3 girls

[-paul.]

Im in a relationship but one of my ex's keeps texting me saying how much she misses me and wants to be with me.

but i dont have the heart to turn her down

but now im getting close to a third girl and had a dream about kissing her and woke up with a smile on my face and dont know what to do

can anyone advise me?

[Samantha.]

You have to think, which one do you prefer and which one do you want to be with the most! Then just go for it. You can't lead all 3 girls on, thats just unfair on the girls.

[Nicola]

Like Sam said, you need to decide which one you prefer and stick with one otherwise it's just going to get messy.
You need to tell your ex that you're not interested, yes it might upset her but I'm sure she'd appreciate the honesty rather than you leading her on. This could possibly turn into a misunderstood situation with your current girlfriend if she finds out you're texting with your ex. I'm not saying that you shouldn't text you ex, just make sure she's aware that you're not interested otherwise it could cause some drama as your ex doesn't seem fully aware that you're not interested.

[FlyingJesus]

I disagree, you're clearly quite young so you should see who you want to see and have fun with whoever you like - you're not gonna be having a lifelong relationship from now (however much people like to believe it in teen couples) so go for it and just try to not let them find out about each other

[kk.]

agreed ^

[Catchy]

I disagree, you're clearly quite young so you should see who you want to see and have fun with whoever you like - you're not gonna be having a lifelong relationship from now (however much people like to believe it in teen couples) so go for it and just try to not let them find out about each other


I disagree totally here Tom, yeah sure saying have fun while you are young etc but when will it stop? Shouldn't get in the habbit of it. I've never been cheated on but if I had than I would probably feel worthless and crap about myself for ages, I can imagain it's not very nice at all. Sure have fun when you're single but when you're seeing somone no excuses. Have some respect for both the girls, just choose which one you want to see and then just tell the other one straight. Cheating never lasts.

[luce]

I think you should talk to all three and see what they want froma relationship and see which one matches what you want and then bam get with her :)

[-paul.]

Just to let you know i am 16

one of them i have spoken to and we agreed that we could be more than friends but not now its not the right time in her life [she has just got out of a huge relationship]

but i may let them both down because at this time in my life i need to focus on school not relationships :)

[Catchy]

Just to let you know i am 16

one of them i have spoken to and we agreed that we could be more than friends but not now its not the right time in her life [she has just got out of a huge relationship]

but i may let them both down because at this time in my life i need to focus on school not relationships :)


Haha just don't say that to them, sounds like a classic breakup line. Hope it works out!

[Nxrissa]

you will have to make a discission who you like. if its really the 3rd girl you like, then my advice for you is that you split up with that other girl but give it time before you do anything.

[Jack.Lfc]

What did you do in the end?