Fed up with it now :/

[Fehm]

Right.. Theres this girl I've liked for like years now, she's like my best mate and we really do get on like sooo well.. and everytime I seem to be getting alot closed to her, she suddenly gets a boyfriend.. and I'm just fed up with it ^.^

Like, every single time she gets a boyfriend theres been this big build up for me, iygm, and I think she does it out of pleasure now


I wanna get her back, reallllyy bad, lol .. But I think i'd be too mean

Hints on how I can get over her guys? Its time to move on, but I find it soo difficult...


Any help..

Cyas
From the guy in DYER NEED.

[cocaine]

"friend zone" :(
does that explain it?

[Fehm]

meh Yerpp.... xD Its horrible. Life'd be soo much better without love tbh xD


HOW CAN I GET OVER HER :'(

[cocaine]

i agree with first statement ;)
and you cant do alot, will just take a while. "TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS" indeed my friend ;)

[Fehm]

Bahahahah Ty dude :P xD amg, Gotta see them tomorrow.. stupid results ^.^ Ruined that momentous day of my life xD

[cocaine]

slap them with your A's

[Nicola]

I used to be best friends with this guy a few years ago, we had so much in common and we did like everything together. He apparently used to like me but before I found out, he'd already moved on and was going out with one of my other friends.

I think I eventually realised I liked him aswell, probably because I spent so much time with him but I couldn't do anything about it because he already had a girlfriend so it was like yeah, gutted.
We both eventually drifted apart and we aren't really that good friends anymore. Thing is though, everytime I see him I still feel kinda weird and I dunno why because we haven't spoken in ages.

I don't think it's something that can completely go away, eventually the feelings will still be there but you won't realise it. Takes time to get over someone, shame it can't happen straight away. You'll come to your senses soon and just end up moving on, let it happen naturally and don't force yourself.

[Fehm]

I used to be best friends with this guy a few years ago, we had so much in common and we did like everything together. He apparently used to like me but before I found out, he'd already moved on and was going out with one of my other friends.

I think I eventually realised I liked him aswell, probably because I spent so much time with him but I couldn't do anything about it because he already had a girlfriend so it was like yeah, gutted.
We both eventually drifted apart and we aren't really that good friends anymore. Thing is though, everytime I see him I still feel kinda weird and I dunno why because we haven't spoken in ages.

I don't think it's something that can completely go away, eventually the feelings will still be there but you won't realise it. Takes time to get over someone, shame it can't happen straight away. You'll come to your senses soon and just end up moving on, let it happen naturally and don't force yourself.

Thank yoooo :) :love3:
I have you on msn :p

Cocaine, I shall slap them with my A's :P

[Nicola]

Thank yoooo :) :love3:
I have you on msn :p

Cocaine, I shall slap them with my A's :P

You do lol :O?

[Fehm]

I reckon so lol =]

[9y]

I'm in the same position. Stuck in love with a girl that doesn't want me. Sucks A LOT. Good luck, I wish I could offer help but I really cant.

[Fehm]

Ahah it sucks! :L

[rnix]

**** her best friend :D
lul

[Xoim]

^ Lol irl.

[Kyle]

get yourself a girlfriend and make her realise how much she really wants you

[Flamedragon3]

I'm in almost the same position as you. I have a really good friend, and we've known each other since we were three years old, and she lives next door but one to me. Problem is, I really like her and I have even told her that and she just said she won't ever go out with me because I am like a brother to her. It really does suck getting to really like someone and get really close with them, only to find that your 'too close' to be together lol.

I've gotten over her now, and that is because I have found other girls to my fancy. Its hard to keep away from her though as we always shop together every couple of weeks, and were always talking on msn. Just let time pass, and you will eventually move on and find someone else.

[Blinger1]

I feel your pain, kid..

Do you know the song "You belong with me" by Taylor Swift? Well that is my story, down to the very last letter.. I've been friends with this chick for a loong time we talk everyday, whether by SMS or msn or whatever..

So i fell for her last year sometime but i should have known nothing would happen since public transport around her sucks and different schools etc.. she got a boyfriend and they broke up twice or something, and she was really hurt.. i suppose i was there to care for her and tell her everything is fine (even if it wasn't) etc.. she trusts me and i trust her, we told each other everything..

Then we started to hang out more, seeing each other maybe 2-3 times a week and texted a lot more.. so i fell for her again.. this time i actually told her how i felt, and i got the dreaded message "i'm going to break your heart.. again!" the only time i threw my phone away when i got a message from her!!

So anyway, now she likes some other guy and i keep by her side..

In a sense i am glad we are not dating, i don't think best friends are meant to date.. if you do then you could lose her for life.. Which to be honest, i don't wanna do!

[Heinous]

How about manning the hell up?

[-K8T!E-]

i no how u feel :( -crys- been in the same position 4 two yrs :( it sucks and i still havent gotton over him. i dont think i ever will... i feel like my life will never be complete if he doesn't like me. stupid ''friends zone''... :(