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[user130523]

right at skwl people been taking the mick out of me, calling me gay etc just cause i don't get along with like the boys out my class and stuff so they do that!! i mean like everyone does it :/
and tbh they start with 'gay' then it leads to stuff i aint gonna say on here as i will get banned (its to do with gayness :/)

and tbh i don't know what to do! :(
any help?

edit- don't take mick etc please

[TheMagicTramp]

Tell the teacher or call childline or something

[Yoshimitsui]

You need to tell someone you trust or even your parents. In addition to that you should tell someone at school as people should not be allowed to name call and bully people as they wish. You could possibly go see a teacher with someone you trust, but if you can definitely tell your parents.

[user130523]

if i tell on them they will just carry on
i aint telling parents though, just don't like to discuss things like that with them tbh..

i might give childline a phone, see what they say.
oh and it aint just like a group of 4-5 its like EVERYONE :\

[buttons]

are you gay tho? most guys here that are accused of being gay end up coming out the closet lololol

[Hecktix]

I used to get that. Just hold your head up high & ignore them, after a while they get bored.

Or just turn around and say "Yeah i'm gay.. so what?" even if you aren't - it shuts them up :)

[user130523]

are you gay tho? most guys here that are accused of being gay end up coming out the closet lololol
nope lol


I used to get that. Just hold your head up high & ignore them, after a while they get bored.

Or just turn around and say "Yeah i'm gay.. so what?" even if you aren't - it shuts them up :)
thanks, and no thanks on the last part - will just make it worse
plus i try that but if they REALLY annoy me i sometimes tell them to f off and that shuts them up for like 5 mins :/

[Jackk]

punch one of them, they will get the picture then and leave you alone.

[TheMagicTramp]

if i tell on them they will just carry on
i aint telling parents though, just don't like to discuss things like that with them tbh..

i might give childline a phone, see what they say.
oh and it aint just like a group of 4-5 its like EVERYONE :\

No they won't have a good long chat with the teacher and explain whats happening and you are getting sick of it the teachers do everything to sort out thats what they there for without teachers a school would be a school full of bullies. I hate bullies myself as well and thanks for taking my suggestion on board you can either tell your parents or the teachers i recommend both to be honest tell your parents as well they'll properly just go into the school and properly the police as well i feel so sorry for you when you said it's everyone it's so unconfortable getting bullied i got bullied in school before like 1 month ago the teacher sorted it out for me and they never done it again you could always like write a letter out to explain and tell who ever is hosting the assembly to read it don't feel embarresed by it just do it.

They only say your gay and all that crap and blabber because they have nothing else better to say other than that tell me whats happened and i'll knock them out for you ;) (( Jokes ))

Don't be shy just do it ;)

[leah]

The best form of attack is defence, Bully someone weaker than you.

[Immenseman]

just ignore it. be the bigger person or make a joke out of it, that's what i'd do. i wouldn't tell a teacher because i doubt they mean it in a dead vicious way and telling a teacher so isn't cool. fighting isn't cool either. just get a gf.

[luce]

you're a guy aren't you meant to get along with guys..

[Rixion]

Been there before, just make a sarcastic reply or go along with it.

I've said I know i'm happy and walked away. Or ignore them..

[awelsh]

Agreed with the point of punching one of them so the rest get the point. Pick a scrawny one who just thinks their cool, easy target.

Telling the teachers might not help, no one likes a snitch.

[user130523]

thanks to some of the advice - i'll just ignore them tbh

and Luucyy - i do but my the boys in my class are well ******** :)

[IceNineKills]

no point telling a teacher, all they can and will do is just say to the other dudes "dont do that".

stand up for yourself.

[Jordy]

The best form of attack is defence, Bully someone weaker than you.The term is 'Attack is the best form of Defence' which also happens to be the most stupid quote and piece of advice ever. I'm not sure if you're trying to be funny or 'light-hearted' cause you don't take it 'so seriously' but it's not exactly funny suggesting to bully someone weaker than you, that's how the majority of bullying starts and just looking at a playground it's blatant to see.

[TheMagicTramp]

you're a guy aren't you meant to get along with guys..

Not ALL guys can get along with each other

[user130523]

^ thank you :D

i'll just ignore them - if it gets worse i'll take further

[5,5]

Fight them.

[Antony]

I wouldn't recomend telling the teachers that you are being bullied (like others have mentioned the vicious circle - and sometimes just makes things worse), I'd definately tell your parents though, or someone you are really close to who can try and help you through it. It's really hard speaking to your parents about things like what is happening but they are going to want to support you through it, is there no options of moving forms to get away from them?

Obviously if the bullying starts to get physical then you definately to be making your school teachers aware. Child Line will talk to you about it and hopefully give you some advice on how to deal with it - a lot better than we can here.

Like Immenseman said, there is also the option of just ignoring it, but if it continues day in day out, then eventually it will start building on top of you where you wont want to go to school anymore.

Fighting with them, or bullying someone weaker than you isn't the answer whatsoever.

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are you gay tho? most guys here that are accused of being gay end up coming out the closet lololol

Regardless if he is or not, they have no right to be bullying him or even accusing him of being gay - merely on the basis he doesnt socialise with the lads in his class?

[user130523]

^ Best help yet!
+REP! Cheers :D

[Soy]

if you choose to be gay, and go against many of the religions in society which will condem you for the rest of your life,
you surely have to be ready for these kinds of insults.
If your not gay then get yo'self some pie

[CJW93]

Tell the person that you think their sister is fit and you wouldn't mind having sex with them. That will piss them off

[eight]

spin kik them
then punch a couple who jump in
then ****** karate chop their heds
then take a dump on them

[FlyingJesus]

it's not exactly funny suggesting to bully someone weaker than you

Yeah it is, and the idea that bullies only do it because they've been bullied before is a load of crap too


spin kik them
then punch a couple who jump in
then ****** karate chop their heds
then take a dump on them

Could try that but I don't think it would help get any friends

[Phreedom]

be like "yeah, i'm gay, drop your pants for me please"

makes them run away :P

[crazed]

The best form of attack is defence, Bully someone weaker than you.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

I don't get how you can be gay.. if you don't get along with the boys? :S

A gay scared of ****. They watch to much little Britain.

I'd just say ignore them, they will soon forget about it and if worst comes to worst follow her advice /\

[Jordy]

Yeah it is, and the idea that bullies only do it because they've been bullied before is a load of crap tooThat's nonsense it's easy to see it is the case. I used to think it was very far-fetched as well and couldn't see it happening when you used to see loner's getting bullied, it's not like you could imagine them bullying people.

There's a load of idiots in my year who are consistently bullied by most people they come across yet as soon as they see someone such as a loner or someone who's shy they'll just use all the insults which they just received against them.

[DJ-Ains.T]

Smack one of them, won't happen again.

Make friends with some of them?

[FlyingJesus]

That's nonsense it's easy to see it is the case. I used to think it was very far-fetched as well and couldn't see it happening when you used to see loner's getting bullied, it's not like you could imagine them bullying people.

There's a load of idiots in my year who are consistently bullied by most people they come across yet as soon as they see someone such as a loner or someone who's shy they'll just use all the insults which they just received against them.

I think I'd know seeing as how I've never in my life been bullied yet I am what I am. It may be the case for some rejects but the best bullies are the ones who've never had a trouble in their life

[AgnesIO]

The best form of attack is defence, Bully someone weaker than you.


Thats ridiculous.

You have just gone lower than low.

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To be honest the fact you just said 'I don't get along with the boys in my class' says something for me! That makes you the least 'gay' person in your class :D

[Jxhn]

To be honest the fact you just said 'I don't get along with the boys in my class' says something for me! That makes you the least 'gay' person in your class :D

Well not really, people like to have friends that they don't have to worry about what they look like when they're around them or what their friends think of them. Lots of camp people seem to be friends with more women than men.

Try to make friends with other people in other classes and in other years. They'll make you feel better and back you up if you become close friends.

[LuketheDuke]

These guys are probably bottom set, low IQ rejects anyway so it isnt worth being bothered by people who'll be serving you in Burger King in 5 years time.

Just roll with the jokes and wave at them, blow them kisses if you want and youl be suprised how quickly they stop. And for the sake of doing it just chat to some guys in your class and their case against you is closed.

Horrible people just exist. Many in my year even when we were all turning 18 still acted like they were 4 in trying to be vindictive and exclude certain people from social circles. Those people suffer at uni so jokes on them.

[AgnesIO]

Well not really, people like to have friends that they don't have to worry about what they look like when they're around them or what their friends think of them. Lots of camp people seem to be friends with more women than men.

Try to make friends with other people in other classes and in other years. They'll make you feel better and back you up if you become close friends.


I won't try and make him feel better about himself in future :(