bloke tbh, and I'd warn your mate too. If the guy isn't faithful to your best friend, then who says he will be faithful to you? If you told your mate you slept with his bf(?) then your mate would be like *sadface* but it'd be less awkward if you don't go out with the other bloke. He might seem perfect Mitch, but you need to realise that he slept with you and do you think he'd sleep with someone else behind your back!!! They're not all perfect! :(

MEH, anyway its your choice rly, you've got loads of options but all of them will end up with uncomfortable situations between you and your mate. I'd hate to be in your position lol.

talking about positions i'm sure all three of you could fit in somewhere ;)

[Pyroka]

talking about positions i'm sure all three of you could fit in somewhere ;)

I burst out laughing then omg. That is... a genius idea, rofl.

[Mitch4?]

talking about positions i'm sure all three of you could fit in somewhere ;)

ew no thanks, my best friend i got really drunk with in a bathroom about 4 months ago and that was bad enough, :P
Well the party yesterday was epic fail, my best friend ran off down the A road cause My friend abby who knows everything told him that I went after the guy because he also left, so everyone had this big drama. I was just like bare faced lieing to everyone, then i thought you know what i cba with it all id rather have my friend, so then i told him that we had to stop,
he got upset, and threatened to tell my best friend so i was like arghh, then as we left at about 4 in the morning, i saw him getting very very friendly with someone else i was like :@!
And now i'm so much of a ho, i've invited him to come round now because ive got a free house. :/!!!
lols anyway ill post a video on xtube in a bit.
i don't really help myself much do i?!

[rokstar]

awww that sucks :(

but what do u think u would rather more:
the friendship with ur bfflz
or
"the one"

[leah]

lmao Mitch you're such a babe!
This other guy seems a sleaze is he slept with you, wouldn't break it off with your mate and was then getting close to someone else. Your friendship should be more important.

[Sevenoaks]

Wow, now this is one hell of a situation. Can't say I've never been here before though. I just forgot the pair of them and moved on to better things.

[Barwy]

It's totally fine and perfectly normal for you to be gay, my friend, here let me explain:
-The feelings you are feeling are so natural, it is amazing, you shouldn't try and fight it
-One day, you will be with the man of your dreams, if you hold out long enough

For more information on being gay, check this link: *REMOVED*

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