View Full Version : i dont know anymore.
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 05:29 PM
i know im not attractive. and everyone i like always let me down and when i get my hopes up on someone and know they dont like me in that way it just gets me down. theres a person that i really like and when i go past him i think i blush quite bad. part from he isnt exactly attractive and im worried if i get to know him well and things did work out then im worried i will get bullyed for it if you know what i mean. what do i do ? im so embaressed about liking him i cant even bring myself to tell my best friend. ;/
xoxox
iAdam
28-06-2009, 05:52 PM
If looks are still a major thing for you then I would wait a while before you try and start a relationship, however if you do like him, go for it, I've missed chances with really nice girls because they weren't the best lookers. And if anyone bullies you then they obviously arn't that mature.
Can I ask what year you're in if that isn't rude?
Immenseman
28-06-2009, 05:55 PM
If you like him enough then screw what other people think and just go for it. You only live once, if you don't you may end up regretting it.
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 05:59 PM
im in year 10. i know what you mean just i hardly know him and well when i was in year 9 we went out but i hardly knew him and people frowned upon us then. i just want to get to know him first.
iAdam
28-06-2009, 06:12 PM
Yh I'm in the same year, tbh, if people say anything then they need to look at themselves if they base relationships on looks.
I'd say go for it, Like immenseman said, you only live once and I regret them missed oppourtunities tbh.
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 06:14 PM
thanks for the advice xox. +rep
just thing is. i go past him and feel like i just want to go up to him and hug him just thing is i hardly know him xox
iAdam
28-06-2009, 06:23 PM
Get to know him, If you have to work in groups in a lesson, get in his group, go up to him at breaks and just start talking, it will all be fine, trust the internet person you've only just met on a habbo forum ;)
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 06:27 PM
LMAO yep people like you are the people to trust :L
lol. my best friend irl she knows i like a couple of people and i dont know to tell her or not. im thinking about it ive known her 11 years just well. i tell her alot i like people and well shes going to be like eww. sort of thing. hes not that bad just got a bad reputation.
iAdam
28-06-2009, 06:33 PM
Just tell her, you get once chance thats it, I regret not taking my chances more than I would if I'd have tried and failed, As your friends get a little mroe mature they'll realise that it really doesn't matter.
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 06:38 PM
well tbh. she cant really talk as she goes out with a sheep. but i just feel bad cause i tormeant her about her bf and lol now will be pay back if you get what i mean xox.
iAdam
28-06-2009, 06:55 PM
Just do it srsly, if she ribs you about it, it's only fair.
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 09:04 PM
lol ;P thanks xox
go for it, if I didn't go for the girl im practically with now, i know i'd regret it so very very much.
I'd tell your best friend, and then get her to tell this lad you like him, and take it from there :)
Nxrissa
28-06-2009, 09:15 PM
thanks for the good advice xox +rep
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