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H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:00 PM
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LesbianGhost
22-07-2005, 05:04 PM
Fight dirty, kick any personal areas and pull hair. But seriously, have you told anyone?
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:05 PM
Fight dirty, kick any personal areas and pull hair. But seriously, have you told anyone?
i've contacted http://www.teen-matters.com/home.htm but i am waiting for a reply and 2 of my m8s saw what happened and they said nothing
Thats pretty sad.
I've personally never been builied before so i don't know what to do and stuff. But the best way to get rid off a bully is supposedly to manage to beat them in a fight or tell someone.
the wombats
22-07-2005, 05:06 PM
Fight dirty, kick any personal areas and pull hair. But seriously, have you told anyone?
agreed, fight dirty, tell anyone,
Tommy
22-07-2005, 05:07 PM
you should tell youre mum and dad, just to have back up.
Digital
22-07-2005, 05:08 PM
just kik there Azz's
Jinxxed
22-07-2005, 05:10 PM
Fight back, even if they're stronger, if you don't you'll regret it.. Like me..
Michael.
22-07-2005, 05:14 PM
I'd advise you to talk to an advisor here.
http://www.connexions-direct.com/index.cfm?pid=223
They are so helpful, I tried them when I was being bullied. ;)
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:16 PM
I'd advise you to talk to an advisor here.
http://www.connexions-direct.com/index.cfm?pid=223
They are so helpful, I tried them when I was being bullied. ;)
thank you I'll have to try that
Maybe your 2 "So Called Friends" didn't actually like you. It was probaly a set up. But if your being bullyed, I would tell a teacher, a parant or guardian or a best friend, a freind that you can trust. If you continue to get bullyed, then I would tell the police. I mean name calling isn't that good, but attacking people is just wrong!
Beat Bullying ! ! !
Mr.Kylee
22-07-2005, 05:17 PM
:o If somebody would talk bad about my mum..wo I'd do more then just tell them something at their face ;l Are they stronger? If so get a good friend which is bigger then them or tell mum, dad. You could go train karate? >_> or something like that and you can learn how to self defence.
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:18 PM
:o If somebody would talk bad about my mum..wo I'd do more then just tell them something at their face ;l Are they stronger? If so get a good friend which is bigger then them or tell mum, dad. You could go train karate? >_> or something like that and you can learn how to self defence.
I do train karate but i just stood there because I knew the gang wouldn't dare do anything else
Colourful™
22-07-2005, 05:19 PM
I'm being bullied :(
I told my teacher and they did nout.
I had a fight with him and came away with a black eye and cuts all over.
So i might have to move school/house/town :'(
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:20 PM
I'm being bullied :(
I told my teacher and they did nout.
I had a fight with him and came away with a black eye and cuts all over.
So i might have to move school/house/town :'(
aww I guess we are battling the same War
Colourful™
22-07-2005, 05:21 PM
they tried to rob my rockports so i fell on the floor whilest they where holding my leg and i kicked them in the face then ran for my life
MYKE!
22-07-2005, 05:21 PM
Aaaaw i feel sorry for you m8 :(
What you wanna do is to not be scared.
Be ****y but dont provoke them.
Sooner or later they'll discover that you dont care and move on to some other poor guy.
Pulchritudinous
22-07-2005, 05:23 PM
I do train karate but i just stood there because I knew the gang wouldn't dare do anything else
I was bullied too, it ended up with my Dad being beaten up very badly, because he tried to sort it, I learnt that staying and doing nothing solves NOTHING.
You have to insult them, hurt them, anything to show them up, cause they are doing it all to impress, and once they don't look good they will stop.
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:24 PM
They where Holding my bike so i couldn't go
Tommy
22-07-2005, 05:25 PM
Just ignore all these people saying beat them up, they dont see it the right way. If you do, you could end up worse, all you can do is tell people and try and avoid people who you are afraid of. Tell people you trust such as parents and teachers, get a councillor, battle it the easy way, dont go doing something you regret.
Connextions are great at helping you out, they will give you meetings and stuff. But whatever you do, ignore these big heads saying beat them up, its a bad idea =)
Colourful™
22-07-2005, 05:26 PM
I'm really ****ed off with them
I might just get a group of friends and goto them
Tommy
22-07-2005, 05:31 PM
Just ignore all these people saying beat them up, they dont see it the right way. If you do, you could end up worse, all you can do is tell people and try and avoid people who you are afraid of. Tell people you trust such as parents and teachers, get a councillor, battle it the easy way, dont go doing something you regret.
Connextions are great at helping you out, they will give you meetings and stuff. But whatever you do, ignore these big heads saying beat them up, its a bad idea =)
Did you read that? Dont do it, thats what they want, people that bully arent the only ones they will have friends. They will gang up on you, keep clear from those people, dont do something you'll regret.
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 05:36 PM
just kik there Azz's
violence is not the answer in this situation, u should tell someone and get a band of people to help you, first tell your parents then theirs..
if that does not work then your in need of a few tatics
Rachi
22-07-2005, 05:39 PM
Originally Posted by LesbianGhost
Fight dirty, kick any personal areas and pull hair. But seriously, have you told anyone?
OMG
I AM PEEING MY SELF LAFFIN HERE
lmaoooooooo
and i think you should do what she said
And ask them
What you have done and if they wanna keep picking on you
tell em 2 pick on you infront of the teachers and around you home area and if they dont say wats wrong 2 scared 2 bully me infront of my own home
then if they do get ur parents 2 take photo's
and record it so u can report it 2 the police
Hope i helped
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:39 PM
but should i have just stood there while i was being hit ? this happened about 4.00 today
ChloeDust
22-07-2005, 05:40 PM
Aww bless you -Hugs- =[ I know how you feel i got bullied by an old friend of mine and even got strangled at school once (By a different girl) and all my friends were watching me getting strangled but did nothing apart from one who came running towards me and threw her chips on the floor cause i was in danger =[ anyways.. i got the head of year to have a huge go at her and she never said anything after that, but she was nothing without the 'friend' who she bullied me with. She was all mouth -sigh-
Anyways it's important to tell your parents and if they say something to you again just laugh and smile at them and completely ignore them! I know it's hard but pretend like it doesn't get to you honestly it does help and they get bored. -.- -sigh- bullies are losers without a life. x.x
Tommy
22-07-2005, 05:41 PM
you shouldnt of stood there, you should of ran off, you dont need to take it, and you dont need to fight. So what if they laugh, it doesnt matter.
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 05:41 PM
Aww bless you -Hugs- =[ I know how you feel i got bullied by an old friend of mine and even got strangled at school once (By a different girl) and all my friends were watching me getting strangled but did nothing apart from one who came running towards me and threw her chips on the floor cause i was in danger =[ anyways.. i got the head of year to have a huge go at her and she never said anything after that, but she was nothing without the 'friend' who she bullied me with. She was all mouth -sigh-
Anyways it's important to tell your parents and if they say something to you again just laugh and smile at them and completely ignore them! I know it's hard but pretend like it doesn't get to you honestly it does help and they get bored. -.- -sigh- bullies are losers without a life. x.x
:( Thats so sad to hear, :( If I was with you I would give you some candy :)
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:45 PM
you shouldnt of stood there, you should of ran off, you dont need to take it, and you dont need to fight. So what if they laugh, it doesnt matter.
they where holding me down and hitting me , i couldn't move
Rachi
22-07-2005, 05:48 PM
Kick them in the privates, Hard.
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 05:50 PM
Kick them in the privates, Hard.
and if that did not work spit at them or kik their shins or noses VERY HARD :O
Tommy
22-07-2005, 05:52 PM
And then you get thumped back twice as hard back... Didnt think of that did you? Stop resolving in fighting, its childish and he would be following the path of the bully!
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:54 PM
But hurting them causes more pain
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 05:54 PM
And then you get thumped back twice as hard back... Didnt think of that did you? Stop resolving in fighting, its childish and he would be following the path of the bully!
not true, its called self - defence, you dont take abuse, you can or you can take defensive action. Didnt think of that also....
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:56 PM
not true, its called self - defence, you dont take abuse, you can or you can take defensive action. Didnt think of that also....
I stood there because They were bigger than me and they were holding me down I felt like crying after that , when i got home later today i did! :'(
Rachi
22-07-2005, 05:57 PM
And then you get thumped back twice as hard back... Didnt think of that did you? Stop resolving in fighting, its childish and he would be following the path of the bully!
WELL MR. SMARTY PANTS WHAT DO YOU SAY SHE SHOULD DO?
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 05:58 PM
WELL MR. SMARTY PANTS WHAT DO YOU SAY HE SHOULD DO?
she , I am a girl , the avater is just my mate
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 06:00 PM
I stood there because They were bigger than me and they were holding me down I felt like crying after that , when i got home later today i did! :'(
I have a friend that goes through worse than that everyday, how do you think she feels all the time, she is so depressed she tries to kill herself. So I suggested that she ignores it, focuses on finishing school and thinking about all the things that make her happy, to resolve her pain and anger play around and have fun because once she leaves school she wont see her bullies agin.
And I suggest that you do the same and see your teachers, parents and friends for more advice and help :)
Chanced
22-07-2005, 06:13 PM
Hey, Seriously, if they keep at it and nothing will work, and they really are going far, personally hit them back once, once is enough, but hard and show them your not going to let them get away with it. Bullies are Scum, One day theyl get there revenge, served cold. r'member were ere for you<3
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 06:14 PM
Hey, Seriously, if they keep at it and nothing will work, and they really are going far, personally hit them back once, once is enough, but hard and show them your not going to let them get away with it. Bullies are Scum, One day theyl get there revenge, served cold. r'member were ere for you<3
thanks for reading chanced
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 06:15 PM
http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y240/hollysmithy/bullied2.png
This was my position , sitting on my bike 3 people in front of me Hitting me and my 2 friends standing beside me saying nothing
Roboevil
22-07-2005, 06:20 PM
You're a girl?
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 06:23 PM
http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y240/hollysmithy/bullied2.png
This was my position , sitting on my bike 3 people in front of me Hitting me and my 2 friends standing beside me saying nothing
well what did you say to them
Absently
22-07-2005, 06:23 PM
i posted somethingv like this i get bullied by a boy whos way older the me he threatens me and my friends he had a pin knife once and he started following me and my friends 1 of my friends is real scared of him but me and my other m8 tryed 2 stick up for ourselfs but it never works and i get bullied by a girl whos younger then me she says horible stuff about my family these ppl bully bcoz they av problems at home and if u tell your parents or a teacher it makes it worse they say your just a baby telling your parents
H.bubbly
22-07-2005, 06:23 PM
You're a girl?
yes Roboevil the person in my avater is my friend
cocaine
22-07-2005, 06:32 PM
Well, I'm very sorry to hear that. I've been beaten up, and we got the police involved. Now he's scared of me, muwahaha!
ASHFELT
22-07-2005, 06:33 PM
Well, I'm very sorry to hear that. I've been beaten up, and we got the police involved. Now he's scared of me, muwahaha!
excellent lol :)
Pulchritudinous
22-07-2005, 07:04 PM
You proved to them that your weaker, which isn't your fault, it's just, don't let them get what they want, they want to seem powerful and strong, but you need to see them look like a loser infront of their mates, they will stop straight away.
Once this girl thought she was so good cause she is a year above me, started swearing at me and stuff to show off to her mates on the bus, I ignored it, but when I got off, she kicked the back of my leg, so I turned around and went up to her face and told her to f**k off, and punched her round the face, the look on her face and her friends was excellent, she just sat there frozen..you need to do something back!
I am a fish
22-07-2005, 07:52 PM
I've been bullied several times, the best you can do is ignore them. Or make fun of them too :P
Annihillating
22-07-2005, 08:49 PM
tht isn't actually bullying coz they only did it once if they carry on then its bullyin
n u gotta tell sum1
me gf used to get bullied by this boi she wudn't tell ne1 so i told for her then beat the :rude: :rude: outa the kid n now hes to scared to go near her
mwuhahahaha
Tondi
22-07-2005, 09:04 PM
me gf used to get bullied by this boi she wudn't tell ne1 so i told for her then beat the fukin **** outa the kid n now hes to scared to go near her
mwuhahahaha
Off topic: lol i love this post, you censored only one of the swear words, perhaps not the worst one, how about editting out this and using the CENSORED emoticon?
On topic: Girl tell your teachers, so they can tell the parents of the bullies, then they'll leave it. My friend bullied this boy for about 7 months, then he eventually got the courage to tell someone, and my friend has never been the same since. He thinks twice before he says anything, and he keeps well away from the person he bullied.
Dont be afraid of them, they're smaller then you if they get a kick out of bullying you, its pathetic and disgusting. The best thing to do is not resolve to violence but if they say something to your face (i find them saying things behind your back is worse - always the fear of them spreading stuff about you makes you feel tiny and paranoid) just laugh at them, and say, 'gee your funny, do you use that on everyone you bully?' and just walk away.
You'll get through it <3
Annihillating
23-07-2005, 10:28 PM
Off topic: lol i love this post, you censored only one of the swear words, perhaps not the worst one, how about editting out this and using the CENSORED emoticon?
On topic: Girl tell your teachers, so they can tell the parents of the bullies, then they'll leave it. My friend bullied this boy for about 7 months, then he eventually got the courage to tell someone, and my friend has never been the same since. He thinks twice before he says anything, and he keeps well away from the person he bullied.
Dont be afraid of them, they're smaller then you if they get a kick out of bullying you, its pathetic and disgusting. The best thing to do is not resolve to violence but if they say something to your face (i find them saying things behind your back is worse - always the fear of them spreading stuff about you makes you feel tiny and paranoid) just laugh at them, and say, 'gee your funny, do you use that on everyone you bully?' and just walk away.
You'll get through it <3
done
Listen to some music i.e. Eye of The Tiger, and when they start again, knock them out.
Blader_Boy
23-07-2005, 10:43 PM
I'm Being Bullied
I just went up the park with some friends and a group of people who "apparently" I wanted a fight with.
So they thought it was funny to come over to me and make sure i can't get away. They were saying things like "you wanted a fight now hit us"
They started pushing me and Hitting me on my face again and again and again. I Just stood their and took it while my friends watched me being hit
I wish someone would care how much pain this has caused me in my heart. It all started in a Humanities Lesson on Tuesday last week , one of the gang members Sam
was talking about my mum and saying nasty stuff about her which i couldn't take so i said something which caused no harm and then i was accused of asking for a fight.
This happened on the last day of school at around 4.00 . I really want them to leave me alone but she wont and i just really feel upset about today. I never knew what it was like and i've seen people be bullied . I hoped that experience would never happen in my life but at 12 and nearly 13 years old , I think that at this age , that experience isn't a nice thing to happen to you.I would stand up for my mates if they were being bullied , But what Did my 2 friends who saw it do ? Nothing , just stood their and watched me sitting on my bike , silent in pain!
:'(
one person was defending me
I really don't want to read through all these pages sorry! but there are 2 ways out of this.
1. Talk to your friends ask them if their with you, stand up and fight.
2. Call the police and have them arrested for assault.
?-Doc-?
24-07-2005, 04:37 AM
Those mates did nothing? They arnt considered mates anymore.
HolyWar
24-07-2005, 04:39 AM
Off topic: lol i love this post, you censored only one of the swear words, perhaps not the worst one, how about editting out this and using the CENSORED emoticon?
On topic: Girl tell your teachers, so they can tell the parents of the bullies, then they'll leave it. My friend bullied this boy for about 7 months, then he eventually got the courage to tell someone, and my friend has never been the same since. He thinks twice before he says anything, and he keeps well away from the person he bullied.
Dont be afraid of them, they're smaller then you if they get a kick out of bullying you, its pathetic and disgusting. The best thing to do is not resolve to violence but if they say something to your face (i find them saying things behind your back is worse - always the fear of them spreading stuff about you makes you feel tiny and paranoid) just laugh at them, and say, 'gee your funny, do you use that on everyone you bully?' and just walk away.
You'll get through it <3
Good advice, more violence just leads to more violence.
Wootzeh
24-07-2005, 07:54 AM
wait
in the first post, you said it was a girl O.o
Moose
24-07-2005, 08:04 AM
Lol, I got in a fight once, he went up to me shoved me dingus... didn't think it was on a gravel road picked up a rock and gave him a shiner, I don't take squat from deprived idiots.
H.bubbly
28-07-2005, 01:46 PM
wait
in the first post, you said it was a girl O.o
there was 1 girl involved in the bullying but it was mainly the boys hitting me
BlueTails
28-07-2005, 01:50 PM
Go Out And Kick Thier ***,
Edited By nvrspk4 (Forum Moderator): Please Don't Avoid The Filter.
Edited By BlueTails (Forum Spamzer): Up Yours
Rachi
28-07-2005, 02:04 PM
*Removed*
hows tht gona help
Edited By nvrspk4 (Forum Moderator): Quote Removed ;)
Let Fire Fall
03-08-2005, 10:01 PM
some friends.
H.bubbly
08-08-2005, 01:01 PM
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