Why do I care about this soo much?!

[Sunny.]

Right ive not really asked for advice on here for a long timeeeee.
Im with this girl, Ive known her for 3 years. I went out with her about a year ago. Now were kinda back together and hve been for 2-3 months now.

Ive noticed that when we have a arguement she will always go and talk to one of my friends and ***** about me. I know this cus he always knows everything that happens in our relationship. I dont mind her speaking to my friends or boys but its when she tells others about everything that happens. Fair enough she can tell her friends but why tell mine?

& then she'll show off with him and post stuff on her msn name, facebook and stuff. It does my head in.
I dont know what 2 do.

Is there something wrong with me or what. Why do I even care about it?
+rep.

[camera]

shes an attention seeker. and everybody cares about what people say about em. its just how much you let it affect you. talk things out with her or something?

[Sunny.]

Thanks for that.

[Sunny.]

I spoke 2 her and she said that she does it for attention like mentioned above and to make me jealous?

I dont really get jealous of it though, I just get pissed off lmao.
So i told her and it shud be sorted now!
Thanks lewl +reped

[leah]

lol the fact that it annoys you means that you are jealous.
It's normal to be jealous if your partner pays your friends loads of attention and seems to be close to them, I wouldn't like it if my friends were really close with a boyfriend either.

[camera]

if jealousy has nothing to do with it, i think he was annoyed at the fact that she cldve told HER own friends no matter male or female, not his friends coz then she might get his friends to turn against him.

[Soy]

Making you feel jealous and anxious is the best revenge,

she's just annoyed at you