View Full Version : Need some advice
I came home yesterday veerrryy drunk, my mom was pissed and stuff blablabla..
Now they're talking about sending me to some crazy muslim blow yourself up country with my dad where it quite literally is legal to beat your children, probably even encouraged. Guess what our father-son activities are going to be... :D
Yea, so I was wondering if there's any way to not go there? Like can I legally just say I do not wish to go or something? I'm going to cut my passport if all else fails
Moved from Discuss anything by invincible (Forum Moderator) as it's more suited here - sorry for accidentally closing it I had lag :P
Black_Apalachi
08-08-2009, 10:06 AM
Wth?! Where do you live now? :O
ecstasy
08-08-2009, 10:13 AM
What?! You came in drunk so now you're gonna move to Asia so they can beat you up for it. Talk about over reacting
What?! You came in drunk so now you're gonna move to Asia so they can beat you up for it. Talk about over reacting
i have a ****** up family, what can i say.
so guys, any advice? there must be some EU rule or something jesus christ
ecstasy
08-08-2009, 10:24 AM
i dont know of any, but im sure they cant just take you away to beat you :S
edit: gold member :)
Black_Apalachi
08-08-2009, 10:25 AM
Well the first thing I can imagine trying is, "I'm really sorry, please don't waste all that money on transporting me half way across the globe and then wasting lots and lots of your hard earned money on accomodation for me. It will never happen again, I promise". Or something along those lines :rolleyes:.
Well the first thing I can imagine trying is, "I'm really sorry, please don't waste all that money on transporting me half way across the globe and then wasting lots and lots of your hard earned money on accomodation for me. It will never happen again, I promise". Or something along those lines :rolleyes:.
um yea - that's not going to work :P
also, i'm meant to go live there, but you know why i dont want to
The country has no laws against anything :(
Black_Apalachi
08-08-2009, 10:32 AM
Which country is it, and where do you live now?
If it comes to it, run away to your mate's house. They'll let you stay at theirs once you've told them all this lol. Then tell your parents you're not coming back until they get a grip :P.
Tbh I think they're just trying to scare you.
Which country is it, and where do you live now?
If it comes to it, run away to your mate's house. They'll let you stay at theirs once you've told them all this lol. Then tell your parents you're not coming back until they get a grip :P.
Tbh I think they're just trying to scare you.
Saudi Arabia.... Been there a few times before, it's like always hot, kids are treated like dogs and women are sentenced to jail and beating cause they got raped. yay.
also the run away thing won't work, trust me.
right now im in sweden
Woah, are your family the the Saudi Arabian mafia or something.
It really depends on how old you are, and if you're willing to choose your personal freedom over your family.
Immenseman
08-08-2009, 12:18 PM
I doubt very much they've made this decision because you came home drunk. It's probably something that has been discussed and they've decided it will be easier for everyone to live with your Dad. I don't think there is much you can do about it really as if both your Mother and Father agree with it then you're pretty stuffed, I think. Obviously, i'd look into ir further and do some research.
How old are you?
cocaine
08-08-2009, 12:20 PM
was that a troll post? i dont belive one word of it
Immenseman
08-08-2009, 12:22 PM
oh lol there i am trying to be all helpful as well*+*
If you've sixteen or over you can just move out...
cocaine
08-08-2009, 02:18 PM
oh lol there i am trying to be all helpful as well*+*
bless you x
Immenseman
08-08-2009, 02:26 PM
i try ma best x
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Glen Coco
08-08-2009, 06:05 PM
go have some fun.
xox
okay we talked and everything is fine - just dumb threats which i took too seriously. Thanks to anyone that replied with serious advice.
Jackk
08-08-2009, 11:59 PM
you really thought your parents were going to send you to asia just so they could beat you? im sure they would just beat you where you live now if they really wanted too.
you really thought your parents were going to send you to asia just so they could beat you? im sure they would just beat you where you live now if they really wanted too.
yea, i over reacted.
the plan was actually to stay there with my father (whom has anger management problems)
Here I can call a teen helpline or something and get police involved, there you have nothing to support or help you
Alison:D
11-08-2009, 08:24 PM
No need to base your ideas on the legal side but what about sitting your parents down for a serious, adult conversation about how you don't want to go to this country. If that doesn't work then it's obviously for the best that your parents will send you there -- and I would research this place if I was you, and get rid of your stereotypical views about it.
Hope this helps :)
What age are you? They can't force you to go to a country no matter what age you are, but if you are 16+ then they definitely cannot force you to move as at 16+ you are allowed to get your own house n stuff.
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