A girl

[Clowgon]

Ok basically, i'm currently in a relationship and there's this girl i really really like but the problem is my current relationship is going great and i really love who i'm going out with atm.

The other girl and i have become really good friends lately and we've been spending a lot of time with each other at school and that. She's asked me if i would like to go camping with her and one of her mates later in the week.

I want to go but i dnt know if i should. :S Would this be right seeing that my current circumstances?

[Catchy]

Hi Clowgon, last time we spoke you said you had a rope around your neck ready to hang yourself. Besides the point anyway, for me personally, I would not go camping with her as your current girlfriend is bound to get very very jealous and paronoid. I mean if your girlfriend went camping with two boys she'd been spending alot of time with what on earth would you think? Exactly.

And I quote you when you say "I really love who I'm going out with atm" obviously not real love or you wouldn't be liking anybody esle. But yes I am not here to tell you who to like and who not to like, that is upto you and you have to decide that. The best thing is to get off the forum and get out there and decide for yourself as nobody esles opinion should matter to you.

You have to do what you think is right, not what I thinks right or anybody esle. It's your life it's upto you. But my advise about the camping thing would be no it probably wouldn't be right.

[Clowgon]

Hi Clowgon, last time we spoke you said you had a rope around your neck ready to hang yourself. Besides the point anyway, for me personally, I would not go camping with her as your current girlfriend is bound to get very very jealous and paronoid. I mean if your girlfriend went camping with two boys she'd been spending alot of time with what on earth would you think? Exactly.

And I quote you when you say "I really love who I'm going out with atm" obviously not real love or you wouldn't be liking anybody esle. But yes I am not here to tell you who to like and who not to like, that is upto you and you have to decide that. The best thing is to get off the forum and get out there and decide for yourself as nobody esles opinion should matter to you.

You have to do what you think is right, not what I thinks right or anybody esle. It's your life it's upto you. But my advise about the camping thing would be no it probably wouldn't be right.


Hmm ye i would feel slightly un at ease if i knew she was going camping with a boy or a boy and a girl perhaps, i would be thinking what have they been up to and what will they be up to..

I really do love who am with right now, it's just when a grow closer to someone else i like, or some else i see and like perhaps, it's just the temptation but i wouldn't do anything like that.

I think i won't bother going, i dnt think we would get up to anything we shouldn't be doing and if it was to happen i wouldn't as i'm not that type of person who would cheat but maybe in my current circumstances i shouldn't as it wouldn't be right.

Thanks.

[BeanEgg]

I'm in a similar situation (well was). This time two cousins liked me. I like them both, but what would the other do? I just said I never wanted to cause problems, so I just became their friends. LOL

Onto your problem, I wouldn't go with her. If the other half finds out, you'll make it a lot more difficult, and female teenagers are pretty over the top, IT'S OVER. They wouldn't listen.

[Catchy]

I'm in a similar situation (well was). This time two cousins liked me. I like them both, but what would the other do? I just said I never wanted to cause problems, so I just became their friends. LOL

Onto your problem, I wouldn't go with her. If the other half finds out, you'll make it a lot more difficult, and female teenagers are pretty over the top, IT'S OVER. They wouldn't listen.

Cousins? You're actually vile.

[Clowgon]

I'm in a similar situation (well was). This time two cousins liked me. I like them both, but what would the other do? I just said I never wanted to cause problems, so I just became their friends. LOL

Onto your problem, I wouldn't go with her. If the other half finds out, you'll make it a lot more difficult, and female teenagers are pretty over the top, IT'S OVER. They wouldn't listen.

Hmm dnt think i could go out with my Cousin.. :(

Well i'm not now. I think it would be disrespectful to her.


Cousins? You're actually vile.


LOOOOOOOOOOL. What are Cousins? Like blood related...

[Catchy]

Cousins are like, your mums sisters/brothers children. So yes, but you can marry them etc. It's still SICK.

[buttons]

i think the guy meant the two girls were cousins, not his own lol

What's the point on spoiling something you already have, just for someone you have a little bit of feeling for? You need to decide first if you're truly happy in your current relationship before you make a decision, if you are then you should go camping with the rest of them as mates. Tell your current girlfriend where you're going and who you're going with or she will find out ;) I agree with Jake that if you're considering your relationship with your girlfriend and this new girl then you can't be that happy with the one you have at the moment so really you've got to decide for yourself. If you think you're going to be a *typical* guy who can't keep his pants on when he's around other girls then you shouldn't go, simple. If you stay with your girlfriend and she says she doesn't want you to go or ends up stalking you then it's a pretty crappy relationship as there's no trust but you have to remember she'd probably be a bit upset so you should promise to make it up to her the next week and actually keep that promise? This other girl, does she know you have a girlfriend? 'cause if she does and she's luring you in knowing this fact then she's probably a conniving **** but what do I know? I can't see why you'd want to be with someone like that but maybe she just really really likes you. Decide who you'd want to be with and let the other down gently so they don't get in the way, you never know maybe the other girl just wants to be friends.

[Catchy]

Oh right, yeah he meant the girls were cousins! Har har!

[BeanEgg]

No, I mean those two cousins liked me. Not I like my cousins.. Also, people in the UK can marry their cousins. It's not 100% in blood.

[Clowgon]

i think the guy meant the two girls were cousins, not his own lol

What's the point on spoiling something you already have, just for someone you have a little bit of feeling for? You need to decide first if you're truly happy in your current relationship before you make a decision, if you are then you should go camping with the rest of them as mates. Tell your current girlfriend where you're going and who you're going with or she will find out ;) I agree with Jake that if you're considering your relationship with your girlfriend and this new girl then you can't be that happy with the one you have at the moment so really you've got to decide for yourself. If you think you're going to be a *typical* guy who can't keep his pants on when he's around other girls then you shouldn't go, simple. If you stay with your girlfriend and she says she doesn't want you to go or ends up stalking you then it's a pretty crappy relationship as there's no trust but you have to remember she'd probably be a bit upset so you should promise to make it up to her the next week and actually keep that promise? This other girl, does she know you have a girlfriend? 'cause if she does and she's luring you in knowing this fact then she's probably a conniving **** but what do I know? I can't see why you'd want to be with someone like that but maybe she just really really likes you. Decide who you'd want to be with and let the other down gently so they don't get in the way, you never know maybe the other girl just wants to be friends.

Ye i'm deeply happy in my relationship and i wouldn't do anything to jeopardize it. If i did went camping with her i wouldn't do anything that you could say was being unfaithful.

Ye, the girl knows that i'm in a relationship as my gf goes to the same school but i don't know if she has any feelings for me.

I've spoken to her and I've told her i won't be going and i think I've done the right thing.

[Soy]

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