How long in a relationship before it's acceptable to have sex?

[Toughened]

So yeah, you start a relationship with someone, doesn't matter if they're a virgin or not or vice versa. How long do you have to be with them before you think it's acceptable to have sexual intercourse?

Post thoughts and opinions.

EDIT: I know some people are saying when it's the right time for both etc. But like would you frown upon someone who done it within the first week, or maybe not like the fact that someone waited for a year?

Personally, what do you feel is the right time.

[Catchy]

Just until it feels like the right time in my opinion, somtimes I've waited months but then somtimes I've waited days so yeah. It just depends when the time is right and on the two people.

[jennifuh]

IMO, whenever you're both ready .. my current bf and I did it before we were going out, when we liked each other, but we were kinda smashed :S.. but that's just us.

[Yoshimitsui]

I don't see how it can have a limit on the amount of time, it is simply when its is right for both people!

[Catchy]

Oh I know somone who waited a year :O

[Blinger1]

I don't see how it can have a limit on the amount of time, it is simply when its is right for both people!
i don't think having sex within the first hour is very acceptable tbh.

[Yoshimitsui]

i don't think having sex within the first hour is very acceptable tbh.

Where did i state anything to do with the first hour of anything? And the first hour of what, going out?, watching a film?, playing snakes and ladders.... ?

[jennifuh]

Where did i state anything to do with the first hour of anything? And the first hour of what, going out?, watching a film?, playing snakes and ladders.... ?

LMAO, "Yeah.. so uhm we've been playing snakes and ladders for like an hour now .. I think we should DO IT."

.. sooo romantic, I want that!!! ;)

[Blinger1]

i only quoted you because you were the last one to say "it depends on time"...
And going out obviously.

[Toughened]

LMAO, "Yeah.. so uhm we've been playing snakes and ladders for like an hour now .. I think we should DO IT."

.. sooo romantic, I want that!!! ;)

LOLL +Rep.

[Yoshimitsui]

LMAO, "Yeah.. so uhm we've been playing snakes and ladders for like an hour now .. I think we should DO IT."

.. sooo romantic, I want that!!! ;)

' No sorry it's only been 55 minutes :( '

[Catchy]

i don't think having sex within the first hour is very acceptable tbh.


Why not?

[jennifuh]

' No sorry it's only been 55 minutes :( '

"Whaaat?? But I totally set the timer when we started playing.. D:"

[buttons]

Why not?
if someone asked me for sex as soon as we started dating it'd be obvious that's all they really want (which is probably the case most the time) and there would be no point in a relationship at all lol. I'd say about 5 month but that's just me

[Blinger1]

if someone asked me for sex as soon as we started dating it'd be obvious that's all they really want (which is probably the case most the time) and there would be no point in a relationship at all lol. I'd say about 5 month but that's just me
thank you. pretty much summed it up. now to accidentally +rep you.. again!

[Mentor]

Pretty much instanty tbh once your actually in a relationship - aka not dateing, getting to know each other, but actually entering the realationship for real "/

[cocaine]

whenever they're both ready and comfortable with it

[Meanies]

Whenever you're both ready.. you don't go n get a calendar when you start goin out n write down when youre gna do it :P

But I'd say like 8months+

[BlueEyedSarah]

There shouldnt be an exact time it should be when you both feel ready.

[Sammeth.]

I know this is repetitive, but it should be when you're both ready. I personally wouldn't judge someone for having sex within the first week of their relationship as it's entirely their choice. You shouldn't be concerned about whenever other people think its right, or when other people think you should. The opinion that is most precious on this topic is your own and the other person involved. I voted for what I truly would practice in my life on the poll, but that's not to say I expect other people to live as I live and choose as I choose. Something as sensitive as this all falls down to you and what your principles and morales are.

[Wahey]

I think when ever you both feel ready for it and are resposible and mature enough for it

[@K]

Well to be honest whenver they both feel like they're ready. Last girlfriend was four days, one before was two weeks and one before that was the day I asked her out (before I did though).

[FlyingJesus]

BEFORE the relationship preferably. You want to know if you're going to be able to stay intimate with them for a long time and if it doesn't work in the bedroom then no mature relationship can last

[efq]

1 night stand xoxo

[Soy]

you should do it to look cool

[Clowgon]

The same day..

When both are ready tbh..

[Janet Snakehole]

i don't think you can really put a time on when its acceptable, i guess it depends on the people, how well the relationship is going and whether you're both ready or not!

[Thrived]

I wouldnt less than one month into it..
If i was ready or not, id want to make them 'want me' more... and not be seen as too 'easy'.

[Zak]

when ever both couples feel comfortable

[Jam]

I'd say at the very least 3 months, whether or not you 'feel ready'.

[luce]

Oh I know somone who waited a year :O

i know people who waited year 1/2. Erm well i did the next day.. but whenever you're both ready i spose no point in being like we will on five months and one of you being over ready and the other still not wanting to. It's something that can't be generalised

[GoldenMerc]

I dont really know, its all about how much you trust each other. i've started relationships in the past from being "**** buddys" then going on to having a relationship so its all about how confortable you feel together.

[Antallica]

its when its right for each other.
but if i had to choose.
1-5 month

[Pixet]

Whenever you're both ready. :D

[Nicola]

When you have full trust in the person and when you're both ready.

[Richie]

Can i ask why you didn't put hours?

I joke whenever you both feel like its the right time surely.

[9y]

Oh ********. I clicked 1-3 weeks instead of 1-5 months. Never mind, Yes I think it takes a few months to really get to know each other, then a few months to be ready. Then go for it :)

[HabboTFM]

When both are ready . If 1 is not ready better dont try.

[Jack.Lfc]

After you get married.

[leah]

Whenever it happens I guess... you don't plan when to have sex.

[Jack.Lfc]

I have lots of arrangements in my diary.

[efq]

When you meet them at a club on the same night ^^

[kk.]

a lot of people on here are probably under 16, if youre under id say longer, but people who are 16+, more 18 when you regularly go out, its more 1 - 4 weeks

[Kyle]

When you get bored of just talking to eachother

[Cysne]

with my current girlfriend I got told to take my pants off on first date because I said they were tight... I'm not complaining about the rest of the things that happened.. :eusa_whis