Someone I know!

[OllzIsTasty]

Someone I know from my MSN was 20 last week, and is now going out with a 14 year old girl. I told him that he may get himself in a lot of trouble but he won't take any of it.

Well annoying, I'm 18 turning 19 and I wouldn't go out with someone who is 14. Wouldn't be as bad if I went out with a 14 year old, although I wouldn't but come on he is sick and twisted at the moment.

I don't want him getting in trouble but if he does. Ahh well he'll get along with it.

[dogboy123]

14! and he's 20 thats asking for trouble

I can see her getting pressured into things and thats too much of an age gap at a young age. imo

[DJ-Ains.T]

If they have sex and she says yes to it, then they break up, she can still get him charged for it, even though she said yes to it! He's playing a risky game..

[FlyingJesus]

Depends on the guy tbh, most of the time I know this situation is some munting older guy who preys on girls who want an older man to seem more mature (because for some reason young people can't wait to be old) but a friend of mine is 19 and going out with a 15 year old which has raised some eyebrows but he's about as nice as they get and has actually said he doesn't want to get physical until she's at least 16 even though she wants it lol

So yeah depends on what this guy's like really

[Misawa]

19 years-old is the age where you can be convicted as a pedophile.

[Black_Apalachi]

That's crazy. He's just older than me, and she's just younger than my little brother. Sounds really weird when I think of it like that.

[Sir.Gold]

Do you guys think its bad if a 17 year old but coming 18 went out with someone at 15?

[Antallica]

risky.

[RandomManJay]

It depends if he goes anywhere with it, if he's just having a relationship it should be fine, but if he's having a sexual relationship, it could be risky if anyone finds out or he gets her pregnant etc.

[Nikki]

actually a boy aged 10 can get convicted of rape :rolleyes_

[H0BJ0B]

SO!? As long as they're happy together! Sheesh!

[fodzy]

i know this girl aged 16 she was goin out wid a 27yo but her older sister found out and got her boyfrend to beat him up lol! he paid the consequences!!!!!!

[lBlue]

i know this girl aged 16 she was goin out wid a 27yo but her older sister found out and got her boyfrend to beat him up lol! he paid the consequences!!!!!!
I think you've missed the whole point of the thread you *REMOVED*

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[adaym]

i know this girl aged 16 she was goin out wid a 27yo but her older sister found out and got her boyfrend to beat him up lol! he paid the consequences!!!!!!
lol so funny u shud do stand up

[Lindsey]

Honestly, if they are happy, just leave it but.. if she is being forced to do things she doesn't want to do, then it might get violent.. thats why in Canada it is illegal for people 18+ to date people 18-, because people 18+ are into more things, like sex + drugs and there partner might be forced into do those things :S


Idk if it helps <3 but yeh (:

[Kyle]

actually a boy aged 10 can get convicted of rape :rolleyes_

paedophilia isn't rape...

[Starburst..x]

Hmm I think thats a wierd tbh, considering if shes only fourteen that puts her in about year 10 at school, and seeing as he's twenty, he's old enough to of finished school, college and even be half way through university!
Thinking about the age-gap like that just makes it even more wrong to me.
My sister is fifteen and if she was to bring a twenty year old man home, I would seriously want to know what his intentions were! What on earth makes a twenty year old man look at a fourteen year old girl??!!...on second thoughts, I dont want to know.

Also just out of pure (and sociological) interest, if this was to be switched and it was a twenty year old woman going out with a fourteen year old boy, would some of you still have the thought "as long as their happy it's okay"? as those of you that said that seemed to be male as a majority. Many of you will say "yeah I still think the same" but if you were to read it in a newspaper i.e the ever trustworthy 'Sun', what would your honest opinion be?

[Kronics]

It's a bit dodgy, and yes he could get in to trouble. Us men always seem to get the blame :( But I would suggest telling your mate and talking to him about it.