Marriage or Two Kids?

[DamianLove]

Having a bit of a group discussion on instant messenger.
You have to choose between one or the other.
Marriage or 2 kids?

You can have 2 kids with your partner just not get married.
I always thought people would go for kids but its seems 50/50.
Thoughts?

[Caution]

2 kids.

[GordonBanks]

Why can't I choose get married and have 2kids?

[DamianLove]

I would also choose 2 chidlren.

[Leighanne.]

I'd have 2 kids.
i've always wanted 1 boy & 1 girl, i would love to have both though and i probably will. >;]

[DamianLove]

Yeah it's likely one will come with the other.
But we are saying what would you pick if you could only have one.

I'd like a boy and a girl also.

[Geraint]

I'd go for the two kids as long as I'd been in a relationship with the person for a long time.

[Jam]

Marriage, I hate small children and couldn't fancy having to care for them.

[DamianLove]

One of my friend went 'Marriage. I'd get bored of kids and give them away like my pokemon cards.'
Aha.

[Mentor]

Probably kids if its one of the other, although in reality both eventually :)

[Meanies]

2 kids.. all marriage is is a bit of paper :P

[NIKKEE]

As long as I was with my partner for a long time and we were planning on being together for the rest of our lives anyway (that sound's so weird) I would have 2 kids with him!
But I'd like to get married some time.

[DamianLove]

Yeah I see marriage more as an 'event' in life rather than something connecting the two of you.

[Meanies]

Yeah I see marriage more as an 'event' in life rather than something connecting the two of you.
yeeh. if you love each other so much then surely thats enough rather than having a little piece of paper to prove it :)

[DamianLove]

Someone asked me if because I'm gay does marriage seem more important cause gays weren't allowed it before and what not.
But to be honest I'd rather have kids than get married.
It's just never seemed to be a big thing to me.
Not that I wouldn't wanna get married cause I do.

[Technologic]

Civil partnership and one kid.

A bit of both.

[DamianLove]

Civil partnership and one kid.

A bit of both.

Im down with that.

[MrGazet]

marriage for me

just a kid annoy me already especially when there are 2 lol

[Tristan]

marriage.

[IceNineKills]

marriage as you can easily get rid of the cow but kids are there for life.

[Immenseman]

Two children for me. Marriage is a certificate.

[Rozi]

kiddiewids for me coz i cba with marriage.